Recently I successfully gamed a HB9.5 into a day 2 f-close and sort of turned it into a 2.5 month thing where we were very sexually active and she was spending the night in my bed nearly every night. Things were moving along nicely (I was looking for LTR) and I got complacent. In addition to me getting complacent, she had an abusive ex-bf who really fucked her up emotionally (and physically) and I just knew this thing was not gonna last very long as she was very moody and sometimes could be a downright bitch.

One night, it all hit the fan when we were drunk and I wanted to fuck but she didn't. She never verbalized this to me so I kept making advances and I guess was a little forceful and she freaked out. Now I wasn't raping her or anything - just kissing her and feeling her up. Our clothes were still on, so it's not like I penetrated her or anything. Also, as soon as she said "stop" I immediately complied and saw she was freaked out by something. I apologized and she later explained that she was "damaged goods" because her ex held her down and forced himself on her once and I guess she was reminded of that time or something. She apologized for freaking out.

Well after this night, she grew increasingly distant and I made the classic mistake of acting too needy and over-apologetic for that incident. I began acting more and more needy, feeling her pulling away and eventually I got downright pissed off that she was blowing me off. Eventually, I said "fuck it" and quit contacting her.

It was something that was destined to be doomed one way or the other, but I definitely could have handled it all differently. I had never dealt with that situation before so I had no experience to draw from. I knew her past would come back to haunt her and in the end, that's what ultimately ruined things for us. Neediness, being over-apologetic, and getting complacent ultimately cost me a very nice fuck buddy. I have learned my lesson and mistakes will not be repeated.

Please tell some of your failures and help us all learn from your mistakes as I hope you will learn from mine.

Cheers.

My main failure is that I've been studying this stuff for months now and haven't run a single set yet. Opportunities are all over the place where I live too.

hey man I was just like you and still haven't run as many sets as I should. Take it at your own pace, but do what you need to do to keep progressing - it will come eventually.

I have all the tools - good looking guy, confidence, depth, etc. - but I have never been good at cold approaches and I'm working on that. I have been really good at picking up women within my social (or extended social) circle but need to be better at approaching cold sets. That's my new goal and recognizing your weakness is the first step to improvement.

You will get it man, hang in there and tell yourself "If I dont approach, I will be in the same position I'm in if I had approached and failed." A failed approach is infinitely better than no approach. Good luck bro

Well I been doing game for 8 months now and I'm kinda disappointed about how much progress i've made. I mean don't get me wrong I've definitely improved but I thought after 8 months I would be further along than where I am.

If my game was a 5/10 8 months ago, it's probably only a 7/10 now.

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It came to me in a drreeeaaammmm

I was walking down 14th st yesterday saw this gorgeous girl I won't even give her a number lets just say she was hot... dirty blonde hair pulled back in a bun, button down white shirt with sleeves rolled up, yellow short shorts showing of her amazing legs. Body of a model/volley ball player tall about 5'10"...

She was walking towards me and all I could do was watcher her walk past me without a word. I thought that was it but 30 sec later she passes me it looks like she was walking the wrong direction the 1st time I saw her.

I was given a second chance to open this girl but I acted like a pussy and didn't do anything...

What a FAIL