Hi Guys,
So I finally got some output last weekend.I was asking this chic if there was a starbucks close by .She actually started thinking and then tells me are you particular about that .I was like no .Then she said something and is like I am going to this blah blah coffee shop.You wanna come along? I was like yeah sure .In the way (which was very small ) I did neg her teasing her on why women dress so much.

Unfortunately though that damn shop was closed.I didnt know what to do.She was about to leave and then I had the courage to ask about her profile on FB and added her .I then said -"This coffee is due ...we should meet sometime "...she was cool and said yeah.
Now I am not sure as to what the next step should be ...I was thinking of messaging her on fb saying -"I'd be at this blah blah shop on Sunday.Lets meet at blah blah time for coffee".How does this sound?

Damn!!!!!

I wish I had your chances.

When the coffee spot was closed,you shoud've suggested another spot for an instant date.

It was your chance to be that man to lead her.

You messed up just there.

She would not have refused since she was actually looking to hang with you.

Damn,you really flubbed up there bro'!

To then opt for Fcebook-gaming is regressive gaming.

You're moving backwards.

Good lucc in trying to get her out Sunday.

You phrased it the best way(the would-be meet up),but I'd be surprised if she meets up with you.

You hadnt done anything to attract her so why would she go out with you?

Your only chance now is to try build something on Facebook.

But that's an uphill battle.

Im still let down that you didnt think fast enough to walk around and find an alternate spot.

That mistake may come back to haunt you.

It's those little things and missed chances which loses the girl.

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Haha dude ..do you think your bro here didnt ask her to go to an alternate place? ....I did (see didnt really look excited abt that) ..plus she was like- Nice to meet you....(on the way she had told me a guy would be coming to pick her up ..she is like I am not dating him blah blah) ...so she probably had to go (genuinely I think) [when I asked her FB .she did say -"I'd accept your request" quite categorically]....but anyways what is done is done ...I need to figure out what to do with this scene..and still score....can you help bro?

Bullshit bro',she was just testing you and trying to raise her value in your eyes by communicating that she has men in her life.

If she really had to go or really had some guy picking her up,why show you to a place to possibly have coffee?

She was just teting you for congruency and to see how persistent you were.

You failed her test.

Your job was to convince her that you were a better option than some other guy[assuming there's actually another guy].

This girl departed mighty fucking disappointed at you for not being alpha.

Even if it meant you getting down on your knees and saying to her,"Pretty please,fuck that other guy,we'd have a better time".

She would then oblige as she sees your frame being stronger than hers.

But you let her out frame you,thus she was the dominant one.

Thin line between needy & persistent.

But there come times where you may have to go closer to that line.

Persistent guys get laid.

You gave up instantly!!

She didnt seem too excited about going to another spot.

That's because you didnt seem excited about going to another spot.

You probably suggested in a semi-casual tone rather than lively.

So you made it easy for her to say no.

It happens to all of us[missed opportunities].

But if she's like most women,you will not get that shot again with her.

She expected you to persist but you didnt.

She's now disappointed in you for believing her lie about some other guy.

Learn from this.

Beg if you have to.

Women cannot say no(in such case).

If you had persist and insist,let's assume the other guy exists,she would've just did 1 of the following 2 things:

1)Call the guy,tell him she's ok,she got a ride.

2)Just dont give a shit about the guy and leave with you and ignore the other guy's phone call

She'd have most likely chosen #2.

Remember-woman's frame is weak.

They can easily be led astray.

I've had cases where the girl stood up here actual bf just to show me around town.

Bf kept calling,"where are you"?

She replies with some lie.

If I hadnt persist and seen through her BS,we would've never hooked up.

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No man ...I didnt say she left me for the other guy ...I am just saying she mentioned that to me while we were going ( when we didnt even know shop was closed ..and she made it a point to say - I am not dating him ..so maybe thats some hint she wanted to give ..I dont know...but anyways I think I'll try to ask her on FB and see what happens coz I cant undo what happened