Girl and I used to have some sparks, had a class together and hung out. Went to a bar with some friends a couple months ago and she invited herself. Texted me the next day saying she had fun and wanted to know if I was doing anything like it again. Just said yes, but she didn't invite herself again. Texted her a month or so ago but didn't get a response.

Got a text from her asking about finding a room. Texted her back that I was moving out so that might work, just to gauge her response. The response she gave was all business. Nothing about where I was going or why. Kind of expected at least some curiosity, she was badgering me for info at the bar. Her friend has plenty of time to find a place too so it wasn't a rushed text.

Not sure what to text her back.

That's a confused woman there. Maybe, she's just an attention seeker and using you for getting what she wants.

Doctor's prescription : Don't reply to her messages. Don't take her calls. Give her a taste of her own medicine.

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[/quote]Doctor's prescription : Don't reply to her messages. Don't take her calls. Give her a taste of her own medicine.[/quote]

exactly.

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damnit i can never get those quotes to work haha

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Thank you for the advice. The problem is I already do that. We've known each other for a long time, just not very well. I didn't see her after our class for nearly a year, saw her randomly and asked to chill sometime. She gave me her number and we went to some park. Texted and hung out randomly every once in a while but it's no big thing for either of us not to hear from the other in like a month. Weird, i know, but she's a weird person and most people describe me as "aloof". When we do something we both have fun and get touchy, granted haven't kissed the girl. I'm mostly pissed she doesn't seem to want to be friends. Anytime I mention i'm moving a friend would ask where/why.

Basically, if I never text back neither will she. Unless she needs something.

She didn't invite herself? Why didn't you invite her out?

It's not that complicated, you dropped the ball on this one.

I wasn't actually going out. What's the harm in being a little douchebaggy? Her reply was something to the effect of "umm, okay lol"

I'm just saying when a girl makes it clear she wants to hang out with you, you gotta pick up the ball and run with it. The harm in being a little "douchebaggy" is that you blow golden opportunities like this one.

Windows open, then they close.

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Windows open, then they close.[/quote]

keep in mind that bricks open windows....

i.e. if she is worth it to you be bold
if you lose out then fuck it, like you said you probably wont talk to her again

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