Hey guys, I've recently signed up after reading through the forums for a week or so. It's all very interesting stuff.

... This issue has now resolved itself. I apologise for the edit, it was necessary. Thanks for advice given.

I usually like to let work-mates be work-mates, and wouldn't push it past the flirty banter. Mainly because I wouldn't want to create potential future awkwardness at work, especially with a new job.

Sounds like she's into you though. I'm not sure what your office dynamic is like, but she might just want to look somewhat professional, and not want to go openly flirting at work, or pursuing anything with colleagues.

Thanks Verity.

I respect what you're saying, and I also agree for the most part. More than anything it's got the to point where I'd just like to know! If you get me. By all means it doesn't effect my working ability

Hmm, I get what you mean!

Try just asking her out for drinks? The worst that could happen is she says no, and you might just find your answer there, in perhaps a more comfortable environment.

Do not shit where you eat, DO NOT DATE CO-WORKERS...

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Well, you've painted a very vague picture. There are almost zero conversation logs or exact words which indicated an interest mentioned.

A lot of "she teases me", "she gave me the answer I was expecting" and all that. Teased you with what? What answer did she give to what question? Unless, we have the exact details no point in giving advice. Also, you can be a little more straightforward in telling her that you find her attractive. "I think you're attractive" is a great line when used properly. Direct and makes its point.

That being said, you have to keep rules about work. You have to.

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