He probably has no idea either. I doubt it is anything he is doing right. I doubt whatever he is doing, will work on 99.9999999999999999% of any other physically attractive females. My money is on her having a weird fetish.

There are female versions of chubby chasers....so this could be the case.

Guys i forgot to tell you this: A LOT OF WOMEN ARE CHUBBY CHASERS, yes ugly truth guys, a lot of girls like big guys like teddy bears... I swear...

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Thanks for the continued advice, fellas. Much appreciated.

Interesting thought about the chubby chasing... See, a few years ago this girl used to be pretty big herself... But since then, she has trimmed right down and looks absolutely stunning.

When I was still trying to create attraction, I tried to figure out what her "ideal" or "type" was so that I could emulate that and she said she thought Gerrard Butler had the perfect weight for a guy.

Mr. Pink bingo i am a genius, exactly... that is the answer: She was big, so her first experiences in love, sex whatever probably was with big guys, so that is what she is attracted too. My bad, my neighbor, Bikini model used to be Fat, and now she is fine, she like Babas(according to her), or some shit like that big guys...That is your answer...

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That sucks! I am a naturally slim kid who is trying to bulk up at the moment but I could never be a truly "big" guy in the strictest sense of the word. Does this mean I have no shot at her even if I attempt to pick things back up with her next year when she is single?

Whatever the reason, she's with him now. You're not with her. So do your best to not worry about it. I have a similar situation with my ex (also my oneitis for a very long time). I tried to get her to leave him, all that shit, but decided instead to move on to other girls as much as possible, so that when she is single, I'll be a more impressive and mature person. During that process, I've started to get over her, and honestly (though it's a little mean-spirited) I'm just waiting for the day when she comes back to me, and I get to say that I've moved on, and I'm a better person for it.

I do have a system that has work for me, really good, just talk to her normal, friend zone, no hidden intent, encourage her in the relationship, when the guy fuck up, if is his fault, point out how you would have handle it, if he is right, take his side, even if you have to argue with her, be neutral, while on the friendzone talk about the girls you are seeing, met, picked up etc... no bragging just normal, little by little she will get attach, then you jump in, do not be needy, do not get caught in the fluff...But if you are not her type if she like babas, you are fucked..

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TBh I gotta call bullshit on this one you are definitely not over her if your posting this here and directly belittling him.

If this post was actually about why you keep seeing hot girls with chubby/fat guys it would have been alot shorter.

C'mon Mr Pink deny it a third time before the rooster crows

P.S like the nickname reminds of a naughty saying for some reason

I doubt that, I really truly do. Not saying there are not girls that like fat guys but I doubt that many girls are chubby chasers.

jurupa there is nothing to doubt, that is a fact, i just gave you my neighbor example... But yes you are right i said a lot of women, is a mistake, some women a minority...

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You're right. I'm not over her. I have stopped pursuing her, though and I'm now trying to stop thinking about her. Fuck it is difficult, though.

This is probably the worst oneitis I've ever had. And it doesn't even make sense! I've known this girl for years and never had feelings. Then when they first started to develop, I maturely realized that nothing was going to come of it and froze her out for a few months and worked on my game. But then when I saw her again and she was mad and upset about the freeze out, the feelings came back 10x stronger and everything I had learned went out the window. She completely destroys my frame, inner game, cocky funniness, everything really. Her man might be comparatively low value but when I really reflect on it, the oneitis is the real culprit blocking any chance of attraction building with this girl.

I just need to get over her and move on.

Thanks for the compliment on the name.