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ok......i must say sorry to most of you guys......you guys seem nice and down to earth...and i was wrong to think that all of you were fooling yourselfs trying to trick woman in a most unusual way. so sorry, i was wrong
to the bouncer guy. good god man! if you even know what scott bao is doing and how some guy picked up his girl than you do have issues....and im not saying that bartending dosnt allow me to meet woman but if you are not being yourself when you speak to them whats the point? and a "pua" could do "ten times what i do in a bar" what does that mean? he brings home 10 girls that night...ofcourse not. if we both get 1 girl that night and he wakes up with 9 numbers in his pocket and me none...he dosnt win anything...cause i can still go to a bar the next night and get another.
and about me bartending....girls dont talk to bartenders cause they want them....they do it cause they are most likely the only guys in the bar that dont constantly hit on them...and they feel safe knowing that we are stuck working and if they are speak to us we cant follow them around all night like a drooling puppy.
and to the other guys, sorry again if i insulted you...be yourselfs, dont be shy, talk to girls that you really feel like talking to..not just cause she's a girl
and dont you think being a "pua" a.k.a. player is a bad thing? wouldnt you rather girls think that your a cool/confident guy? than you'll have girl-friends who have friends. you hang out, easy conversation and sooner or later there is a spark with one of them and your rolling.....you gain confidence speaking to woman(no pessure)..you have girls that your friends with...and you didnt play any games to "get" them...they like you for you...isnt that what we all want?
Listen Fry..
Being a bartender, surrounded by hot women nightly is an advantage no doubt.. I shudder to think what would happen if I was in a similar environment nightly. A prescription to valtrex comes to mind.
If you're really one, and got any intelligence at all you should understand what's going on here better than anyone.
There's a method to the madness.
By learning the game you don't have to leave anything up to chance. Or just respond to the girls who naturally respond to you. You have a choice in the matter.. And this choice extends far from what's going on inside your bar every night.
I call that empowerment.
Oh and buy the way, I'm sorry about your job, you having to hang out with all those flunkies nightly (that must be a real ego boost for you) and the fact that you have to live in Atlanta (better stock up on water bro)..
I haven't had a real one in years. Women pay my bills, when I'm not working for myself.. only. I do whatever the fuck I want in my shiny new F-150, when I'm not out here living in my log home I designed and built myself out here in the woods.
Want a few pointers?