i was at a club the other night and started dancing with this hb8 and we then started hooking up afterwards i told her i had to meet my friends and she gave me her number so i txted her the next night and it was just convo about the previous night then today we were just small talking and i invited her to a party at my house but said i didnt know the details yet and would tell her as soon as i knew. that waas like 3 hours ago and now im feeling like i should keep txting her to build comfort but dont know if i should any suggestions im lost?

Put that phone down before i bitch slap you!

First of all if you keep texting her after you don't receive an immediate reply, you're going to seem needy and display yourself as a loser who needs to have relations with her. You don't need her, so you're going to keep it cool and wait for a response from her, she could be busy or she could be waiting to text you so she doesn't look so desperate.. a lot of girls do this.

I would have ditched the friends and hooked up with her right then if she was ready to go. There's nothing wrong with building up to sex as long as you don't make any cheesy AFC mistakes like constantly texting her.

Comfort obviously isn't the issue with her, she let you dance with her and you started hooking up right? The comfort is done.. so keep building attraction and get with her ASAP, but let her respond first.. don't seem needy or hound her with messages you'll just blow your chances.

hahaha she just txted back positivly said she was doing some bs so that was cool how should i go about building attraction . isnt she already attracted if she was hooking up with me? ps. she asked me to dance gotta addmit i was looking fresh so i gotta try to keep that same energy level around her rite? and i was a little drunk so i was cocky as hell??? how do i keep that same deminor?