I went to that same old shitty bar in a densely populated island. I had a few bacardi and diets.

I'll admit I felt a lot more comfortable and natural going out the 2nd time alone but I didn't really do much PUA'ing. The bar was an older crowd..... fun and busy but older. The ones that were younger were clearly taken or hideous. I talked to as many people as I could that night. I didn't sit at the bar and was a social butterfly

The highlight of the night was at the end. I opened up a set I knew was older then me but I had no idea how much until I actually approached them. My opener was going to be a direct... wow I have to say you are absolutely gorgeous but instead it turned into wow you are really good at the electric slide. They thought it was hilarious and laughed. I didn't know what else to say but I knew I was younger so I said can you guess how old I am. For the next few minutes they were thinking about it, looking at my hands. lol Once I saw the targets I realized she could be old enough to be my mom haha. She found out I was 22 and laughed and said I'm twice your age. We bullshited for a few minutes longer but I could tell she wanted me to get lost. She was married and had 5 kids

Still the interaction was hilarious

Maybe find a younger bar?
Still, other than that, I'd say you did the best youcould have.

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Lol what? I understand he's new to the game but you should have opened more than one set. Next time when you walk in literally open the first set you see. Don't sit down, get a drink, etc. This should put you in a "groove"

Who says he opened one?
Just stated that at the end of the night he opened 'A' set. Not my ONLY set.

It really was the only set.

I wasn't shy, I talked to everyone there but I have to admit there was one mixed set that I backed down from approaching



I'm down in an island off florida and there's not much to choose from as far as nightlife goes. It is much a older crowd. However, I am here for another week so I want to make it a priority to open a set or hb each day I'm here.

with an older woman just say "that's a cute dress you are wearing" and just try friendly flirting. i dont know about bars, but older women will flirt with you if you are "in on the game" and know it does not mean anything but friendliness and playfullness. but dont talk about looks or age. they are major insecure about getting older and uglier. you prob dont want to sleep with an older woman, not before youve slept with younger women. but look at it as flirting practice.