So when i first met this girl she approached me (I had been checking her out for a while) and she said she met my mother and that she talked greatly about me, i was feeling the vibe and she seemed cool so i asked her for her number. She gave me it without any form of hesitation. So i told her i'd hit her up to chill sometime. Well i called her two nights later and she didnt answer so i said oh well i'll try tomorrow, so i did that, still no answer. So i said whatever and i thought about her a week later and tried to call her but again no answer and then i tried to text her to see whats up, still no response. I talked to her in person a few days later and she told me her phone fell in water and that she can make calls but can't receive them, so i said aight and gave her my number in that case. She didn't call me, so i waited like two weeks and called her again, still no answer. What confused me the most is that she seemed very interested (smiley, enthusiastic) legitimately. So at that point i was like screw this girl. A few dayw later my mom's friend who is friends with the girls mother told her that she said i call like ten times a day and that i'm a stalker who wont leave her alone, so i showed my mom my phone records and she only showed up in them twice so my mom gave her a buncha **** for it. Well i ran into some problems for 9 weeks at school and didn't show up at all and i saw her the next school year today. She waved at me like we were best friends or something and smiled as such too. So i wave back and i'm completely mindscrewed at what just took place. The girl who called me a stalker is waving at me seeming very interested again. On top of that, I was walking by the gas station today with my little brother and she rolled down the window of the car she was in and said "Heyyy!" and had a smile on her face like she was in love with me or something. I simply said hey back and continued walking because I was with my brother and didn't want to chat up some girl with him there (past reasons). I feel like I kinda blew her off though. And on top of that I haven't heard from her since, I've seen her at school and it's like she doesn't acknowledge me (or doesn't see me, not sure which) or perhaps she has some form of secret attraction to me that she doesn't want to burst out in public about. I want to get with her really bad but I have no idea what to think about her at this point, and I don't really see her anywhere besides school and we don't have any of the same classes. It's like I know her well and she knows me well but we've never really sat down and had a real conversation except for once which was before all that 9 weeks BS. Help?

Still looking for help on this subject...

Bump...

you are not a stalker, you just inexperienced with dating. even older guys have told me when a girl did not pick up when i called "call her again, women want to be pursued" but from practice, once they dont pick up once, they never pick up again. keeping calling someone who does not reply can make them think you are stalking them. so try not to pursue girls who dont return your call. so now with this girl, because she has that effect on you, making you think she likes you and you pursue her, i would say just move on and talk to other girls, you cannot win a woman with persistance, and if she is leading you on, that could get you in more trouble with her. best to really move on to better women who DO pick up when you call.

You are a weak, weak man and she's toying with you.

I cannot even fathom why you would want to be with a girl who had the guts to label you as a 'stalker', she's blowing hot and cold and without any known reason too.

Either you are a masochist or you are having a one girl fixation. None of that is healthy.

Cut your losses here and move on, that is the only advice you're going to get on this.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

So what ever happened to smash and pass...?

Ask her what the fuck is up, what do you got to lose.