So, everything that I was hearing about the effects of no masturbation/pornography -- the extra swag, intensity. . .yeah, that kicked in. Interesting day, very fun. That stuff yesterday, using conversation with random people to strengthen my conversationalism, I like how it's progressing. I'm aiming for the point where I'm constantly communicating with my surroundings (Juggler).
I set out for a political forum for mayor candidates around 5:30. (And just so you know, there were HBs in the building.) While waiting for the bus I had the most random conversation with a lady named Rhonda about iridology, which apparently is the study of how the iris in your eyeball is the source of all energy in the body. Hey, I can buy it. Eye contact is the biggest key to the sexual energy I put out to a specific woman. I got her email to send her info about this health product I'm marketing. I'm an entrepreneur
Rhonda got off the bus. Another lady got on. I said, "It's hot out." She said, "No, it's not." I got off the bus.
The reception was first. Mac and cheese was on point. Cake wasn't. Place was packed and the few seats were taken. I knew nobody there, and I wasn't about to stand on the wall eating my mac and cheese sipping Deer Park water from my Solo cup.
I pulled up an empty chair I discovered and sat behind the food line. To the right of one of the servers, a very big girl. I fussed Big Girl out for putting guacamole on my burrito. I got up and walked around for a bit. I ended up locking eyes with this chocolate sista with cute lil chubby cheeks, great hair and dress, and very nice presence. Then I realized I knew her from my high school. I later found out that she is an AKA (this may not mean anything for the non-black crowd here. . .out of the 4 black sororities, AKAs are known for their pretty girl image. High self-image normally, we'll come back to that. . .).
AKA: Hey! I thought I recognized you earlier.
Nick: Yeah, "AKA," right?
AKA: "H!j!nx," right?
Nick: What brings you here today?
AKA: Well, I'm here supporting a friend of mine. And this is along the lines of my major --
Nick: Oh, what's your major?
AKA: Public policy.
Nick: Mmhmm, you talk like a public policy major.
From here I started jabbing her on her very clear speaking, calling her a public speaker. She laughed, said she took speech lessons when young. A guy passes by who she calls professor, greets happily. After he leaves she tells me she hates the guy, lol. We start talking about that for a bit, but she cuts the conversation short, saying she needs to run and get a cup (?). I took it as a IOD.
Walked around again. Started chatting up one guy I ended up standing by. Turns out he goes to a local college that one of my friends graduated from this year, and is president of the democratic party chapter there. Got his Facebook.
3 distinct times I locked eyes with a HB 9. This was 3-days-without-masturbation H!j!nx, I did not look away once. Would have approached had she not been extremely busy, turns out she was one of the president of the organization running the event.
Forum was good. Hilarious actually, didn't expect that. After, I walked by HB AKA twice. The first time she was talking to two other girls, I was picking up a few pamphlets. On my way back, she wrapped up the conversation, and began to head out, following behind me to the exit. I stopped briefly, and she ended up leaving before me.
Later, when I looked her up on Facebook, I realized she was an AKA. I began to wonder whether she was playing a game with me, instead of showing disinterest. Thinking back, she wrapped up her conversation pretty quickly, and followed me out.
What I take away from this day is -- do not let opportunity slip by. I should have pulled her aside mid-conversation and asked her "When are we hanging out?"
Truckin along, onto Day #4. . .
-H!j!nx
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