I've been seeing this one girl I really like, but she's pretty far away for a while, (afc me right? fuck it shes worth it) anyway, have you guys got any tips on cybering or getting her comfortable to do stuff on cam. I think she's be up for it, but i've never really had to do this before. I need to get her turned on enough just by using my keyboard. Not exactly my forte lol

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One of the hardest things to do is actually get a girl to have cyber sex because you cant use kinos and youre not physically there like, to make it happen though she either has to be one of two things: have trust in you, or be really horny and up for a bit of fun, be witty, flirty and be a pioneer, take the first step and I'm sure she'll follow

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why waste the time? i've had it and it takes so long and its pretty boring.. the way it happened to me was the girl started teasing me, pretending like she is going to lift her shirt and then stopping.. hope that helps..

Getting a girl on cam is not all that difficult, but it can rely heavily on your looks.
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If you do not want to rely solely on your looks, I would advice the 'good boobs' test.

I believe it's Ross Jefferies who says that cyber sex is for chumps, because the girl is getting off without you physically there to anchor to these good feelings. In other words, you do work, no benefit beyond getting your rocks off once.

You're officially one-itis struck. The moment you say she is far away, acknowledge its an an AFC move, but then say she's worth it, you are struck. You can go ahead and do it, it's somethin to do I suppose. But look at it this way, the time you spend gaming a chick to engage in virtual sex could be spent gaming women in real life to have real life sex...which is way better.

On another important note, how old are you? Cybering is something 16 year olds do, and if that's the case ignore all my advice. I'm not helping teenagers get laid it feels creepy.