As someone who has been around PUA for a while, let me explain how I feel about your situation.

At first when you get into PUA all you want to do is pick up women, you will start getting good and will want nothing else other than to learn as much about pick up as you can. The problem is, most guys get a little obsessive in my experience and picking up women because their life rather than complimenting it.

I never go out to pick up women, its lame and a bit creepy - not to mention it puts pressure on you to do something and can make you seem a bit desperate. However, I am always me - which means I am charming and going to flirt with women I bump into on my adventures! To me, that mentality of picking up women being a "something that might happen" really lets you just enjoy yourself and meet people when you don't expect it.

A prime example is when you are in a queue or a lift or something - you didn't go there to find a HB to chat up but there sure as hell might be one standing next to you! Thats a great time just to say hi, make some quick chat and then when you leave the lift get her number or something.

The same can be said for night game - in a club what usually happens is I am out with my friends (male and female) and we will be having a great time and at the bar/booth/outside there will be a HB standing next to me and I will go say hi, introduce myself, introduce my friends to her friends and the next thing I know we are ALL having a great time and I have closed or am about to close the one I like.

Does that make sense to you?