I don't know what to say when I meet a cute girl. I say something anyway.

Now, when someone tells me what to say they never say what to say. They give very vague ideas of what sort of thing should be said and then imply that I'm going to think that I should say things verbatim of what they say when I ask for an example of something that should be said.

And example of something I actually say "Hi, my name's Nick." Which more often than not get's a conversation going. Somewhere in that conversation I may forget this girls name and she'll re initiate it with me and I'll say something like "I forgot your name." Very straightforward honest remarks.

I'm sure there's good and bad sides to the things I've said. Maybe more should be said or whatever.


What I don't get is that is. Or what to actually say. With no point of reference I just don't fucking get it. I don't know why girls just want to be my friend [if they even do] or why I have trouble making friends, or why no one wants to hang out with me ever, or why I'm not getting invited to parties or getting hired.


I really don't get it. I don't even know where to start. Just that it's all very frustrating and I have no job [I"m living at my dad's house at 27] because I don't know how to fucking talk to people right. Girlfriend sure as hell isn't going to happen either.


How does this shit work? Excuse my foul language, I'm generally not a happy guy, I have no money, never get laid, and live with my dad.

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You dont need picc-up routines.

You need a lifestyle.

Women and people are attracted to others who have a life.

And I dont mean that in a diss way.

But you need to be doing stuff with you life:gym,sports,hobbies,travel,clubbing...

Have an attractive lifestyle(hobbies)and ppl will naturally be attraced to you.

I've been unemployed for over a year.

Im pissed,broke,etc.

Yet I still go to the gym,work out at home,jog,box,club,do poetry,etc.

So my state is still super attractive since I have a life.

As far as picc-up stuff,you make few mistakes and have some misconceptions.

Fucc remembering her name!!!

You dont win points for remembering her name!!!

Guys need to get that straight.

Forgetting her name is
a good thing.

In set,I always pretend to forget her name even when I do remember it.

#1,you should be giving her a cute/funny niccname,not calling her by her real name.

#2,another thing I notice guys do is introducing themselves via name.

When I approach,I never tell her/them my name.

If she's inteeted in you,she will say somewhere during the chat,"what's your name"?

That is a SURE IOI(her asking your name).

So why ruin a potential IOI by telling her your name.

Dont tell her your name!

It isnt important.

You forgetting her name subcommunicates to her that you must be a busy guy who's always meeting people(women)so it's impossible for you to keep up with names.

She's no saying,"He's a weirdo for not remembering me".

Bottom line:get an attractive lifestyle by having hobbies.

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