forced to interact with female i failed with before. wut do?



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SilkyJohnson
PostPosted: Thu Aug 18, 2011 6:58 pm 
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A girl comes into my work every few days for her work and I am forced to give her service. I failed with her hard a while ago and then she left town for like 6 months.

she is back now and we are in the same position. I am doing a little better than last time but I can tell it isnt going anywhere.

Right now I basically just act like everything is cool. If I had it my way I wouldnt even be talking to this girl because it sux too much.

what would you do?
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Act natural, as if her presence doesn't even phase you. It will only be awkward if you make it awkward by showing her that you feel insecure and ashamed when she walks into the room. Just talk to her as you would one of your male customers, and whatever you do, don't try to hit on her. Realistically, you're probably not going to get with her, but you can at least make your interactions with her more enjoyable for the both of you instead of going through a dreaded ordeal every time she comes in. My two cents.
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Oh, and make sure to smile and be friendly! Don't be smug and spiteful towards her, regardless of what she does.
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Exactly.. Just act like you don't care. And don't hit on her, because it seems you've missed that train allready. On the more positive note, if you pull it of to be cool, she'll see that you're not phased at all by her, and it might also change the way she thinks of you now. Don't count on it though.

Maybe someone else could give his opinion about that last part too.
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I'm in a similar situation, this hb9 is a close friend of a friend of mine, she approached me with gazillion iois an guess what i did, worst idea ever, gave her hard iods. She felt rejected and stuff and screwed it. Next time i see her ill act naturally and talk to her and go from there, hoping for a second chance.
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I'm in a similar situation, this hb9 is a close friend of a friend of mine, she approached me with gazillion iois an guess what i did, worst idea ever, gave her hard iods. She felt rejected and stuff and screwed it. Next time i see her ill act naturally and talk to her and go from there, hoping for a second chance.
I have noticed that this is a big newb mistake probably because IOD's are the biggest change in your persona when learning this.

you gotta be careful with them. like the main thing of game is when to give IOD's and IOI's and if you get it backwards its like shooting yourself in the foot.

and if your a good looking guy, oh lord watch out, if you dont put a smile on, just stay home or you will get verbally beat to hell by women.
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The thing is that you're consciously trying to ignore her and to not show a reaction towards here. That is what's making you feel bad, not her.

Just don't think of her as anything else than a woman you provide your service to. Don't do anything out of your way just to not speak to her or notice her.

This is the time when your professionalism should shine through. Do that.

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The thing is that you're consciously trying to ignore her and to not show a reaction towards here. That is what's making you feel bad, not her.

Just don't think of her as anything else than a woman you provide your service to. Don't do anything out of your way just to not speak to her or notice her.

This is the time when your professionalism should shine through. Do that.
I have actually just tried to even get into the friend zone with her. i would be happy with that cause she just seems like a chill girl. she wont even have that. she is too shy and she says she is only shy with me. she "doesnt know what to say" lol. wtf....

she is the shyest girl i have ever met and one of the hottest. she looks EXACTLY like the brunette in the AD on this site right above the "click here!" button. the one that is only showing her face.
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