Out of curiosity...
How much time do you allow to pass between relationships?
do you jump in bed with a new girl the following weekend?
Do you let a little time pass?

I mean obviously it's going to be different dependent on the relationship, but I'm just interested in opinions.
Also, what would you consider a dry spell? A month? 6? A year?

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It all depends.

But a major prob' I find with guys new to the community,or just guys in general,is that they settle for the first girl they managed to lay.

After a break up,last thing on a guy's mind should be LTR.

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K-Loc's absolutely right. An LTR is a major deal. If it isn't a big thing to you, ie you jump into them quickly and don't take a lot of time getting to know the person first, then in your mind it won't seem important, and the LTR will most likely fail. Also, you won't value the woman for who she is, but rather what she can do for you. It's just all around bad business that will create problems.

Now jumping into bed with a different girl the next weekend, nothing wrong with that. But don't start an LTR.

What exactly are you referring to as a dry spell? Sex or relationship?

@FreshPrince-Lol I couldn't have said it any better.

Great advise.

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Normally after I get out of an LTR I can't wait to start banging randoms again. Actually the first few months after I get out of a LTR I normally get heaps of pussy.

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ok well as for the dry spell question i was talking strictly sex...

also i am fresh out of a ltr. i am thinking i want to meet a few girls who i can have sort of casual flings with because i am not ready to be anything more again. i still wanna enjoy things like dates and spooning but i dont want to have that boyfriend label just yet. good idea? because i havent had sex in a month and right now i would hump the fucking couch that i am sitting on lol

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For one night stands..it can go from the same day to a week. For a relationship, it depends...sometimes one need to take the time it takes. All depends on how much it hurt.

It really depends on the person. Some people go out every night and get laid, so if they go for three days without sex, it's killing them. Others go out once a week, so they won't notice it for about a month. It really depends on what your normal schedule is like.