I got a troublesom problem with a girl that I like.. We have been doing some stuff and she has sleept over at my place some times and I at hers. I like her but she has some problem to start to like someone and she doesn't like me like I like her yet. Friday night we went to a party together and my friend Christopher were there aswell and he like her aswell and she seems to like him aswell and it was the first time they ever met. He had only seen her on pictures and such but had never met face to face if you know what I mean. She said things like "oh, you're so cute" and only such things to him and never to me. Since friday night to sunday night she slept at my place and around 11pm she went home. When she left I also said "I can call you and keep you company while you are walking home." and she said "Oh, okey" and gave me a smile, a smile that were Worm. Then I called her like 5 minutes after and it was busy. Then when she was home she went online on Msn and I asked who talked to and she said of course Cristopher. Every night when she slept here she text messaged to him like.. like.. once every 3th minute.

I seriously dont know what to do..
I leave a Poll that you can vote and ill listen to all of your comments.
Help me out here please!

Appreciating all help I can get!

That's rough, man. I'm assuming you and your friend aren't that close, there's a fine line between alpha and asshole. However, what I would say is that clearly she's feeling him, perhaps more so because of the excitement of flirting across a boundary.

Just up and leaving isn't going to solve the problem. It seems like she has little respect for you tho. If she wore a sign saying, "I'm interested in Christopher," it would only be a smidge more obvious at this point. . .

Be honest with yourself: do you want THIS woman, or would you rather play the field again, at this point? One thing I've learned is that it takes a bigger man to be emotionally expressive, not hiding what he feels. That shows that you value yourself. Either tell her that you feel something is missing in the relationship OR that her time spent talking with Christopher actually makes you want to explore the market yourself. Hope you get what you want. . .

-H!j!nx

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That's the problem.. Me and Chrisopher kinda good friends.
And yes I want this woman, I really do.
Thanks for you help man!

well not all is lost, of course it does sound like your in the freind zone man.. its hard but not impossible to get out of... as far as her "intrests" with your freind, dont think alot of it... she can still be attracted to you, but you have your work cut out for you, i cant really give you any advice as far as that beacuse im not sure what you were doing to attract her, if you could go a little into what you were doing to pick her up i might be able to help you more

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if actions speak louder than words then imagine what your intentions are screaming

to succeed you must learn, to learn you must first fail

Id rather be the one in a relationship instead of some guy id pretend to be...

When I first even noticed her presence I started to talk to her and then I noticed that we "clicked". Both of us liked the same sort of music, same sort of sports and we had a hell of a lot in common. After that I went for a drink and by then she laid down in the sofa so I did her company and gave her her drink and drank up my own and after some shots and beers both of us were abit drunk and we started to do things and she slept over at my place and the morning after we started to talk even more and then we went out for a walk around the town and did nothing more then just talk about some random shit.

ok ya id say your in the freindzone man, it seems like you went into rapport (emotional connection) to fast.. you should definatly banter (playfully flirt) and be lighthearted, funny ect... humor is the best way to begin a conversation and it conveys your fun to be around and things arnt to serious therefore making you attractive and you stand out amongst guys with lame pickup lines and over confidence, have you ever looked into natural game ?

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if actions speak louder than words then imagine what your intentions are screaming

to succeed you must learn, to learn you must first fail

Id rather be the one in a relationship instead of some guy id pretend to be...

Yeah I have, but not so much actually. Haven't been reading anything special in there.
Humor you say.. Hmm okay.
Thanks alot for the help man!

Appreciate it!

definatly and any time man, and if you really wanna look into natural game i can suggest some great content thats helped me out alot, it covers a great amount of things including these types of problems, let me know if your intrested

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if actions speak louder than words then imagine what your intentions are screaming

to succeed you must learn, to learn you must first fail

Id rather be the one in a relationship instead of some guy id pretend to be...

That would be lovely!

alright man, firstly if you have itunes you gotta check out aj and jordan talk chicks... its a podcast and its filled with content, they also have another podcast called the pickup podcast, its a little bit more cluttered but it has over 100 episodes all great and helpful, if your looking for a program and have a little cash to spend then you can check out the art of charm program at theartofcharm.com, and finnaly for txt game go to http://howtotextgirls.com/ , hope all goes well

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if actions speak louder than words then imagine what your intentions are screaming

to succeed you must learn, to learn you must first fail

Id rather be the one in a relationship instead of some guy id pretend to be...

Ah okey, seriously man... Thanks a thousands time