For all the RSD guys, you know what I mean, but for anyone else, state is the higher level of being where you feel like a badass. State helps to considerably lessen AA. So you may be asking how do I get into state, well, stop going out and thinking about getting the chicks and just go out and have fun, once you start having fun and approaching women, the lays will come a lot easier. Fel free to just think of ways to get in state and post them. It would be extremely helpful to everyone if you did.

Thank You,
Rox

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state..... here's my view on it

knowing about it can be bad or good (similar to pick up). Some guys will fall into the trap of believing that they must be "in state" to get laid or be attractive to women, and they are consciously getting into their own head trying to get into state. This is the only time it can limit you, when you think too much about it. It is best to try to have FUN and learn how to make others feels good and spread your FUN vibe. Because remember, sexual without fun can be very creepy unless you're really good at it.

I can also get into state during the day, not just night time, where i'm just in a very happy social mood. I am vibing with everyone and girls see me differently. The vibe you give off is the vibe you receive most of the time, if that person is social at all. Girls love to banter and tease, push/pull, it's fun and much more emotionally interesting than "hi how are you, where are you from, i'm kind of boring today"

Don't get too attached to it, Some guys are in state MOST the time, because they have built up a ton of social momentum (and built strong social skills) throughout their lives. Newer guys might have a really hard time entering state when out, so try doing really random stupid things (like jumping up and down like an idiot, yes stuff like this helps) and self-amusement. Making yourself laugh by saying ridiculous stuff.

This is a huge part of laughter and comedy... it puts people into a feel-good state.

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"going to workout and shit." -stunt101 (PUA chat)

Perfect. This summarizes exactly what is needed for "state" to occur. One grand example is from daygame I ran a few days ago. I was out longboarding and I had just hit a massive hill and I was waiting by a corner for my buddies to show up. On the other side of the street is a gorgeous girl and a friend of her. Normally I would be getting AA and whatnot but I knew that my friends were coming soon and I was just havin fun, so I called them over and ran daygame fora solid ten minutes. I went to get the cute ones # but her friend literally yanked her away, which sucked, but the best part about state is since I was in state, I didnt give a shit!

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Technically "State" refers to the state of mind, regardless of what it is. This means it doesn't matter whether you are in a positive, negative, happy, intense, chill, furious, sad, giggly or any other imaginable emotional mental state; this is simply the State that you are in.

Doing silly things is a great way to develop the feeling within oneself that it doesn't matter what you do or who's watching, you are having fun, you are enjoying yourself and there is no need to care what others may say or think because that is what you are doing and this is how you feel regardless of any of the things that they may feel. This is typically the State that most people talk about when they refer to it and it is usually the most desirable state to be in while interacting with people and even when doing whatever you are doing by yourself, due to the joyous and incredibly present state of mind that it induces.

This is not always the most useful state, yet typically it is and so it is probably the most useful one to practice being in most of the time and as the first state that you want to be capable of inducing within yourself at any given point in time that you desire regardless of what instance you may encounter in your life. This is also the state of mind that Eckhart Tolle is typically describing within his lectures and books. I

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"The 'Brick Walls' are there to allow you to prove how badly you want something!" ~ Randy Pausch

~ Rye

For all of you that are still questioning on what that meant

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5YsGJz3j4os[/youtube]

And let me just credit that taSty, told me about that video, but it shows a certain point, that you have fun, once you're doing what you feel doing it.

FYI I tried that thing at 1:40 while driving, do yourself a favour while doing that part, keep your car parked, cause I almost ended up in a corn field

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How my life looks like right now: STUDY HARD, PARTY HARD

^ haha! yeah he's a GREAT example of self amusement. some call him douche-bag but he's a funny douche bag

RIP Zyzz.. (he died in a sauna in Thailand last week, he was juicing and partying pretty hard I imagine)

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Right peeps I have a few "secrets" on the "state" department, ok for me its self amusement, +some social interaction and acceptance, Right, alcohol.... that is one!! its magical but it gets you confidence when you need it, another one is when you know a person get interacted and pump each other, go out with friends that will get you in state, when you start the night about an hour in when you start to drink will i'm talking about myself here is that I start not giving a shit about anything and start getting pumped up, its funny how some people see this and they are warm to it, ok peeps heres another secret, MUSIC mixed with alcohol does amazing things now your defnitelly self amuseing yourself, ur state get high and higher than other people, because you dnt give a shit then you start getting IOI from women because your the party, now your 100% undestructable everyone things your the man, I think if you visualize things before hand it will help, but I agree you gotta do things, go out when you don't have state, because your learning more about you, another idea, ok maybe if we phoned a friend before hand? or maybe theres a cheat, what if you get someone whom u got in common and phone them up and pump each other dry, like a WOO state!! it will defnitelly make you feel alot more comfortable, especially when your going out alone, so hook up with peeps on this board and pump each other up!! another thing that gets me into state is taking chances and doing things that you value!! so whatever you want do it!! also if you treat yourself to food, buy new clothes, spend on yourself, say if you play guitar, learn a new song, win a poker tournament, beat people in games, try a self hypnosis, EFT, NLP come on the list are endless, go 4 a jog, but sometimes u just can't get into state, and when you can't just simply accept yourself, but I wouldnt sweat if ur into state or not, who cares!! its just all in the mind really u have an equal chance when ur not in state, oh yeah another way is facebook, upload some cool pics, update some statuses anyways but I do believe that state is not that important because its superficial, its just a state!! no biggie... nothing wrong being outta state just try being sociable all the time

just had a major "AHA" peeps, its all about self amusement ahhhhhh, its what u like and makes u happy, AND if your gonna be over sweat about state u gonna lose some mental capicity but it might help if your in a low state, trying to pump urself up that is...

Good goin' you guys! I see that a few of you, like serious for example, have ha an epiphany! I mainly made this thread to help people out, and Kupid, dude you always get the best stuff and really help out, that Zyzz vid was awesome, it really helped to show people what state is all about! So I hope everybody learned and thanks to everybody who contributed! You guys rock!

Rox

P.S. Guess who's in state? I am!

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