After doing great with my last challenge, I call again on the expertise of some co-pua's.

Situation: friend of a friend. HB9. But! She's highly intelligent and has a very distinct form of ironical humor. In other words, I doubt my normal routine would lack some subtlety, she has that feminist way of thinking. And, she's single for a while, which is odd, because she's a catch.

I only met her once or twice a while ago. She likes intellectuals who are very straightforward. So I commented on some posts of mutual friends on fb. She liked it everytime, but I did not add her as a friend. I knew she would do this. And after a week, I had a friend request.

So, for now, she initiated contact, even added a text we have a lot in common etc. etc. What do you guys recommend with this kind of personality. Out of the blue asking for a date, or first trying to do the stupid facebook chat thing?
Do I focus myself too much on her appearance as a self-conscious liberal woman in finding the right strategy?

Thanks!

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You can't buy sophistication.

Ahh I know exactly her type. Stay dominant... she loves it.


Tell her you need to control her before she tries to redistribute your wealth. lol

I'm planning to do this. I never met a girl who disliked my dominant behaviour.

Let me rephrase my question. Does it lower my value as the perceived intellectual, bad boy unknown mystery guy if I first do the whole stupid chat routine on fb? If so, what's the angle? Talking about some highbrow nonsense?
Or just going for the direct method, direct invitation to go to some highbrow art gallery, classical music blabla thing?

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You can't buy sophistication.

Direct 3,000%


I hate pretentious, snotty, intellects, as much as the next person. However, I consider myself an educated MAN. I know most would disagree but I feel as if facebook chat is synonymous with 17-19 year old emo college kids that don't have an ounce of real life experience.


I would never in a million years consider gaming a girl on facebook chat. If my friends tried to, I might have an urge to punch them in the face.

The only facebook game I would use would be to maybe create a little bit of comfort/attraction through messaging (not chat) to get her number and go from there.

Well, I always could balance things between showing my intellect and just being down to earth. That combination is lethal. No problem there.

Ok, I'll just go for the direct method. Going to give it a rest for a couple of weeks, she did all the interaction. And out of the blue I suddenly have one ticket left for a concert.

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You can't buy sophistication.

No man I wasn't judging you. I'm just saying that I'm not coming from the thought that "I'm too smart/good/cool for facebook"... that's all haha

You gave me advice, you were not judging. You know exactly what I meant.

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You can't buy sophistication.

why so long?

have pre-selection and run the cube on her, she'll love the cube if she's intelligent.

Go direct too, if she's that hot and intelligent, but don't compliment her, and make sure u go direct only in person.

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I do know 1 thing though, bitches they come they go

Why wait? Very simple. Because she already did her part, she expects to have some lame fb chat in the near future. She has a pretty good idea about my interests, I do not need to contact her any further, just need to find the right invitation method for one great evening. And I have a pretty good view on her personality: no nonsense, intellectual, bitchy to guys who are trying too hard.

I do not compliment women unless it is part of a conversation topic.

I have my own version of the cube, I always lead the conversation to childhood.

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You can't buy sophistication.

i understand on waiting, but weeks sounds a lot?

it seems your answering your own question lol

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I do know 1 thing though, bitches they come they go

She reads my facebook, knows my friends, etc. There is no immediate time limit.

But what's your opinion? My answer really can be bullshit, so shoot!

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You can't buy sophistication.

seems to me your heading in the right direction and know what your doing. Personally though, id just ask her for a day two instead of waiting.

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I do know 1 thing though, bitches they come they go