Ok I'm really confused about this situation. My girlfriend doesn't want to give me blowjobs anymore because, suddenly, she seems to "not like it." Last time she tried, she sucked for about 10 seconds, and then stopped. Right after, she seemed to almost gag and then she spit out all her saliva. I wasn't even grabbing her head or thrusting or anything like that. But the weird thing is... she used to say she loved giving me bj's.

Even now, she says when she THINKS about giving me one, it turns her on... but when she actually DOES it, she "doesn't like it." And she "doesn't know why." I'm thinking this is a BS answer, but she insisted that she couldn't figure out why she suddenly hates giving me blowjobs now.

She certainly has no problem with fucking, and having me eat HER out, but she seems unwilling to give when it comes to bj's. Then she even started coming up with stupid excuses like, "I have trouble breathing because of my asthma. So I have to breathe through my nose AND my mouth at the same time." Any help guys?

Time for a new girl!

1, make sure you wash yourself better.
2, shave.
3, make sure she knows you enjoy it when she does it. ( dont be totally quie

bust a nut in her sister's mouth as soon as possible.

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Well, don't give her that either.

Tell her, "I'm afraid my teeth will corrode or something."

The Asthma one was a bad excuse.

Or, do what Mack says.

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Stop going down on her, and if she freaks out about you not doing it, just say you don't like going down on her either. If she continues to freak, freeze her out hardcore. Not just ignoring it. Like put your pants on and make yourself some food or something. But the thing about freeze outs is it has to seem genuine. You can't let her know how manipulative this move is intended to be. Just act like you're turned off, and be like "Hey, I'm gonna go make some food, you want some?" and act like nothing wrong was done.

@Arndomdude-Lol,I've been there bro'.

We all should've been there.

This is what's going on.

My gf of 2 and a half years does this too at times.

Women(some)go through phases of shifting ideals.

1 minute they're vegetarians;the next carnivorous,celebate,etc.

A week ago actually,I met up with a former fucc-buddy who's from Leceister UK but vacations in my island.

She once gave me the best head I ever got in my friggin' life.

Now in 2011,she claims she's celebate.

Women are easily influenced by what they read and watch on fuccing Oprah.

About a year ago,my MILF gf told me that she doesnt want to go down on me anymore cause she read a newspaper article saying oral sex can lead to...

Whatever the fuck the article said;I didnt pay any mind.

I wanted to kill the doc' who wrote it(lol).

But for the following weeks,I didnt get any head.

And when I did,it was lazily done,and he complained about this hurt,etc.

Months later,she me bacc around and crawled out of that phobia phase from what she read.

Another reason chiccs do this shit is religion.

I had a girl who liked to take it up the ass.

She watched some Christian shit on TV where the preacher was saying anal sex is a sin because it cannot procreate.

From then on,that girl was againt anal sex.

My point?

I'd been fortunate to have those girls be open with me and tell me the causes of their "not wanting to go down,etc."

Your gf,for whatever reason isnt comfortable with letting you know what made her not want to go down nowadays.

But it most likely comes down to

1)Religion

2)Her Friends being anti-oral

3)Or something she read or watched on TV being anti-oral.

Only you could narrow it down to the likely of the 3 reasons.

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Hey Random dude,checc out a blog post I wrote in my blog specifically on this matter.https://kennyspuathoughts.wordpress.com ... -religion/

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Be a tease and stop going all the way. start making out getting a little heavy, then when she starts to undress herself/you.... say you know i'm not really in the mood right now or, you know i'm tired let's do this later, or just get and go make a sandwhich and leave her on the bed.... do this EVERY TIME you guys start to get heavy for a couple weeks then she'll likely start sucking you just to get sex finally.

Next Girl.

Try putting some whipped cream on it before she gives you a bj

Lol! She sucks great if I could just get her to do it

I already do all of the above. Trust me, she has no reason to dislike it for hygiene issues.

Hahahaha you've got the best sense of humor in this forum. Any serious suggestions?

Hahahahahahahaha I'm gonna use that! But yeah, I should probably make her see that there are consequences when she only wants to receive and not give.