So there is this girl from work that recently lost a lot of weight and now looks great although we know each other we never really spoke apart from saying hi or a greeting..

We spoke online "Facebook" here's how i went about it

Opened

Situational light chatting

added a neg here and there

this is where the trouble started if i make any comment that involves anything but me being a donkey she flips out!

so i lay off it give it space and chat again, shared interests and agree to watch a movie together so i take her number and finish the conversation

i messaged her a few days later to arrange the movie idea and she flakes on me??
so right now she seems so reserved tells me she's not after an adventure so i'm thinking ok she's made her mind up before i even demonstrated anything...

Should i pursue this?

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Dranzer

Create attraction , and I bet she will want an adventure!!

Just go to the movie,easygoing,to treat it like you have to pursue her , or anything like that (not even is she is interested) . Focus on a little stealth kino,and social attraction , and BL.She will see you a great guy ,and creating attraction will make her want you.

Thanks, i think she could be on the defensive as so many girls talk to me and i know she watches me when they do cause i catch her out if i look at her directly she will turn away! could this be hope?

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Dranzer