hey guys. today is a sad day for me. I thought I was making some real progress, working on inner game, as well as finally trying to get over my AA but then, not even as a sarge I went to my cousin's house. And over SPAM, my cousin introduced me to her chick friend. It was all downhill from there.

I started to talk to her, and quickly I could see that this would not be fun. I told her that I was visiting to visit colleges, and told her I was interested in a certain one. Instantly she pinned me as someone who thought I was "better than her" because I was looking at a good college. She kept bringing that up, and my lame response was something along the lines of "no I'm not" or "jeez". Then she started going after specific features. She said stuff like, "your legs are so hairy that they need a weed wacker." (btw they really arent that bad in case u were wondering).

guys. Of all the questions I've asked, whether it be how to close, or how to open, or any other aspect of game, I need to get this handled. Right now. Please. What could I have done so that I wouldn't take such a mental beating? My value went from high to absolutely miniscule. What tactics can I use to prevent this? To stop it if it has already started? any witty responses that you use to counter-attack this? should I treat her like an AMOG?

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Try to give her insults a funny and outrageous twist. It sounds like she was trying to get under your skin and it looks like it worked. I think sarcasm would have been a good way to take her attitude down a few levels.

For instance, "You are sooooo right about my legs. But you're also wrong about the weed wacker... a lawn mower would get the job done better." Say it with a straight face and look directly at her. If she laughs, then it means you just won her over a little. Just show her that her attitude doesn't phase you and maintain that consistently.

If she doesn't laugh, well then she's just a twat without a sense of humor.

This shouldn't affect your game, unless you were trying to game her.
A lot of guys learn about aspects of PUA, like being alpha, and think they need to apply it their whole life.
If your not alpha when your just hanging out with your friends, your a failure.
That is not how it is, you need to be alpha when your with the girl your gaming.

It certainly would have been good practice to do some CnF, and I completely agree with Vietman, she was just trying to get under your skin.
But PU is supposed to be every moment of your life.
Your supposed to be yourself, and PU is something "yourself" does.
Think about guys that love football or something, even if that is there identity, they do have a life outside of football.

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Vietnam100. all I have to say is that's genius! thank you so much I will definitely twist their insults the next time a girl throws some stupid insult. thank you so much for your help. I will tell you how it goes next time it happens.


Indie00. correct. you are right, and I think that I was just a little taken aback when she started to throw these insults, because I was not really even trying to game her.

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