Hey all,

I want to start doing some daygame approaching. However I've never really done this before. Can anyone suggest good openers besides asking for the time etc?

Also does anyone know of a good series newbie missions?

Cheers!

- Enigma 7

Follow this trajectory and see how you fare:

Interact with a cute girl behind a register (so buy something) with the goal of getting some IOI. This is fairly easy, as there's a given time constraint (other customers) and because you don't do the standard "hi thanks bye" customer routine she'll be charmed easily. 'AFC' openers will tend to work in this situation, because you didn't walk up to her just for convo, but just conversating for convo's sake. You can even make a remark about the weather, as long as you make a funny remark later on. Making her laugh is all that counts.

The IOI you're aiming for is this:
Upon handing her the money, place it slowly in her hand and softly brush it as you take your hand away. Keep looking her in the eye. When you receive the change, see if she does the same. You'll be surprised about how much this happens.
Now make a flirtatious comment, she'll most likely blush and look away smiling.
Mission accomplished.

With the knowledge in the back of your head that in theory you've picked someone up, walk around town with boosting confidence and say hi to every girl you see with a big smile on your face projecting the success you already had earlier on.

Upon walking, open girls using the following openers:

-The standard; "hey got the time/a light/know the way to whatever"
-The 'AFC'; "Hey I'm heading over to a friend so I don't have the time to get to know you, but I know I'll punch myself in the head if I don't do this. Can I get your number? I you're not interested just fill in a fake. I'm not a stalker I swear. Or maybe I am, you'll have to find out" Hand her your phone.
-The PUA opinion opener. This could be anything, but try to keep it in a shopping context (hey I'm buying stuff for my sister, but I'm not sure if.... etc), who knows if she'll eventually even go with you shopping. You'd have to buy something for your made-up sister's birthday, but it's most likely worth it.

I suggest using each opener on 3 girls, so open a total of 9 girls. Maybe a 10th to make the number round, and just for fun's fake.

Why the different openers? Daygame is a lot different than nightgame, so you have to recalibrate by measuring different reactions. It will give you insight in how girls react differently, and because of this you'll be able to open naturally instead of always having a can full of openers in the back of your head.

Here's the challenge I personally set for you. Don't close anything. No kisses, no numbers, nothing. You're not allowed to. This is going to be your testday, and everything that happens has no effect on your real life. As a matter of fact, try to screw up after opening. If you have the right mindset for this you'll learn tremendous amounts and avoid the bad feeling after failing. After all, you actually were made to screw up that day, I told you.

This is somewhat of a "When heading west, travel east until you reach your destination. That way you'll know the entire world" kind of philosophies.

Try it out then post here how it went. Looking forward to the results!

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Go.

dont waste your time, go direct.

its common to believe that going direct is a harsher rejection, its the contrary for me. If i go indirect its " why the fuck are you asking me?"

If you go direct the girl knows you arent bullshitting her and if she doesnt like you, shell either be a socialable person and say "have a nice day" or, "no thanks". and the latter isnt as bad as it sounds.

one thing though... if you go direct and number close, and you dont get it a flake, almost guranteed lay.

Ya direct is great for daygame.

The best way to do direct openers is to stop her , from going past you or what she was doing politely by saying exuse me , then tell her what you were doing and how you noticed her. After that you can give her a compliment , nothing too heavy use somthing light like - I thought you were cute / adorable.

After that just talk about what shes doing today , what kind of person she is , ect.

A good newbie mission for direct game is everytime you go out to do this , approach 5 women in the way I wrote and say you are really cute.

Doing this forms a approach habbit and you begin to approach more and more.

By the way , during the newbie mission it dosent have to go anywhere with those girls , the only criteria for success is to approach.