What do you do if someone else introduces you to a girl. I find it kind of awkward and i haven't studied this. Because i didn't think i needed it but the opportunity almost came up today. I would have bombed had i went through with it. What should i do in this situation?

after intro

PUA: Hello
HB: Hi
PUA: So you finally get to meet me (CF)

Lashram's line is good.

Just realize that the "opener" is done, so you can proceed with building attraction.

What are the circumstances? Are you being introduced to her in a “Hope you two hit it off” sort of way, OR is she just a friend of a friend who was introduced to you?

In addition to that where are you being introduced? Is it just in a corridor or is it a night out bowling? These things matter, but here is my advice… if its worth anything?


A friend’s friend can be tricky to game, as in some respect you are attached to the outcome. You don’t want to seem to be acting strange in front of your pal, and you don’t want this girl to play up and tell your buddy you’re a dick. In addition to that, your buddy can become a weight, interrupting you and making things difficult.

As a result I’d just ensure you build some attraction, comfort and vibe just enough to ensure a second date, away from your buddy.

As you’re being introduced you have the ‘Hot Approach’, you don’t have to act like you don’t want to get to know her and you don’t care. If you get the impression she loves herself then move into cold approach.

Ensure you have three good stories that DHV, if possible make two of them about local places. The reason being you’ll offer to take her to these places, that can be the second date. If you don’t have any, think of somewhere fun you’d like to go and describe it in a positive way. If she says that she likes to sound of it, role play about going together and what will happen.

As so you don’t mess anything up, ensure you’re aware of what is likely going on in her mind, ensure you have read up on IOD and IOIs before you push too much onto her. If everything seems on, ask for the number... again can be tricking if your buddy is there.

You pal inst into this girl is he?

Good one. I don't know about cocky, but I'd definitely go with funny. Maybe a softer version of cocky funny. These types of "set ups" are often stress inducing for both parties. You want to blow through the stress of the situation and get into a comfortable vibe as quickly as possible, and humor is a good way to do this. Deflate the situation, make it seem like it's no big deal. Then build attraction, and connect. Listen to what she's saying and go with the flow.

Good luck. Let us know how it goes.

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Well the situation is my friends girlfriend says i should get a girlfriend lol. She will pretty much go up to the girl and point them to me this is at school. I find this kind of awkward because she says whenever i see a hot girl just say so and i dont know whats gonna happen after this. Another issue is most of the time there going somewhere so i probley wont have much time unless i make a good first impression.

Oh wow. This girl is opening girls up for you and trying to get you to talk to girls. It just doesn't get much easier than that dude. Just talk. About current topics or whatever is going on at school. Learn how to build attraction.

Attraction is one of my sticking points.

To build attraction, you need to be doing kino, listening to what she's saying, and keeping the conversation flowing by paying attention to the feelings and emotions behind what she's saying and responding to that. It takes practice, but it's worth the time spent.

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Its funny because the girl wanted me to approach by going up and slapping girls asses lol.

As most of the time I concur with tripp, but I may also add, that if this new girl is a looker, then you could just give a loosely verbal neg at her, first time you see fit.

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Well, that's one approach.
Not a particularly good one mind you, but it is an approach.

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Similar situation for me....

My friend and his girlfriend have been trying to set me up with a friend of theirs, but everyone is so busy this time of year we have not all gotten together yet. It could be really awkward. When I meet this girl (who is supposedly some sort of swimsuit model) I plan to diffuse the situation by turning it around on our common friends at first...

Be warm and friendly when we meet....then immediately diffuse the tension. "So what do you think about these two trying so hard to set us up?" "I guess they have had enough of aggravating each other....and so they have turned their attention to us" Etc. Etc. (An better ideas here. I want to turn it around on them, make it a DHV / status thing by knocking them down a notch, which is key considering the dynamics of them 'setting you up'. Besides....they are a couple so they wont care / be defensive. )

Then jump right into some C+F with HB....

"Of course you have no idea what kind of a favor they are doing for you....."

By the way, anyone have any good model negs..... I avoid talking job descriptions, but this one is to easy too pass up not bagging on. When she brings it up.....

#1 - Hb: "I am a model!" Me: "Like what...a hand model"?

#2 - We do not live in a a major metro area, so it can't be a full time career. This opens up the whole 'part time model' thing.

Hb: "I am a model!"
Me: "Really. Can't imagine there are many calls / callbacks in BFE. Can you really do that full time?
HB: "Well I also ......blah blah blah".
Me: "Oh so your more like a Part Time Model..... You know it just doesnt have the same ring to it. Imagine if I went up to a pretty girl and said....your so beuatiful....you could be a Part Time Model. Just doen't work the same."