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PostPosted: Wed Aug 17, 2011 7:10 pm 
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Does anyone else game women without actually gaming them? Case and point....I have nearly broken up a marriage...no, actually two...I have a friend now who's BF is so jealous of me she has to ask permission to hang out, another who is engaged (who I went out with a long time ago) who literally comments on everything I do on FB and texts 50+ a day...Another one who pulling girlfriend type shit like "How is your day sweety" despite having a boyfriend. Another one gets crazy jealous if I talk about other women.....What do all these women have in common? They are all either married, engaged or have a Bf.

Look I have never run game on any of these women. Other than trying out new material on occasion. I hate BF destroyer game, along with marriage/engaged game. Not my thing, plus Karma....I have even made a concerted effort to establish them in the friend zone.

Is it possible to game people without actually running game? Also how do I get these chicks to cool out, they might have hot friends who I have yet to meet. It's like I am chick crack for women in relationships without trying, but the women who are available, I have to game to get laid. I know what you're going to say, monitor behavior and such, but I try and treat everyone exactly the same...well accept I might be a little nicer to my friends....still that should put me further in friend territory. Comments? Questions? Jeers?


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PostPosted: Wed Aug 17, 2011 7:34 pm 
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Stay away from women in serious relationships.

There Are plenty of singles to kick it with

Also a load of guy friends to make


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Stay away from women in serious relationships.

There Are plenty of singles to kick it with

Also a load of guy friends to make
I get ya, have plenty of single friends and guys I hang out with, but every single girl in a relationship I seem to interact with for long enough, goes fucking nuts.


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Stay away from women in serious relationships.

There Are plenty of singles to kick it with

Also a load of guy friends to make
I get ya, have plenty of single friends and guys I hang out with, but every single girl in a relationship I seem to interact with for long enough, goes fucking nuts.
Lol you must be bored dude.

Keep your distance an everything will be fine


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Stay away from women in serious relationships.

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I get ya, have plenty of single friends and guys I hang out with, but every single girl in a relationship I seem to interact with for long enough, goes fucking nuts.
Lol you must be bored dude.

Keep your distance an everything will be fine
Maybe....I did just notice I texted another one and we were talking about her wedding or something, and I disqualified her, told her I would have dumped her, the whole nine-yards and she played right along....maybe I am subconsciously gaming them. Well shit.


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The thing is this, the level of your game has seeped so much into your person, that even unintentionally you're saying things which are pulling women you know, women who are in 'serious' relationships, towards you.

At that point you'll have to come clear to stop that from going any further.

"Look, we've been having a great interaction, but you also need to realize that you're committed. And I respect that."

If she still persists, "We've been having a great time, but this is as far as I can go with you. You've a good relationship/you're engaged/you're getting maried.. you are happy with that. So am I."

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 18, 2011 7:53 am 
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The thing is this, the level of your game has seeped so much into your person, that even unintentionally you're saying things which are pulling women you know, women who are in 'serious' relationships, towards you.

At that point you'll have to come clear to stop that from going any further.

"Look, we've been having a great interaction, but you also need to realize that you're committed. And I respect that."

If she still persists, "We've been having a great time, but this is as far as I can go with you. You've a good relationship/you're engaged/you're getting maried.. you are happy with that. So am I."
Wow, that sucks, and is kind of nice. Kind of like a Midas touch of pickup. I really don't want to be "that guy" spot on as always Don.


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