hey guys my names stefan and im new to the PUA scene, first and foremost id like to introduce myself im from Australia, 18 and love being in social places with lots of girls that are willing to interact such as clubs, beach, school etc

My latest problem was with this girl ive been talking to for about 2 months trough Facebook, text, SPAM and the occasional phone call. She showed alot of interest in me called me cute names and i kinda blew it when i kinda told her im really interested in her. I have sorta managed to recover the fumble, but she used to say stuff like 'When we go out as a couple' now she says stuff like 'we'll see what happens'

Im seeing her for the first time this thursday, i have decent natural game and can keep a conversation going, but do you guys have any tips on what to talk about and how to make her alot more interested in me? Im close with her friend whos seen me a few times and has told this girl about my physique and good looks (i go to the gym regularly and take care of myself) so that had kind of helped me with this girl.

Basically, im trying to get her to be more attracted to me after we meet on thursday, ive been more chilled out about us and havent been coming off as needy as much as i used to. I get my driver's licence in the next few weeks so seeing her won't be a problem as i can drive now, she is still underage though and can be immature at times.

So what can i do to make her seem interested in me so that we could possibly be in a relationship in the next few months, keeping in mind how she already knows im a bit too keen and stuff. Can i use my physical appearance at an advantage? What should we talk about? Any techniques i can use to make her more attracted to me? Should i go in for a goodbye kiss?

Cheers guys, Stefan.

I don't know if this is a good advice (since im not a pua ) but I think if you could give an IOD to her , she could give you an IOI instead,so that she can gain your trust and your attention.Be a bit ignorant , don't let her know that you are interested anymore and she'd be willing to gain your interest,but you don't have to be ignoring her,just be a bit cold.

thanks alot that helps ill start using alot more IOD's to try and reverse the roles a little bit, ill look out for IOI's when i see her in a few days thanks for your help

Welcome

thanks giorgio what does it mean when i text this girl, she says shes going to bed then an hour later shes having a chat on facebook with this guy whos her 'best friend' through comments that i can clearly see everything that is being said? and she assures me nothing is gong on i havent confronted her about it though