so been going with a girl for about a month (have some nice text game going, not seeing each other more than twice a week, normal attentionlevel, she already introduced me to her colleagues) thought things were going great and then this happened:

woke up together, shagged her in the morning, she takes off for a soccer tournament

we where supposed to meet around nine that same night. Im there with some of my friends, but she's not there. Sent her one text, no answer. Four hours later we decide to go home and on the way back i see her walking in front of me in the street (she's on the phone). some of her friends are outside another bar. I continue to go home, she never knew i was there.

Before i go to sleep i sent her one more text telling her that im annoyed for being stood up.

A rain of lies starts popping in: "didnt have my cell with me" "lost my friends" "I just wanted to be on my own ..."

any idea what went wrong here (im thinking some other clown, but didnt notice anything odd that morning) and any ideas on the solutions?

She's clearly lost interest.

Nothing you can do, really . . . except for simply quit talking to her and quit trying to reach out to her all the time.

Try pushing it and it's gonna get worse.

It could be a lack of intrest or it could be something else... I've been dealing with a weird ass chick, you can read my "fuck my fuck buddy post" ..

However, the only solution is to wait it out. You can't continue to push.

seems kind of wierd though, did my best not to see her that much, she had to go training 4 times a week and so do i, so moments were pretty scarce anyhow. Maybe a good idea to consult some friends on the true nature of the beast?

Any tips for the future on how to keep those interest levels high or get em back higher?

What interest levels?

There is NO ground for building any interest. She's NOT interested.

Didn't you get anything from that hailstorm of lies?

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