This is something that could help a lot of guys who are newer in this...
It also relates to anti-game, in that learning pick up can make you creepy.
I'm a natural (got laid several years before pick up), but I remember when I learned about all of this stuff, I might have been creepy sometimes. I know I had a 6 month dry spell when I first started reading all of these ebooks and watching videos. 60 years of challenge says to risk being creepy, but I would go into my head and think of stuff like "ok she is qualifying herself, now I can tease her about her insecurity and maybe do a little kino" rather than being in the moment. I think risk being creepy means more of, physically escalate on her until you learn how to NOT be creepy. But just the act of escalating shouldn't be weird unless you keep touching her when she is like "ummmm, no" because it takes balls.
Creepy is when you are not acting through your own intentions. You are afraid, and have some hidden agenda. Maybe you want to manipulate your way into her pants, or maybe you act like you just want to be friends when you think about her while you masturbate (hey we've all been there). This is why being direct is good and typically non-creepy unless you have no clue how to take yourself lightly (picture a guy who says she's sexy as hell, and is touching her, but has the most serial killer look on his face). You reveal your intentions and she isn't having to guess if you want to sleep with her or not. A smile can help alleviate a creepy vibe
Meditation has become widespread and is good because it teaches you how to chill the **** out around girls. It helps you relax throughout the day and not be so worried about life. I have a few guy friends who not only wont talk to a cute girl sitting right next to him at the restaurant or bar, but will act all nervous when interacting with girl. I think being chill and laid back, comfortable with yourself is one of the most important things to "game"
Self amusement is a great way to not be weird. *approach* "I look awesome" or "pudding tastes yummy in my tummy" is an example of self amusement. Doing things to make yourself laugh, because what you are feeling inside is what she is feeling inside, its the law of social interaction. When a person approaches you all nervously, you feel nervous as well. Anytime I watch someone give a speech or presentation and they are nervous, it freaks me out. I want to get the F out of there. Again, taking yourself not too seriously and having the perception that the world is a light, rather than heavy, place to live.
When it comes to approaching, it is completely non-creepy and shows how big your nuts are when you use the 3-second rule. I force myself to get up and start walking immediately, because I know that the longer I sit there, the more nervous and inside of my head I get. But the most important thing, if you sit there staring at her for 5 minutes thinking about the approach (and particularly if she notices), she will feel INSTANT creeper mode coming from you.
... bro.
CHAT
