I'm having an issue initiating with familiar girls. I'm a pretty friendly guy with a large network and can do well for myself. I can create attraction and do a fair amount more than the average Joe I assume. However I have this large network of friends from college, girls I may have met from parties or friends of friends and I feel like I'm wasting them. I know how to initiate with a girl who's phone number I recently got or speak with a girl a party I recently went to. It's the other 95% of girls I know that I'd like to take use to my advantage.

thanks!

Its very similar to being on a first date so get them out with you somewhere. Then just run the routines, use your negs and escalate kino as usual. When you ask them to go out with you make it sound casual. Like hey I am going to head over to such and such pub for a drink, why don't you meet me there and we can shoot a game of pool. Ask her like you would one of your buddies. Then once there begin the game. You should be ok after that.

The hook is getting them to come out. I can't just message or text them and invite the out, they have to have a reason to see me--something they want to do. Otherwise they're likely to flake or just not respond. After all I feel that talking to them after not speaking to them for a while would just DLV.

i honestly wouldn't contact them to come out, i would just hopefully run into them and run my game on them.

but then I feel as though it's all unused potential. There has to be a better way or a trick to re-opening all these girls.