hi, so im new to this community. met a cute girl at a lecture, we talked a bit but i didnt get her number. so how should i approach again?

A little more detail on how the approach went would help, and are you talking about approaching her again?

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if you approached well, you can refer to it.

2nd time experience is always stronger if it surpasses the last one

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A little more detail on how the approach went would help, and are you talking about approaching her again?[/quote]

well it was just something the lecturer had us do, roleplay a psychological assessment. didnt really notice her till then. then we just talked abit about what we were majoring, etc, joked about the lecture content (sexual disorder). n that was it. so now i dont know hw i should approach her again. was thinking mayb just be like hey remember me....i think ur really cute...we should keep it contact.

Don't use, or at least too soon, the "you're cute" line..

You don't wanna put her on a pedestal.

She has to qualify to you. You have to be the leader and socially superior in the relationship. or at least at the beggining when creating attraction..


You should read any PU literature. You seem to lack the very basics of being a PUA.

All we can do is to try to help you correcting what you did wrong, but you have a lot of stuff you need to know about how to act well. I can only tell you again not put her on a pedestal. That's the biggest mistake I notice you've been doing till now. Relax, don't try to hard and don't show you're nervous. SHE is lucky if she gets you, not the other way around

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true. thks thats great advice

say you seem like an interesting girl.. and pull your phone out and say give me your number we will hang out some time (add a joke or neg whatever)

this works for me a pretty damn 99.9% of the time

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If you see her in lecture again sit down next to her and say hey dork, good to see you again, how you been? that should open and then go into attraction and get to know her more and build a connection, when times rite get a number

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