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I'm saying this under the presumption that you have a gf... forgive me if I have the wrong impression :roll:

This is something that REALLY should be discussed with your partner, imho. It's not just a blanket rule that can be generalized to all relationships. Judging by the ever-so-wide difference in opinion on this thread alone, obviously people have some very different thoughts on the matter. So, who knows what your gf would think!

Just have a nice chat with her, basically "just in case it were to come up". She might wonder why you're asking out of the blue, yes, but would probably appreciate the open communication. It might help prevent awkward situations in the future, and who knows, maybe both of you will be cool with it!

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I personally think the blanket rule would be that kissing another girl if you are in a relationship IS cheating unless your gf has said it's okay. I've never met a girl who would be okay with this as I'm sure as hell that if I had a gf that kissed another guy I'd break up with her right away and go ape shit at the pair of them.

Surely this everyone's opinion right? I can't see any other logical way to think about this. The whole point in a bf/gf situation is that you've found someone who you'd actually give everyone else up for. Anything other than that and you just have a fuck buddy.
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I just came in here to make sure I hadn't accidentally visited the Cosmo forums.

The point of gf/bf is whatever you want it to be. Instead of waiting for shit to happen, set some boundaries up front if it matters to you so much. If these types of things matter to you so much, have some self respect and walk away, otherwise watch her walk all over you.
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I'm saying this under the presumption that you have a gf... forgive me if I have the wrong impression :roll:

This is something that REALLY should be discussed with your partner, imho. It's not just a blanket rule that can be generalized to all relationships. Judging by the ever-so-wide difference in opinion on this thread alone, obviously people have some very different thoughts on the matter. So, who knows what your gf would think!

Just have a nice chat with her, basically "just in case it were to come up". She might wonder why you're asking out of the blue, yes, but would probably appreciate the open communication. It might help prevent awkward situations in the future, and who knows, maybe both of you will be cool with it!

-Verity

I personally think the blanket rule would be that kissing another girl if you are in a relationship IS cheating unless your gf has said it's okay. I've never met a girl who would be okay with this as I'm sure as hell that if I had a gf that kissed another guy I'd break up with her right away and go ape shit at the pair of them.

Surely this everyone's opinion right? I can't see any other logical way to think about this. The whole point in a bf/gf situation is that you've found someone who you'd actually give everyone else up for. Anything other than that and you just have a fuck buddy.
I bolded that part because I thought it was a great question. I think its a good idea to ask ourselves questions about things that we aren't sure of and that we realise we haven't allowed ourselves to see other ways of thinking of things on. Personally I used to feel the same way as you described and yet now I encourage any girls I'm with to also enjoy time and sexual encounters with other men so that they can experience themselves and life to the fullest.

Check this thread out if you haven't already! polyamoury-the-new-buzz-word-vt97443.html

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lol of course wtf
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