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Daygame like usual, but ditch the DHV you gave and replace them with some more C/F material. By reading your post I'm guessing the basis is there, so I'm leaving all that behind. Just do your thing here, try talking about non-church stuff, show your adventurous side, talk in a visualizing manner just to get her imagination going. Just when things start to hit off and you could normally easily get a #C or small kiss, don't do anything. Don't in any way let her know you're interested, just let her think this was one awesome, genuine convo, albeit at church. Go home when church is over, and again don't exchange anything.
Yea, I did ditch the DHV, what with the not approaching to begin with.
This was my first time going to that church, so the schedule didn't go as I expected, and I was thinking it was going to be much smaller, so meeting people would have been unavoidable, not the case.
I mean, that's how I prefer to rationalize it...
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Next week (I presume you guys go weekly?) talk to her before the service. Get her laughs going, reminiscence about your great talk last week. Then all of a sudden, suggest ditching church for an insta-date. Do it subtle though, tell her she HAS to try this amazing bagelshop RIGHT NOW with some sort of suddenly ignited fire within you. Incidentally she does have to ditch church for that. Oh well. You have a fire and needs to be extinguished by whatever excuse you just made up.
I mean, I don't believe in god, so I didn't plan on going next week.
That's why I opened with "I live in bumfuck, Florida and we have no malls ect..."
I dig the insta-date idea though.
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But hey, like I said, I have zero experience with church-gaming, so who knows if churchditching is even socially or morally acceptable. This is however the best way I see to actually make something out of gaming at the church instead of a random #C.
If I thought I could ID then I definitely would have. But again, I didn't know the schedule of the church, the only time I could have gamed was when people were waiting to leave. (I'm just going to pretend it was the 3 minute rule, not AA

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I just wanted to do some arbitrary practice, buuuuut, you know...
I did talk to a girl I previously knew, managed to get some kino, but not much else.
So, it was only, like 99% failure, not total.
