Hi all,

I live with 2 other guys in college and find when girls are coming over to our apartment to visit one of my roommates, I find myself feeling that I am competing with my other roommate for their attention and making a good first impression on them.

He tends to talk alot and craves their attention...and I feel as though I'm being isolated...what would be a true PUA's approach to this situation?

1. Talk to them. You are going to be living with these guys for a while, so you gotta learn how to resolve stuff.

2. If the girls are coming to see one of them, respect that he got there first. If the girl is coming to see you, and you've done number 1, hopefully you're fine. If the guy is still the center of attention, just ignore him. I've been there, and when the guy really starts talking, all you gotta do is catch her looking at you for a sec. Then you just open your eyes a bit wider and nod over at him as if to say "wow this dude likes to hear himself talk."

The thing to avoid is open competition. If you two just start talking more and more, louder and louder, you look like a couple tools and neither of you gets any.

just have fun with them, tease and flirt and dont care about the outcome. if girls are coming over that means they have friends so win them over and u got a whole new selection of women

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Lean back on the couch and smirk knowingly at the roommate and the women. Wait for him to say something inappropriate and then pounce on it and make an idiot out of him.

Women will immediately start gravitating towards you.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

Thanks guys!