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@Arandomdude-I already told you the likely reasons she's doing this.

Unless you cannot read or missed my posts.

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Stop going down on her, and if she freaks out about you not doing it, just say you don't like going down on her either. If she continues to freak, freeze her out hardcore. Not just ignoring it. Like put your pants on and make yourself some food or something. But the thing about freeze outs is it has to seem genuine. You can't let her know how manipulative this move is intended to be. Just act like you're turned off, and be like "Hey, I'm gonna go make some food, you want some?" and act like nothing wrong was done.
I just thought of something she said... She doesn't really care if I go down on her or not. The last time I ate her out, it was the first time in half a year that she received any oral (I offered it many times, but she declined). I'm guessing that she would feel obligated to return the favor if I DID give her oral. Cuz she DID give a bj last time I ate her out... but it was like 10 seconds long as I said in my first post. The only part that she CAN'T go without is probably the sex itself. So should I be withholding that from her?
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@Arndomdude-Lol,I've been there bro'.

We all should've been there.

This is what's going on.

My gf of 2 and a half years does this too at times.

Women(some)go through phases of shifting ideals.

1 minute they're vegetarians;the next carnivorous,celebate,etc.

A week ago actually,I met up with a former fucc-buddy who's from Leceister UK but vacations in my island.

She once gave me the best head I ever got in my friggin' life.

Now in 2011,she claims she's celebate.

Women are easily influenced by what they read and watch on fuccing Oprah.

About a year ago,my MILF gf told me that she doesnt want to go down on me anymore cause she read a newspaper article saying oral sex can lead to...

Whatever the fuck the article said;I didnt pay any mind.

I wanted to kill the doc' who wrote it(lol).

But for the following weeks,I didnt get any head.

And when I did,it was lazily done,and he complained about this hurt,etc.

Months later,she me bacc around and crawled out of that phobia phase from what she read.

Another reason chiccs do this shit is religion.

I had a girl who liked to take it up the ass.

She watched some Christian shit on TV where the preacher was saying anal sex is a sin because it cannot procreate.

From then on,that girl was againt anal sex.

My point?

I'd been fortunate to have those girls be open with me and tell me the causes of their "not wanting to go down,etc."

Your gf,for whatever reason isnt comfortable with letting you know what made her not want to go down nowadays.

But it most likely comes down to

1)Religion

2)Her Friends being anti-oral

3)Or something she read or watched on TV being anti-oral.

Only you could narrow it down to the likely of the 3 reasons.
1. She's not really that religious. She's a Christian, but she's the type who just doesn't follow the rules.

2. All her friends give BJ's, so I don't think she's getting any influence there...

3. I doubt that she read or watched anything like that on TV. Cuz she said when she THINKS about giving me a blowjob, it feels like something she REALLY wants to do. She just doesn't like it anymore when she actually tries it... which leaves me confused :?
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Be a tease and stop going all the way. start making out getting a little heavy, then when she starts to undress herself/you.... say you know i'm not really in the mood right now or, you know i'm tired let's do this later, or just get and go make a sandwhich and leave her on the bed.... do this EVERY TIME you guys start to get heavy for a couple weeks then she'll likely start sucking you just to get sex finally.
I think I'm gonna try this. It's gonna require a little sacrifice from me lol, but I'll live :P And hopefully the results with be worth it!
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The only part that she CAN'T go without is probably the sex itself. So should I be withholding that from her?
Well, lead her into it.

Then just get up, get into your pants and walk into the kitchen.

If she asks what's going on.. tell her you aren't "feeling like it" or "I want a sandwich/beer/anything to eat."

Do that a couple of times with different excuses and she'll be right back into servicing the helmeted warrior.

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I just thought of something she said... She doesn't really care if I go down on her or not. The last time I ate her out, it was the first time in half a year that she received any oral (I offered it many times, but she declined). I'm guessing that she would feel obligated to return the favor if I DID give her oral. Cuz she DID give a bj last time I ate her out... but it was like 10 seconds long as I said in my first post. The only part that she CAN'T go without is probably the sex itself. So should I be withholding that from her?
Sex without oral? What's the point? That's what guys do with prostitutes and ONS's!

This is your girlfriend, you've gotta learn to tear that thing up! If she doesn't want oral, it's because you (pardon the pun) suck at it or maybe she knows you don't truly enjoy it so she resists. There's some good books out there on technique, you need to study up and have fun with it. Don't ask her is she wants it, just get her all hot and naked and go to town. Make her feel you're enjoying it even more than she is. She'll thank you for it!

Do NOT withhold oral, it'll just kill what's left if your sex life and ultimately your relationship. Your best plan is to give her a half dozen mind blowing orgasms and she'll feel the urge to make you feel good too.

If this doesn't work, time for a new chick!
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@Arandondude-This will be my last post on this thread.

No more time wasted on guys too hard-headed to see the light.

You seem to lack the mental faculty to read between lines to quit with the child-games.

I dont blame your gf for not wanting to go down on you anymore.

Hope she enjoys going down on another guy;perhaps then you'd smell the coffee.

What dont you comprehend about girls' frames being weak?

The scenarios I gave were just examples.

She didnt have to get the idea from Oprah,so for you to say,"I doubt she watches anything on TV",it's pretty damn idiotic.

2nd.ly,you assumed and said that all her friends go down or currently give head.

How the hell would you know that unless all of her friends are giving you head.

So dont be an asshole!

You dont know what she talks about with her social group/gf's.

For instance,this' how women/girls funtion and how much they follow and adopt their friends' opinions:

Girl 1:"That dress make you look fat".

Girl 2:"Really"!

Then girl 2 will never wear that dress again becasue her friend(girl 1)didnt approve.

Girl 1:"I watched a show last night talking about all men with tatoos cheat".

Girl 2:"Really?!My bf has 3".

Next thing you know,your gf will be accusing you of cheating or acting funny out of the blue.

Another example:

Girl 1:"I stopped going down on men.It's not healthy".

Girl 2:"Really?Bullshit!

Next thing you know,girl 2(your gf)stops going down on you,or doesnt want to.

So Arandomdude,you need to wake the hell up and stop acting like a friggin' 15 year old;which you may be.

If you cannot see that women are controlled by her friends and social group,then you need to do a bit more growing up.

A girl's friends can say to her,"your bf is a looser,we dont like him.Break up with him,find someone better".

She will then give you hell,stop providing for you sexually then dump your ass.

So keep thinking there's some Zen-type reason why your gf wont go down.

She's preparing to dump you.

So grow up,smell the coffee beans,and stop being a childish-dicc head.

I tried helping you out while other posters clowned around about you not being hygenic down stairs.

Instead of conidering my post,you chosed to address insults,which only says how immature you are and you dont deserve a gf.

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I just thought of something she said... She doesn't really care if I go down on her or not. The last time I ate her out, it was the first time in half a year that she received any oral (I offered it many times, but she declined). I'm guessing that she would feel obligated to return the favor if I DID give her oral. Cuz she DID give a bj last time I ate her out... but it was like 10 seconds long as I said in my first post. The only part that she CAN'T go without is probably the sex itself. So should I be withholding that from her?
Sex without oral? What's the point? That's what guys do with prostitutes and ONS's!

This is your girlfriend, you've gotta learn to tear that thing up! If she doesn't want oral, it's because you (pardon the pun) suck at it or maybe she knows you don't truly enjoy it so she resists. There's some good books out there on technique, you need to study up and have fun with it. Don't ask her is she wants it, just get her all hot and naked and go to town. Make her feel you're enjoying it even more than she is. She'll thank you for it!

Do NOT withhold oral, it'll just kill what's left if your sex life and ultimately your relationship. Your best plan is to give her a half dozen mind blowing orgasms and she'll feel the urge to make you feel good too.

If this doesn't work, time for a new chick!
Trust me, it's got nothing to do with my skill. I HAVE read all those oral books. And I can give her orgasms SUPER easily. She's just not willing to give back...
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@Arandondude-This will be my last post on this thread.

No more time wasted on guys too hard-headed to see the light.

You seem to lack the mental faculty to read between lines to quit with the child-games.

I dont blame your gf for not wanting to go down on you anymore.

Hope she enjoys going down on another guy;perhaps then you'd smell the coffee.

What dont you comprehend about girls' frames being weak?

The scenarios I gave were just examples.

She didnt have to get the idea from Oprah,so for you to say,"I doubt she watches anything on TV",it's pretty damn idiotic.

2nd.ly,you assumed and said that all her friends go down or currently give head.

How the hell would you know that unless all of her friends are giving you head.

So dont be an asshole!

You dont know what she talks about with her social group/gf's.

For instance,this' how women/girls funtion and how much they follow and adopt their friends' opinions:

Girl 1:"That dress make you look fat".

Girl 2:"Really"!

Then girl 2 will never wear that dress again becasue her friend(girl 1)didnt approve.

Girl 1:"I watched a show last night talking about all men with tatoos cheat".

Girl 2:"Really?!My bf has 3".

Next thing you know,your gf will be accusing you of cheating or acting funny out of the blue.

Another example:

Girl 1:"I stopped going down on men.It's not healthy".

Girl 2:"Really?Bullshit!

Next thing you know,girl 2(your gf)stops going down on you,or doesnt want to.

So Arandomdude,you need to wake the hell up and stop acting like a friggin' 15 year old;which you may be.

If you cannot see that women are controlled by her friends and social group,then you need to do a bit more growing up.

A girl's friends can say to her,"your bf is a looser,we dont like him.Break up with him,find someone better".

She will then give you hell,stop providing for you sexually then dump your ass.

So keep thinking there's some Zen-type reason why your gf wont go down.

She's preparing to dump you.

So grow up,smell the coffee beans,and stop being a childish-dicc head.

I tried helping you out while other posters clowned around about you not being hygenic down stairs.

Instead of conidering my post,you chosed to address insults,which only says how immature you are and you dont deserve a gf.
Woah dude, I never meant to insult you about anything. I was just saying that she's not the type who is easily influenced by others. She does what SHE wants. Not what other people tell her she should do. So I think her reason for keeping BJ's from me is something that she came up with on her own. I wasn't trying to be an asshole to you.
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I love how all these self-claimed PUA's are saying "Next girl". You guys are gonna be great boyfriends, remember this boys you don't stay single your whole life and like many mPUA's people will start to have relationship issues. They were used to having tons of girls and one night stands that one woman just doesn't do for them. I'm not against threesomes and one night stands, not at all. I'm just saying that you guys are exaggerating by saying "Next". She's his gf ... They can and should solve the problem, you're used to leaving women whenever a problem occurs but that's not how it works in real life. Of course it's all up to him if he decides not getting head for a while is a big enough reason to leave her then go ahead.
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Trust me, it's got nothing to do with my skill. I HAVE read all those oral books. And I can give her orgasms SUPER easily. She's just not willing to give back...
So she doesn't enjoy multiple orgasms and she won't blow you. My next thought is that she needs some therapy to get past this, which is way beyond the scale of this forum.

Personally I think if a girl says "I don't care if you go down on me or not", it screams you're not doing it right, no matter what you think is the case. Another possibility is she's already mentally checked out of the relationship and she truly doesn't care.

Your choices seem to be, stay with a non-sexual woman and learn to live with it, or find a girl who is more sexually on the same level with you. Personally, for me, no oral is a deal breaker. Life is too short and filled with too many women.
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I love how all these self-claimed PUA's are saying "Next girl". You guys are gonna be great boyfriends, remember this boys you don't stay single your whole life and like many mPUA's people will start to have relationship issues. They were used to having tons of girls and one night stands that one woman just doesn't do for them. I'm not against threesomes and one night stands, not at all. I'm just saying that you guys are exaggerating by saying "Next". She's his gf ... They can and should solve the problem, you're used to leaving women whenever a problem occurs but that's not how it works in real life. Of course it's all up to him if he decides not getting head for a while is a big enough reason to leave her then go ahead.


100000000% correct most of the guys in this forum haven had a girlfriend for more than 5 seconds, please do not get me started on that, dude very simple it could be hygiene, it could be laziness, or it could be she is getting comfortable in the relationship have a heart to heart talk we her, something, like a babe i love you and i am happy, but before it gets to the point were i get TEMPTED, to cheat on of you because i am not getting my NEEDS met, i just want to talk to you and tell you how i feel: i need you to step up and give me more oral sex, is there anything i can do, shave, wash better, maybe flavor lotions for dick sucking etc... Use this routine do not deviate, do not attack, make her be blunt, and open up.

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@Gameison-Great point bro'.

Many AFC's or newbies in the community are quick to say NEXT randomly.

But here comes a point in game where laying many chic becomes jaded.

I've been with my MILF gf for 2 and a half years now.

Over a year now on this site,I had gf issues and many so-called gurus kept telling me to next her,opposed to working it out.

Im still with her to this day because I worked it out and not get cajoled by wanna-be PUA's who arent getting laid.

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One more line after what i just told you to do, remember timing, tone of voice etc.. Do my routine during the date night and start by saying babe we got a talk(she would be scare to death, she will think is a break up, keep her in suspense), her heart will be going crazy, take at least 5 minutes, a lot of acting, after you do the routine i told you at the very end, add do you know what is the number 1 cause of break up??? she will say sex, finances.... Yes very good choices, but the root of all break up is selfishness, you need to put your partner first... let me know if she sucked dude... hahahhahaa! If this did not work, something is wrong, make sure you are circumcised...If you are not circumcised, then she may never suck it..

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I love how all these self-claimed PUA's are saying "Next girl". You guys are gonna be great boyfriends, remember this boys you don't stay single your whole life and like many mPUA's people will start to have relationship issues. They were used to having tons of girls and one night stands that one woman just doesn't do for them. I'm not against threesomes and one night stands, not at all. I'm just saying that you guys are exaggerating by saying "Next". She's his gf ... They can and should solve the problem, you're used to leaving women whenever a problem occurs but that's not how it works in real life. Of course it's all up to him if he decides not getting head for a while is a big enough reason to leave her then go ahead.
Great points. I want to be able to work this out with her. Especially having already been with her for 10 months now.
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