Two of the latest girls I've seen have been from OKC and have each been an HB9/9.5. With both of them, the banter/negging went great online and led to a meet up. I hung out with both girls for a couple of hours in person and kiss closed each. Neither backed out from the make out, and they each seemed relatively into it at the moment.

BUT, each one acted similarly after: They both started to get distant and then said they wanted to just be friends (one said she's off guys all together, which is obviously BS, and the other just said we should stick to being friends).

Something about this doesn't seem right, so I'm thinking that maybe this is another shit test girls use. If so, is there any way to handle it? Or, is this one of those situations to take seriously and consider what other missteps I made earlier to cause it? Or, maybe they're feeling a little weird because it's online and moved so quickly, and it's my job to make them feel comfortable seeing things that way and just keep moving forward?

I could really use some help, seeing that I could imagine this becoming a trend.

THANKS

I am a salesman and I look at dates and conversations as sales pitches. If I get the same result multiple times and it is not what I am looking for, start looking at yourself and see what you need to change to get a different result. Analyze all parts of your game.

That's not really what I'm asking. We all know that hearing "I have a bf" can easily be a shit test. I'm thinking that maybe, after already k-closing, "let's just be friends" is a similar such test to see if I'm really committed or not. I'm also looking just to see if anyone else has heard "let's just be friends" and has still pushed through and closed.

What does it hurt to try? Tell her that you are not interested in just being friends. If it is a shit test then you win. If it isn't, you are being real and at least letting her entertain the idea of something more. What's the worst that could happen from it?