Something I do occasionally to build attraction is talk about communication between two people has more meaning than the words and the true meaning of any communication is the combination of your interpretation of them and your own desires( you can dress it up talk about souls communicating etc etc as well). As an example for her, I would then take her hands stand very close to her and give her very intense eye contact, while doing this I would be doing kino with her hands, this is great way to build tension.

Id break it off but remain close and ask what she felt I was communicating, 9 times out of ten it's you want to kiss me, you want to fuck me to which I reply - actually I was thinking about shaving your hair off or something silly like that which always gets a laugh (thats a good time to put your hand on her waist as she then associates enjoyment with your contact) and then explain The kissing or fucking is her subconscious desire. At which point I say lets find out (if the response is kiss) and lets just try a kiss first (if it's fuck me).

Giving a women an unique, powerful and interesting moment works wonders, far better than being a dancing monkey imho!

I like this thread! Keep it up

So would it be okay to fart in front of her too? LOLLL
But I do get what you're saying

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I like this.

If you treat a girl like a friend, you'll only get as far as being a friend.

If you treat her like someone you'd fuck, then you'll get to be someone she'd fuck.

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Well I can vouch that heavy kino right off the bat has worked for me before, some chicks just get totally swept up in it. But it takes a lot of confidence to do it right, any sign of weakness on your part and she'll think you're sleazy.

I'm currently working on securing a consistent rapid-kino-escalation angle. Not only does it work to turn a girl on very quickly, but done right it seems to be a pretty high-percentage play.

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The way I see it, when you do kino and you're comfortable with what you're doing most likely the girl will feel the same way.
When you get a feeling it's weird, quit kino and build some more rapport.

YESSSSSS! I've been thinking about direct game a lot lately, and this is exactly along the lines. When you've already been with a girl before, you don't need a reason to approach, don't need a reason to touch her, don't need a reason to stick a few fingers in (tho she mite want some privacy for the last one).

biggus, good stuff. some very good push/pull. Warped, I like ur delivery, and I agree with the majority of ur posts, including this one. The "she feels what u feel" is spot on pick-up gold.

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I prefer touch her the way you want to touch her.

I ask myself constantly-what do i want. If its kiss, i kiss, if its touch her leg, i touch her leg(warning: use only if you have common sense + when you're asking yourself, you should answer from a pure desire)

I believe Tim from rsd calls this a core purpose.

This!

And yes, I do believe thats part of what tim calls the Core Purpose

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To be honest, I think this is a fantastic thread and I feel like I totally get the OP. iT'S Interesting to note that this technique seems similar to the old adage of "act as if" for anyone familiar with NLP etc. I think if you , in your mind and body, feel like you've always known the girl and are totally relaxed around her, she will pick up on it and won't feel creeped out when you escalate and touch her as if she were, I can remember times where I've just been so comfortable around a girl I've only known for a few minutes, that I've subconsciously touched her and put my arm on her back or led her by the waist as if I've known her for ever. Also in my experience, there's no better feeling in the world, than comforably holding a girl you've just met for the first time and feeling that release of physical tension just ebb away as you both know it feels right and that's what you were both waiting for.

I guess this is doing what the OP suggests, although I did not realise it at the time. Kudos man, nice idea.

At the end of the day though - as a great homosexual TV personality once said "It's all about the confidence "

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Very well said

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this is completely true. there was this one girl i opened basically i sat down next to her told her she was the most gorgeous women i've met in my life and i just kept feeling up and down her leg. wasn't even thinking about it..at one point i thought about kissing her on the shoulder and decided to do it...she was like "why did you kiss me on the shoulder?" even though she makes no mention of me touching her panties...