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PostPosted: Fri Aug 12, 2011 12:51 am 
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I was surrounded by 5 (HR 8 - 10) girls on holiday and I was nervous as fuck (can only talk to one girl at a time).

Anyway I was sitting minding my own business when one girl asked a question out loud to her friends like 'What is better X or Y' and the friends were quiet in response generally.

I got the impression that she was trying to bring me into the conversation. Anyone know if I am looking to far into it or if that was the intention?

Either way should I have jumped in and answered anyway? (I guess I lack that confidence, can anyone point me in the right direction to what I should read or watch?)


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I was surrounded by 5 (HR 8 - 10) girls on holiday and I was nervous as fuck (can only talk to one girl at a time).

Anyway I was sitting minding my own business when one girl asked a question out loud to her friends like 'What is better X or Y' and the friends were quiet in response generally.

I got the impression that she was trying to bring me into the conversation. Anyone know if I am looking to far into it or if that was the intention?

Either way should I have jumped in and answered anyway? (I guess I lack that confidence, can anyone point me in the right direction to what I should read or watch?)
Oh hell yeah you should have jumped in. I'll jump into any conversation when I have something to say, because I know I have something worth saying, and I'm sure you do too. I've heard a lot about Unstoppable Confidence from Ross Jeffries but I cant say that I've tried it.


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If you're letting how they look affect you, you have a big, big problem.

Start focusing on the words, not on their faces.

And when she made it blatantly clear that her asking if the question in loud voice was towards your involvement, you still chickened out.

Right now, forget women. Start working on confidence.

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