I just found an old classmate that I havent seen in YEARS! I always wanted to fuck this chik but never had the balls or skills too. She was one of my best friends in HS and we hung out all the time.

Well fast forward like 7 years! I found her on myspace and we have been chatting, but it is weird though she doesnt have any pics and she only responds at work not at home. Turns out she is newly married but married life isnt as good as she imagined.... she married the guy she lost her virginity too!! WTF! crazy!

So I plan to build back some comfort and attraction again to try to hook up with her. Any suggestions? it has been over 7 years and I have totally changed.. for the better mostly. I am not the scrawny wimp from HS but im not cocky either, I have a succesful career and she works at a call center for peanuts... (not that anything is wrong with that)

I REALLY liked her and I hope we can click like we did in the past.

Any suggestions? tips?

Thanks

i wouldnt recommend gamming a married girl, even if shes hating marriage. not cool. theres tons more 9s and 10s out there that would probably be easier to target, and also give you less guilt after getting with em.

-just a suggestion though, you can do what you like.
good luck

I know I know!

I knew that someone would bring it up, anyone else?

I know you're looking for advice, not a lecture.

Too bad.

If you mess with a married woman, someone in the triangle (you, her, hubby) is going to get hurt. At least one of the three, maybe all of you.

If she were separated that would be one thing, but if she's still in it with this chump, I would keep options open with friendly chat, but not close till the marriage explodes. You do NOT want to be the reason she leaves him, either. Don't make any promises, or encourage this. You'll end up with a psycho on your hands.

Sorry for all the blah blah blah but I'd hate to see you caught up in something ugly down the line just for a little nooky.

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Totally understand.

does the same go for engaged chicks? i just met this really hot friend of a friend and she is engaged. i decided it would be wrong to game her...

Think about it this way. If some smooth PUA came and seduced your mom while she was/is engaged/married to your dad, how would you feel about that?

You have to decide for yourself what is ethical, and how best to create good karma. When you meet the right girl and put a $10,000 rock on her ring finger, do you want other guys hitting on her?

What goes around comes around.

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