FR: 16th July 2011

So I had a bit of free time toay, and I saw that Diamonds had texted to say he was in Birmingham already, so you know what I did . . ., I went to Birmingham, oh yeah.

I got into Birmingham at roughly 2:30pm, I was a bit late due to traffic, from there we approahed a few sets to get a bit of practice in before meeting up with Jackal later on we sarged up and down new street, moving sets came naturally to us, we worked our way back up towards, paradise forum and out towards broad street, we did ponder on the idea of going to blindly place, but seeing at it was early, it wouldn't have yielded anything, plus we were having fun, regardless if sets didn't interact properly or they did yield any closes, . We both got calls from Jackal to see what the plan was, and we decided to meet up at paradise forum, jackal was already on his way, and we were on the other end of broad street so we would pretty much meet up at the same time.

Once we met up with Jackal, he informed us that Volcano would be joining us, this would be the first time I'd be meeting Volcano and I was really looking forwards to it, we had spoken over the phone a few times, and I was itching to meet him. Once we hooked up with Volcano, I can say that in really like this guy, he oozes confidence and a noo bullshit attitude, I like , Jackal slit us up into groups so it was me a Volcano, and Jackal and diamonds. We hit new street to start our business.

The first successful set were a 3 set, the were all good looking and looked liked the girls I use to hangout with at school, (lol damn I wish I knew PUAing existed back then), one thing I can say about this set was the interaction level I could see Volcano was creating,i could see his method of kinoing and verbal communication, he was making the girls laugh, I opened the set with a new type of opener I was test, it goes something like this, "Edward or Jacob", for our slightly elderly audiences this may not make any sense to to our younger market it will. So I stop right in front of them as they walking, put my hand out prompt them to stop swell and then open, it creates a riff between the group as to who prefers whom, and it works, it's an opinion opener with out it implying it as an opinion, we found out that they were just out shopping after a bit of banter and talking back, Jackal pulled me out of the set to give me some really good advice, that I should go in a split the set up, stand in-between them, so that they don't always have to rely on each other for confidence, this not only breaks down the set's connection with each other, but also makes you involved with the set, making yourself a part other group. Well all I say is that we both number closed this set, I took the hottest girls number, and left with a huge grin on my face.

There was another set that I approached while I was with diamonds, it was a woman who was actually headed to a date, to meet a guy from match.com, lol, but she was really responsive, once I put my hand out to shake hers, I didn't and she didn't let go, lol, Diamonds, thanks for this, he then suggested at we both go on an instant date, she was looking to Diamonds to see if I was a good guy, again , thank you Diamonds, and guess what, she said not and walked away. . . I just messing with you, she said yeah sure, so I walked with her to the Mailbox, and i kinoed her, once we had to cross the road I told her to hold me hand to cross, once she did, I didn't let go, there is a bit of an art form in this, I didn't do it properly, but remembering it now I know what I should have done, if you want to know what PM me, once we reached the mailbox, I said to her that you look lovely, I hope that your date put photos of himself from 5 years ago, and is now fat, and since you've seen me and I've seen you, I'm gonna ask you out for a date, if he isn't what you expected, give me a call, you have my number. I left her with a kiss on the cheek and went back to the crew.

Well from there we made our way towards brindley place, I don't know why all of a sudden my AA started to creep in, I really didn't feel like approaching any sets, it like I wanted to tell everyone to fuck off, and leave me alone. I did approach a few sets, but nothing came out of it, to me I was like an American gunner, shoot my gun and hope it hits some thing. I felt like shit, but one thing I can say, that changed my mood, was The gang, the Jackal gang, Volcano, Jackal and diamonds helped me out to a make me feel better and it worked I got that little feeling of fire back, granted it was small but I can feel that something was there, so we started back on track.

Once we got to brindley place, Jackal made me approach a few sets in the Slug and Lettuce, but again lol nothing came out of it, so I haven't got anything to say about that, on to the next venue, we walked over to the pitcher and piano, I approached a two set that were sitting outside, and I just did a basic introduction, Volcano was soon to follow suite and engaged himself with one of the girls, I didn't really have a good time with the girl I was with, she was how do I put this, ALPHA lol, but I held in there, I could see that the other girl was into Volcano so I tried to isolate the other girl to the best of my abilities, but our conversation came to the point where I was nagging her a bit too much for having a BF so I had to eject, but Jackal pushed me back into the set, I had to do it, I knew what was on the line, I went back in not looking for a number but to be a distraction, and it bloody worked, Volcano got him number close and I got my confidence back.

This is where our night would end as Volcano had to push off and I had a meet up with some friends elsewhere, I had a really good day, it had it's ups and downs and lefts and rights, but I made it thru, that's guys for being there, I t was absolutely a honor to sarge with you, see you next time.

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MISSION ACCOMPLISHED

I think I have just cracked it. Thank you Captain Diamonds. Its amazing how we discover things accidentally.

We are all pioneers in this journey just like Christopher Columbus. LOL.

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DIAMONDS IMPERSONATORS WANTED

Please contact Diamonds as he has too many dates a week and is having to cancel some of them. I know its disgusting. So please if there are any of you who can impersonate him, please take his place.

15 dates in week. Is too much for any man. LOL

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Thats good man. Let me know when you lose the virginity. If you need any tips on sex pm me. 100% serious.

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So there we have it!

Field Report Friday 22 July 2011:

Apologies for grammatical, semantic and spelling errors. Again I spend so much time writing these that I cannot afford time to proof-read them.

Again, it was a long day for me, in fact a very long day to top of a very long week of dating different girls. Yesterday, (Thursday) I had arranged to firstly go to Solihull to meet a girl I’ve been seeing a few times, the plan was to meet her at 1pm and to then move onto a second date meeting that I had arranged with Georgina at 6pm. The first date of the day went well, I managed to keep things fun and interesting and she is still interested in me. I am taking it slow with this girl though because she seems the type that is very selective about who she sees or how fast things go. Either way she still enjoyed kissing me which was good. My second meet with Georgina didn’t go so well, she was late and my mood was sort of too low energy. I knew I should push to kiss her again but I just wasn’t feeling right. I ended up not kissing her which disappointed me because the date was so AFC. I won’t be surprised if she doesn’t call back or reply to my calls. Either way I knew I had one arranged date for Friday so I could redeem myself then. So even though I wasn’t sarging it was none the less a busy day.

Given the disappointment of yesterdays second date I decided that I would really push to kiss the girl I was meeting today. I feel that I am now good at kiss closing a girl off the street during the first few mins of meeting... It feels like a normal progression in that, I approach, compliment, tease, number-close, slow-down, kiss-close, arrange a date, leave. However for some reason, that I really can’t explain, I find it more difficult to kiss close on second meets. I think that the problem is that I have to re-initialise all the energy, excitement and feeling in the interaction myself from zero, whereas if I am sarging with Jackal my energy and confidence is already high, energy is flowing and kissing and fun seem so simple things to achieve.

Although I have this problem, I am still able to kiss all the girls I date (Georgina being the exception last night), it just feels more difficult. Well I’ll just explain how the date went and share all the things that were running through my mind because actually, if I am honest I wasn´t really looking forward to it as I should have been. I felt pressured. I was so annoyed that I had been so AFC with Georgina that I told myself “I must go in all guns blazing with Gemma!” and began layering pressure onto myself. This was a bad thing! The only reason that I eventually did succeed is because like I often say, I pride myself on being someone who thrives under pressure.

I hadn’t really arranged the date which was a good thing; a few days after meeting Gemma, she had messaged me out of the blue:

“Hi its Gemma from Friday. Just wondered whether you wanted to go for coffee some time?”

It was nice that she asked me, I would definitely meet her because she had had the courage to ask which I know, takes a lot when you don’t do it often. I told her that Friday the 22 would be the only day I was free so we arranged to meet at 2:15 pm. I would have preferred later because for some reason I have a limiting belief that seems to state: "It is easier to kiss girls in the evening!" I know, it is so illogical! Despite this I would use this date to shatter this belief by escalating things in the day time and early afternoon. I arranged to meet her at Brindley place.

My plan was:

1) To take her to the Slug and Lettuce and have a drink,
2) Then complain that I need some fresh air, walk the street with her so I could gain compliance by leading her do different places.
3) Then I would take her to the REP building which was a little quieter.
4) Pull her by her hands to one side away from the main thoroughfare.
5) Slow things down and kiss her in a location that is “out of the way”.

I made sure that I had this clear structure in my mind because I didn’t under any circumstances want to repeat yesterday’s lack of performance.

THE DATE:

I arrived early to the Slug and Lettuce, I needed some time to cool off after a long drive with the sun shining I had become sweaty which really worried me. Also I was just desperate for a drink of soda water. I was half way through my drink when Gemma messaged me asking where I was, I told her I was already inside. As I saw her walk in I instantly cranked up my engine and put the plan into action. She looked stunning, she was very slim, quite short, with long blonde hair and piercing blue eyes and a cute smile. Although I don’t normally go for girls with blonde hair, I decided she was definitely my type.

“Hey!” I greeted as I stood tall and smiled broadly.

“Hi.” She said quietly with a smile of her own.

“Omg you look gorgeous! Give me a hug.” I told her she was gorgeous because sometimes I forget to compliment girl and remind them why we are both meeting. If I did not do this the conversation would become a polite “friends” conversation and I felt this would make the transition into a more seductive conversation more difficult later on. Also when I say this, it feels like I give myself permission to escalate and seems to relax a burden on my shoulders by getting the first compliment statement out of the way. (if you understand what i mean?)

“Thanks.” She smiled. I know she appreciated it because although this statement started as a line/opener, I now use it with sincerity and girls can tell.

I took her to the bar and we got ourselves drinks, I ordered a soda water for now since I’d already had so much alcohol this week because of the other dates. Following this we went to sit down. I chose the location of where we would sit very carefully. I wanted to chose a central position so that others could see us (after learning what had happened in Nuvo I thought I should display to the other girls that I was pre-selected…just in case). Secondly I chose a tall table with two stools placed close together. The reason for this was that I wanted to be able to sit very close to her so I could kino. I also would prefer that we stood. If we stood talking I would be able to subtly step forward and get closer.

As we went to sit at my selected table we began to talk politely about what we do, how our days have been and all the general chit-chat that a second meet entails. I made sure to keep kinoing her hands and upper arms whilst telling funny stories about things that had happened in my life. To be fair these stories aren’t really funny at all but she was laughing either way; especially when I told lame jokes to lighten the mood. However if I am honest I was making sure my jokes were bad. The reason for this is that I wanted to see if she really liked me. I remember reading a book that explained if a girl laughs at all your jokes even the unfunny ones, she is into you. And she was laughing. A few minutes later though I accidentally did something stupid and started talking about religion, she went to a Roman Catholic School, I am an atheist, as you can imagine our heads briefly butted. When I realised where I was going, I promptly changed subject and told her about cheesy pickup-lines that my friends in Germany had told me to use on German girls while I was abroad. We had so much fun running through all the terrible lines that I had learnt.

We talked for about an hour, but I was beginning to worry. When and how I was going to go into the second phase because I suddenly felt nervous? The conversation was good but wasn’t going anywhere in terms of building on the attraction we had. Regardless I knew it was seriously time to move. I remembered Jackal telling me “If a girl is there to see you, chances are she IS attracted to you. You can be polite, not do anything and she will still like you but the attraction will disappear. But remember this, a girl is just as happy to be swept off her feet, even in one sudden and sometimes suprising confident move.” I took heed of this. I was going to move.

“Hey you know what.” I said as I kinoed her knee. I wanted to see if I could touch her leg without reaction. I go nothing.

“What?”

“I need some fresh air let’s head out.” I said as I kinoed just above her knee. She didn’t flinch. I took this as the good sign it was. I gestured her to get up and as she rose from her seat I put my hand behind her back and lightly pushed her in the direction I wanted her to go. From Brindley place we walked slowly across a small bridge that led to the REP building. As we walked I told jokes and kinoed. However I was still feeling nervous. The energy was not quite there. How was I going to build it?! As I led her into the REP through some large automatic doors I instantly looked around for a quiet location to take her. I noticed a small art gallery to our right as we entered.

“Oh look at that sculpture of medusa!” I pretended to be interested as I took her by the hand to lead her to the side.

“Oh yea that looks good.” She was being polite and kind of quiet. I didn’t know what I should do. I was starting to feel intimidated by her beauty...

Then it hit me: She is here…with YOU, so she is attracted to YOU, she isn’t going to start the ball rolling, YOU have to!

I leaned against the glass wall of the gallery and pulled her close. I slowed things down.

“You know, you look so good in that dress, I’m so impressed.” It was weak, but it was a start, besides it helped loosen my nerves up.

“Thanks.” She replied. I notice she was wearing a medallion that was lying on her chest. I complemented it and grabbed it. I was actually using it to briefly place my hand on her stomach. I was progressing and things were getting there, but in terms of getting the kiss I would guess was only 15% of the way through.

“Hey…” I said as I placed my hand flat on her stomach without removing it. “Come with me…” She followed again. I needed to stop beating about the bush, I was letting my nerves get to me so I dragged her back onto the main thoroughfare and to one side again where we leaned against some railings that surrounded a small potted tree.

This was it, I was just going to go. Success or failure I just felt like I had to at least try!

“Ok, I’m so glad you came out.” I slowed down and looked into her eyes. She looked back.

“Yep, me to.” She replied.

“Give me your hands.” I said with as much confidence as I could draw from within. She complied. I took her hands and let my fingers slide between hers. I thought about testing to see if I could kiss her by touching her hair and face and then running a routine I had seen on the internet but remembered back to my promise to myself “All guns blazing.” So I instead decided to just blurt something out which I honestly believed would not work because I was not feeling fully in my “zone”.

I leaned forward so her face was close to mine and stepped closer so that our bodies touched. I could feel her body-heat and breathing. Within a fraction of a second of stepping forward is whispered…

“I am going to kiss you now, ok.” Expecting her to pull back and say no i waited...

“Ok.” She only said one word and she said it so cool and calmly. I leaned forward and gently pecked her on her lips but I wanted more so I pulled back and took a deep breath before leaning forward towards her ear and whispering softly.

“You smell so good; now give me a proper kiss.” As girls usually do she enjoyed me telling her that she smelt so good. As I told her she leant forward and leaned against me and rested her head on my left chest and shoulder. I took my left hand from hers and gently stroked her hair before pushing her away slightly so she could face me directly. She put her hand lightly on my chest ahead of looking up into my eyes. All this was literally happening in seconds. It still staggers me how quickly mood and SPAM in an interaction with a girl can change.

I leaned forward and kissed her. This time let my mouth fall open as I touched her lips in order to signal to her that I wanted her to give me a French-Kiss. She let herself loose and vigorously pushed her tongue into my mouth and kissed me for several minutes. As the passion raised itself I pulled her tightly into me by placing my hand on her bum. She seemed to like it because as she kissed me I heard her release a breathless, sly laugh. Although the kissing was good I wanted her to really feel a tight connection so I was thinking that the action of pulling her close to me may have epitomised things.

For me this kiss was mission accomplished. I considered trying to escalate things a bit further as I did with Abigail but she seemed more of a relationship type girl who would not respond to something like this so quickly. For this reason I settled with continued kissing.

After a few more minutes, I took her by the hands again and led her to the open café which is found inside the REP hall. I wanted to talk to her a bit more and normalise things again after such a heated interaction. I really like this girl so I want to take this slowly and carefully. Just for reassurance to myself, as I normally do, I asked her to kiss me several more times. She complied each time. Before long though it came time for us to leave each other, technically she had to leave first because she had work soon, but I remembered that I would make sure I would end the date first so as to make sure it doesn’t look like I have too much time on my hands. After all we had been together for about two and a half hours now.

I raised myself from my seat, stood above her and took her hand before again pulling her close to me and placing my hands behind her waist.

“Ok.” I said before pausing again. “I hate to say this but I really have to go now.”

“Ok, I know, I need to go soon too anyway.”

“But…I enjoyed today, I think you did too, so if you like we could see each other again. Would you like that?”

“Yes, I would.” She agreed. I felt her bright blue eyes piercing mine.

“Good, because I would like to see you again.”

We spoke a few more words before departing but as we turned away from each other it felt like she really didn’t want to leave because she kept a hold of my hand until the very last second where she literally needed to let go. So, on the whole I was really pleased with the date. It went so well, we had so much in common and most of all we had managed to kiss. On the other hand I also felt completely shattered. Taking a date out is actually really tiring because you always need to be on top form and busy making plans and figuring out how to make sure everything works out.

I had two hours to kill before Jackal would be coming out so I decided to call him to tell him how positive my meeting with this girl had been. I was still on a high when I called him and he could tell by the sound of my voice.

“Your energy levels are at 1000% right now, you need to call all of your numbers and ask every girl out on a date right now! This enthusiasm sounds so attractive!” He told me after a brief greeting. He was probably right because I felt amazing. I decided to do what he suggested and began systematically calling my old, failed/flake numbers. One by one I went down my list. Each time a girl answered I would say:

“Hey! I don’t know if you remember me but I got your number a few days/weeks ago! We really need to hook up again! I am free right now!” I was having such a good time just blasting away at all my once redundant numbers. Eventually I managed to get three instant dates after explaining:

“I only have half an hour before I need to get moving so if you want to meet hurry down!”

I met each girl in sequential order, I swear I felt like…well I don’t know what I felt like…but I felt good! Whilst I was in these dates I would have call-backs from the some of the other girls who had responded to the answer phone messages I had left. I didn’t have enough time to see them all so I ended up having to cancel on them. The dates themselves were great but were all hard work because it felt like I had to approach them and generate all the attraction from absolute zero. It was hard work.

When it came time to actually meet Jackal I was already pretty tired and low energy and it showed in my performance. Overall tonight I only managed to get two more number-closes and another instant date, I just wasn’t approaching enough; I was exhausted. My only solid number close was with a cute 25 year-old who had just finished work. The interaction went perfectly because I really didn’t want to let her pass me by. I find that the sets that I really want to close I usually do because of that added desire. I just approached her directly with my usual…

“OMG stop! Seriously, I need to talk to you because you are fucking gorgeous!” She stopped a moment and smiled as she thanked me.

“…but I really need to get to New Street Station, I am catching a train…” Normally if I stop a set and they are really insistent on leaving I just let them go but considering my lazy performance tonight I decided to break the rules and walk along with her.

“Yea I only have a few minutes too, me and my friends are heading up there.” I said as I pointed towards the Paradise Forum. “You know, I’ll quickly walk with you, I can’t let you go.” I smiled.

“Ok.”

“But, well…you do realise we are now on an instant date right?” I said cheekily. She laughed at this remark and played along.

“So, what do we talk about?” She asked.

“About who we are…” I replied before introducing myself properly and telling her things about what I had done. I go her to do the same as we walked our way from Birmingham Council House towards New Street Station. After she introduced herself I decided to justify my reason for being with her a little more.

“That’s great…” I said confidently. “…because the whole reason for me walking with you was to see if you were as cool as you are gorgeous. Now the plan is to ask for your number soon.” She laughed and we carried on talking. The whole time I remembered to keep touching her arms and back in ways to guide her subtly to where I wanted to go. For example, when we came to cross a road, I placed the back of my hand on her stomach to stop here while we checked the way across was clear, thereafter I placed my hand on her back to push her into movement.

After a bit more conversation I teased her on a few things just to get some fun flowing. She kept saying that our conversation and what was happening was so random so I told her it was her mini-adventure for the day and that she should let me get to know her more so I could take her on more. She began talking about places we could go and visit; she loved it.

Eventually we reached a location near New Street Station so I decided to disengage first. I stopped her, turned her towards me so we were facing each other and placed both my hands on her upper arms. I looked into her eyes and told her:

“Ok look I have to go back to my friends now; it was really great talking to you…” but before I could finish she interjected.

“Give me your number before you go…” She beat me to the punch.

“I was just about to ask the same. No you give me your number. I want to make 100% sure I can contact you again.” I said to her amusement. With no hesitation she gave me her number, I was pretty sure this was a really solid number close. Everything felt so right. As per usual I told her to take out her phone so I could test if the number was real; to this she had a real giggle as I told her that if the number was fake then I would actually be really mad with her. The number was genuine. I also told her that I would call at 4pm the following day to fully arrange another date. About twenty minutes after number closing I received a message from her saying that it was great to meet me and she hoped I had a good night.

The next day I called her but got no response. I actually felt really disappointed. I couldn’t work out what had happened, I’d thought that the number had been so solid. About two hours later though a message came through:

“Just out shopping I really didn’t think you would call. Did you have a good night?”

“Yep it was great thanks. How was yours? What made you think I wouldn’t call?” I replied.

“I don’t know, I guess I’ve heard it all before but it was a nice surprise. I just went home. I´m doing some shopping for the V festival.”

The conversation goes on. I will soon ask for her to come out. My fingers are crossed.

For the rest of the night I didn’t really approach too much, I was actually feeling pretty low energy now; after all, I had been pretty busy. I also felt that it was ok for me to retire for tonight because I had managed to get a good close. I would approach, but instead of for training, I would do so of my own volition. The evening was drawing on when I ended up getting back with Jackal and Dolphin, the sun was sinking and the light was low. It was that usual time of transition where “home from work” sets were dwindling and being replaced by more and more “partying sets”.

We carried on walking down Broadstreet towards Brindley Place on our way to The Slug and Lettuce. When we arrived I saw that Cola was already there with some friends of his. As it always is it was really cool to see him again and relax and talk for a bit. After talking for a while I thought I better get back wit Jackal and Dolphin lest they wonder where I had gotten to. To be honest I think I only briefly engaged a two-set of hot Asian girls. I found the music a bit loud and irritating so after having a small conversation which didn’t really lead anywhere I politely disengaged and headed into The Pitcher and Piano where Dolphin was to quickly to see if I could find someone to talk to in there.

Given that I was feeling a little low energy and rusty I decided to just launch myself into a two-set. Pretty quickly Dolphin came in and helped me isolate. I did really well with the girl I was talking to, although she was probably an 8 at best I decided push on. I kinoed and she reciprocated, we laughed and joked but to be honest I was wasting my time because I had forgotten to ask her where her boyfriend was early on. When I did ask she let me know she wasn’t single. Although I had had a good conversation with her, teased and joked, I felt annoyed that I had wasted so much time.

Both Dolphin and I politely came out of set. Thereafter we rejoined Jackal in the Slug and Lettuce. We didn’t really approach hard-core like we normally do, instead we stood and talked whilst every so often engaging. Before long however it was coming close to being time to end the night. At about 10:30 we all headed off towards Broadstreet which is near to where my car was parked. On the way Jackal spotted two really hot 10s. They looked incredible in their short skirts and tight tops. Jackal told me to engage them. I did. I didn’t want to miss this set.

I stopped them with the usual “OMG you´re gorgeous, stop! I have to talk to you before you go.” They were really receptive and laughed. I suddenly felt motivated again to perform. I feel that I did pretty well. I was making them laugh and having a great time. It was at this point that Jackal jumped into the conversation where he completely dominated the attraction and controlled the set. He started demonstrating all his techniques as his funny nature had the girls in stitches with laughter before turning the conversation very sexual very quickly. I really didn’t know what to do or say because after Jackal came in I was pretty much completely ignored so I decided to watch him work. He had both of the girls intently focused on him. It was at this point he demonstrated how good he was by in turn lifting the girls up by their bums and running around carrying them to where he wanted them. They both loved the attention and fully complied with everything he did.

After this impressive demonstration Jackal told us that he wanted us to do the same thing tomorrow because lifting someone could be considered a really powerful form of compliance testing. I will try it tomorrow, although I feel nervous at the prospect. Regardless, I have felt so nervous almost the entire time I have been on this journey with Jackal, if you want to be confident at something you first have to conquer your fear of it I guess.

Finally before I finish, I want to thank Dolphin for coming out, I always really enjoy it when you are out with us, you are a positive friend and really help me when I am feeling as though I am in a rut. I am seriously so glad you decided to share your time with Jackal and I. I´m also really looking forward to seeing Volcano tomorrow, for some reason it feels like weeks since I have seen you. Has it been weeks?

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Saturday 23 July

I met the Jackal with some dramaful news on Saturday. The night before, the girl that
I had slept with texted me saying “Youre a dick, dont contact me again”. I didn't get it and at the time I just thought she might have been drunk and was being silly about me not replying. She texted again without my reply saying something like “Ill give your watch to **** to give to you, Im sure you wouldnt mind seeing her sexy legs”. I still didnt understand what she was about so I texted “are you drunk? Whats wrong?” and she explained that her and this other girl (that I was texting) were best friends. The reason she knew about the other girl was because I added them both on a social networking site. Anyway, I played it like I wasn't shocked in the slightest and didnt take it seriously. I replied for a while then didn't respond as the texts weren't getting anywhere.

I took it all as a challenge to see if I could get her to meet me again.

I had decided to call her as soon as I got to brum. I did and she agreed to see me to “sort things out”.
She then texted back having second thoughts saying “Ive agreed to bby sit and I don't even think I can stomach seeing you tomorrow blah blah blah”. So I called her and using Jackals advice I made it as if I was offended and gave her an ultimatum. I explained that I wasn't aware of her “feelings” towards me and that she was being silly and overreacting. At the end of the conversation, she didn't agree to come and I said something I almost regret but I know it got to her, I said something like“okay well nice knowing you... bye!” -long pause- and she said “bye”. End of conversation.

Anyway, I won't bore you with the details but I got her to agree to see me at 1230 that night after her baby sitting job! I feel bad.

To the actual sarge:

I approached a girl, did my usual who laughs more/ comedy routine, took her number. A 7, and She was really receptive.

Then Diamonds approached a two set, one was a fucking... 9, I might say 10, but it's difficult giving someone that number, and her friend was a 5 or 6. As diamonds was talking to this 9 she was so enthusiastic and very receptive, an external PUA walked by and Diamonds disengaged to talk to this guy (they knew each other) He left set withis bitch! WHY!?

While Diamonds spoke to this guy, me and Jackal spoke to this set. Energy was high, but they needed to catch a train and I said “before you go, gimme you're number!”. This was directed to anyone who would give it but I was talking to the 6 and Jackal kept eliciting responses from her towards me. So she gave me the number.

We walked up towards paradise forum and Jackal and Diamonds were ahead, it was me the external pua and Dolphin walking up, I decided to approach a an alternative looking 7-8, blonde hair and with colours streaked through. Spoke to her for a bit, and got her number in under 5 minutes. I think the external pua might have been intrigued/ impressed. He asked “did you get the number?”, I said “yeah” and so he asked “what did you open with?”, I didn't respond although the conversation continued.

What I have taken from the external pua is a routine he mentioned using: when a girl says she has a BF just fall to your knees and shout “NO!” as loud as you can. Brilliant. Ima use it.

A bit later it was me and Jackal and Dolphin and Diamonds were doing their thing else where. Jackal had asked me to use some Sasha routine where you touch their shoulder from behind and when they turn around say “you're so fucking beautiful, Im going to have sex with you right here in front of every one”. Ten times I was to try this to see if it worked. The Jackal had explained that you should try something at least try something ten times before you give up. I did many of these approaches and I didn't like them in the slightest, especially for day game. Many times women were scared off, frightened to the point where they screech for a second! Most of the just recoil then move on.

But I was doing it all wrong. I didn't carry on with conversation after this ballsy approach, I kept expecting a response... as if they were going to say “alright go on then!”. Well this did happen one in the ten times but she was playing obviously.

I walked past a girl 7-8, and I was told to do the Sasha routine on this one and just as I walked past I realised this was one I approached last week, the one I had the supposed instant date with. This was one that didn't answer my call or text. I did this routine and She knew it was me. She didn't recoil and she wasn't frightened, she turned around and smiled – I held my hand on her shoulder for a while. I said my shit then laughed at my self. She raised her eyebrows and smiled. We spoke for a bit. I busted her in a playful way about her not getting back to me. We ended the interaction well and she initiated the hug. She said she was going subside again and I said I would probably see her inside later on.

After I did this 9 times, it was my last time to do this approach. I was on my way back from sainsburys and I spotted a two set, a 9 and a 6. I let them walk past me as per usual and then turned around to do the routine. As I touched her she moved back as usual and I just thought “here we go again, they're frightened as fuck”. So I just carried on and said “Youre so beautiful”, and before I could carry on with the routine the 6 said “yeah she is isnt she!”, I smiled and carried on talking with the smile, “Im going to have sex with you here in front of everybody”. So here the 6 comes out with “She wont do that but she will give you her number!”. Wosat?! Jesus, what's going on here?

I took her number and chit-chatted while taking it. They explained that they didn't live in brum and they were staying at -insert hotel name here- and they I should text them later. Hmmm what to do what to do.

I had the widest smile on my face all the way back to Jackal. I felt like I did after I convinced bby sitting girl to come to town.

I had the choice of taking the chance of calling/ texting these girls later, meeting this other girl at subside or meeting the other one that I pissed off at 1230 after her bby sitting. I'm not that much of a monster. This bby sitting girl had already booked a taxi and after all that BS between me and her I couldn't turn her down.

So me and Dolphin started to do a bit of club game. Approaches didn't come easy in the beginning as they never do for me in club game. I remember saying to dolphin, “if only Jackal were here to order us to approach”. We went out for a cig and I approached a two set. Shit went well but I didn't do a close of any sort. Me and Dolphin moved off to meet this girl I was to meet at 1230. We met her then moved back to snobs. Hung out for a bit then Dolphin moved off. Then me and this girl spent the night.

Field Report Saturday 23 July 2011:

OK so I’ll have to keep this short...again no time to check so appologies for grammatical/semantic errors.

How was I feeling? Exhausted. What did I need to do? Get numbers. How was I going to do it? I had no idea. Today was the kind of day where nothing much was really going right for me. Being active and on the go meeting girls since Tuesday had left its heavy weary print on me, however I needed numbers; but I needed them too desperately and this was my downfall.

Tonight I made the major error of placing too much emphasis on getting lots of numbers so that I could transfer them into dates. It seemed necessary to get at least six solid closes so I could get six more solid dates onto the conveyor-belt of girls which is now beginning to emerge in my life. More number, more dates, more practice, more success, more girls! I couldn’t stop this objective running through my head so that when it came time to perform, I couldn’t.

My greatest successes and number-close ratios always come from positive, fun/upbeat nights. It just felt like business and it showed as I began entering sets with my serious, objective based business attitude. Each time it would be:

“Hey guys…” but it felt so artificial. I didn’t really want to talk to them, I didn’t want to meet them, I wanted their numbers, I just wanted girls. I felt no excitement, just an apathetic wish for numbers. I felt like a robot churning out elaborate routines and language patterns. There was no inner-game, no fun and certainly no numbers being released.

Soon it began. The vicious cycle, as set after set failed I began to doubt myself. I knew logically I could do it, I had achieved so much before but something tonight was just holding me back and restricting me from getting to 100%. And then it happened. For the first time in a long time, I suffered AA!

Each time I tried to conquer it by approaching a new set my problem seemed to compound itself until I was left a gibbering, weak wreck. If I EVER in my life needed to feel the cold harsh sting of a bitch-slap across my tender cheeks, it was tonight. I felt pathetic. Instead, I was given the gift od the next best thing…positive friends!

Everyone tried to help me out, get me into the mood and swing of things so I thank all of you, but there still came a time where I just had to dip out of the scene for a while to approach on my own volition and under less pressure, I needed to leave the group. I asked Dolphin if he would come with me whilst I left the others at Wetherspoons and walked up to Broadstreet and Brindly Place. As we walked Dolphin as a true friend, consistently talked to me to try and sort my problem which to my surprise (I thought nothing could pull me up from this rut) actually started to work. I began talking to sets some more whilst not focusing so much on getting numbers. I managed to have a bit more fun but was still very unsuccessful and would eject myself. It really was becoming “one of those days”.

Eventually after wandering up to Broadstreet we entered Nuvo where I told Dolphin some more details about the date I had with Kim, the American girl who had stood me up but a cruel twist of fate meant that she happened to walk in as we were there. The situation was so awkward, I made eye contact and we recognised each other but we said nothing.

The night continued on its lukewarm path as we mingled from place to place. On our way back to Jackal and Volcano we didn’t really approach any sets because the mood was so low. As we walked past the council house I noticed a girl walking towards me, she was pretty cute, a little chubby, but still really hot. I noticed that she gave me sustained eye-contact which I reciprocated to which she smiled. As fat as I was concerned this was my go-code and invitation to talk to her.

It was one of those special moments; I knew I would get her number. I couldn’t let her pass.

“Hey, you know what, I just have to talk to her…” I told Dolphin as she passed us.

“Go for it, I’ll wait here…”

And so I went. I performed a 180 and ran straight after this girl who was walking pretty quickly, I felt confident due to the positive eye contact I had been given and felt sure I would get a number.

“Hey stop…” My usual line. She stopped whilst laughing. She was so pleased that I had decided to act upon the micro-interaction we had shared.

“Hi.” She said enthusiastically. I knew she was up for some fun. I told her the usual; that I just couldn’t let her pass without speaking to her.

“Thanks, that’s really random and has never happened to me, but I need to get to work.” She said in response to my opening lines. Considering that she was the first real set of any significance I didn’t want her to escape me that easily.

“Yea I need to go soon too, but you know what? I have five minutes, I’ll walk with you up past the Paradise Forum, it can be our little instant date. After that you’ll give me your number, ok.” I replied rapidly. I really wanted to get to know her.

“Ok.” She agreed.

Walking along we had a great conversation, things just seemed to flow, I could tell she was really attracted to me because she was laughing at all my jokes and loving the way I was just blatantly flirting with her. When the time came it was easy ask for the number.

“Like I said, now our date is over, give me your digits.”

Without hesitation she gave me her number, I called her phone to test her. It was real. I am really looking forward to seeing this girl again, she was amazing fun.

This number-close really helped me to get back into the swing of things, where I had been about 25% positive and in the mood, I now felt like about 80%. I felt good, but I was not feeling the same emotions and excitement as normal. Either way, I would push on, and perhaps I could get a few more closes.

I didn’t really approach many sets but the ones I did approach went pretty well. I was having more fun but wasn’t successful with gaining numbers. It was ok, I at least had a solid close and tonight I would begin to relax. I would allow myself to feel ok with failing. Ironically this attitude of allowing myself to fail was what actually brought me my second and final number close of the evening.

Before I carry on I want to say how impressed I was with my two friends Volcano and Dolphin. I would say that Jackal has a cruel streak about him and Volcano tonight fell victim to this LOL given that Jackal forced him to do a routine named The Sasha Routine ten times in succession. I would say it´s easily the hardest way of approaching because you literally have to grab a girls shoulder from behind and pull her around to face you. Amazingly though, well perhaps not so amazingly, because Jackal seems to know what he´s talking about it seemed to work. For instance I saw Volcano approach one girl from behind who was also wearing headphones. It was hilarious to watch because he literally scared the girl to death when he placed his hand on her shoulder, but when she turned to see his smiling face she instantly opened up and from what I could see; they both had a great interaction. It was amazing to watch!

Dolphin was equally impressive, as we were both walking alone two Asian (I mean like Indian/Pakistani) girls walked by us. I wanted to approach because I had felt so weak, so I went in by picking a flower from a display and randomly running up to one of the Asian girls shouting,

“My good lady you are so beautiful, here have a flower…” It was so cheesy I loved it (and so did my target)

Dolphin came in instantly to isolate and was literally on fire, he was letting the conversation flow and from what I could see, his target was really into him. Unfortunately my target was married. On the positive side she was really into me, telling me that if she was single she would totally let me have her number as well as saying that I was gorgeous. I could have kissed her too, I know this, the conversation and whole interaction was going so well and I had my arms around her waist. There was “that” electricity in the air; I know I could have kissed her. I didn’t though for obvious reasons.

After a few minutes me and my target slowed things down to watch the interaction between Dolphin and his target. She was really hot, I would have said she was like a 9.5 to me. If I am honest, I was so jealous! It was a complete pleasure to watch him in action. Needless to say he got a number close.


Finally, a few words on my second and final number close which actually turned out to be my hardest close ever. It must have taken like 20 minutes to get this girls number, she was adamant not to give it, but eventually I managed to persuade her. What is more I was pleased that I managed to try something new, which was to lift the girl by her bum and carry her briefly.

As we were walking through the Mailbox to disengage, we spotted a two set walking out of the front entrance ahead of us. I thought it would be a good idea to at least approach this one last set so I ran after them. I wanted to get something fun going so I decided to use my fun Out of Breath opener.

I ran up from behind, jumped in front and breathlessly commanded. “Hey, guys, stop, seriously! You have to stop a second…”

“Whoa, what? Ok…” They agreed.

“Ok, I just ran all the way from up there, I couldn’t let you get away, I had to talk to you, you are both so hot…” I feigned breathlessness and fatigue.

“What? Are you joking? Where did you run from? This is so weird…” Said an Asian girl who would become my target.

“Hold on a sec, whatever you do don’t move let me catch my breath.” I found it hilarious that they stood there for twenty seconds, which is a long time in set, letting me get my breath back!

After this point I began my usual stuff, getting them to talk to me asking them what they were up to, telling them what I was up to etc. The conversation went well and we were having such a laugh. A few moments in Dolphin jumped to help me out and really did a good job and made the whole interaction a lot more fun.

After a while my target’s friend decided to pull Dolphin to one side after telling me she was really into him.

“Bring him here for me will you?” she asked me. She was jealous that Dolphin was talking to my target.

“He’s a cool guy, I can’t interrupt his conversation, just pull him to you if you want to talk to him…” I didn’t expect her to comply but she did. I can’t remember exactly but I think she just took Dolphin by the arm and isolated him. I knew he’d be great at this stuff the first time I met him.

This sudden change left me alone with the asian girl whose name I kept forgetting. (it was Darshna). This was one of her excuses to not give the number away when I would soon ask. After five minutes into the conversation, Jackal jumped in asking Darshna,

“How much do you think Diamonds weighs?” I knew what he wanted, he wanted me to try and do the lift routine.

“It doesn’t matter, what matters is how much she weighs, man.” I said as I moved in and put my hands on her bum before lifting her and carrying her. She had so much fun with this and began laughing and screaming. After putting her down she scolded me in joking way.

“You just wanted to touch my bum! OMG!” I knew to not back-pedal.

“Of course I did, after seeing how sexy it was, I needed an excuse…” I said to her laughter and amazement.

It soon came time for me to ask for the number.

“You know I have to go but give me your number.”

“Nice try, but nope, I don’t give my number out.”

I carried on talking to her for a few more minutes and multiple times I asked for the number, each time was a fail. Eventually after a bit more playfulness I left set.

I returned to Jackal, Volcano and Dolphin who had finished with his girl.

“Did you get her number?” Jackal asked.

“She was really into you man.” Dolphin added.

“Yea she was.” Said Volcano.

“No I didn’t she just wouldn’t give it I don’t know why.” I replied.

Jackal looked at me in the eyes. “Go back in, this time take out your phone, say you absolutely can´t leave without her number.”

I was feeling fun so I decided to go back in without hesitation. They were shocked to see me come back into set but did not respond negatively.

“Stop again, I really cannot leave without trying again.” I took Darshna´s hand spun her towards me and placed my phone in her hand. “Seriously, put your number in there…”

She laughed at my persistence. Again out of nowhere Dolphin came back into set to help me isolate, he was such a great wingman. Eventually after a bit more persuasion she gave me her number. Apparentely the only reason she didn’t want to give her number to me was because she was older than me at 27. I told her to get over the age difference. At last she gave in and I took her number, I was sure though it wasn’t solid because she kept telling me:

“Just because I’m giving you my number it doesn’t mean anything, I never give my number out, especially to strangers…”

I was sure it wasn’t a solid close but I wanted to push on with her because the path of growth is always the hard one. The following night I messaged her (she wanted me to message not call).

“Hmm I know this wasn’t a solid close but considering you made me work so hard for your bloody number I’m going to send this message anyway! It was great fun to meet you, I hope you had a great night.”

Although I expected nothing, she did actually reply with…

“Ok Diamonds, seeing as you did go to quite an effort to ask me for my number, you must have done something right because I’m replying back to you! It was nice to meet you too How was work?

Veni, vidi, vici! Haha I felt amazing that I actually got a solid close of it! So although I didn’t approach nearly as many sets as usual, I still managed to get two solid number-closes! I can’t tell you how proud I felt.

Again, thanks Jackal for the help and support. Thanks to Volcano and Dolphin for coming out, it was so great to see you both again as usual. I had a fantastic time with you all despite my seriously low mood. You guys are great!

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FR: 22nd July 2011

I would meet Diamonds today at the mailbox, I had finished work and was hungry to naturally I met to Café Rouge, for a bite I got a call from Diamonds had finished a date and was already in Birmingham so we decided to meet up and head over tot eh Jam house to meet up Jackal to start our day/night of PUAing .

Once we made it to The Jam house and met up with Jackal, he showed us the importance of phone gaming in the sense that on how our attitude should be, and trust in me this is some good shit, so I don't want to dwell into it any more, we started to make our way into the city centre, and from there we got down to the nitty gritty.

I can honestly say that I didn't have much success there, I didnt get any good responses from sets or did I get a number close. So I didn’t feel too great from it, we made our way to paradise forum and then into Weatherspoons, I took this time to get my act together, calm down and relax a bit, you know take a few deep breaths just to collect myself and get into the . . . well you know what I mean lol. Jackal told me to approach a two set sitting inside and so I did, the one thing I have difficulty with is foreign girls, these girls were French and I always had a communication problem when it came to explaining jokes, I was also getting amogged, with out realizing it, I only found out when Jackal told me later on. Lol. Jackal had spotted a girl a few clicks away and told me to approach her, I was in the outside area of Weatherspoons, I saw her walk into Paradise Forum, I when from the other side through Weatherspoons, found her and stopped her saying, I saw you from weatherspoons and had to stop you cause you're fucking gorgeous, and then went in introducing myself, she told me that she had finished work, Jackal and Diamonds had walked past me and DHVed me and walked towards the bullring, she said that if my friends were heading that way lets take a walk, I said sure I’m up for an instant date, she started laughing at that as was more comfortable, I started talking to her asking her about what she did, she worked at Sainsbury, I wanted to number close her, so I went in for the close, I said that i've got to go and find my friends now, so give me your number and I'll give you a call tomorrow. She complained that I maight have made her late for her bus, I replied back by saying, “but didn't you have a good time”she gave me a huge smile and said yeah, and we went our ways.

After this we headed off to the slug and lettuce, alot didn't happen after that interns of sets, I was feeling a bit low, so me and Diamonds headed off towards Broad Street to stretch ours legs a bit and get back into the swing of things, we approached a two Asian we took this as a practice set just to get our feet wet again, and they were a real good chat, some of their friends came out and they didnt look too interested, but I wish I tried to engage them arrrggghhhh. But hey learning process.

Jackal met up with us and Diamonds went with him, while I tried to stay in the set, I then disengaged politely and walked towards Broad Street, I saw Diamonds and Jackal were with a two set, and Jackal had them mesmerized with his talent, I knew that this was one of the moments where even if I’m not interacting with the set just watch Jackal as he was teaching by showing.

After this we parted ways, I decided to do club game by myself and headed of towards the Chameleon Bar, I didn't yield any number closes, got a kiss close, and created large number of future DHVs, but if you want to know what happen on this solo club night just send a PM. The crew knows what happened if you want to as well, send a PM.

Overall the night, was positive, i only got a single number close, but this close was solid and wasn't weak, i can leave this night on a high.
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FR: 23rd July 2011

I met up with everyone at the town hall in the centre of Birmingham, today the crew consisted of Jackal, Diamonds, Volcano and Me . Diamonds was in a set at this point so I hooked up with Jackal and Volcano and another person who as it turned out to be another local PUA, it was cool to meet another of our kind, he was pretty cool, but was from what I could gather strictly day game, but it was cool to meet up with him nonetheless.

The whole gang finally were together at Paradise forum, and we took things off from there, I wasn't feeling so much energy at the time since work had melted into my personal life, so me and Diamonds took a little walk on Broad Street away from the crew just to get our heads together, I knew what I had was AA and I needed a way to demolish it because this would be the anchor that'd slow me down and put me to a stop for the night if I didn't look after it. So we headed on Broad Street but I didn't approach any sets, Diamonds had told me about this club a girl took him to where he discovered Fuckproofing, Nuvo. Inside we sat down for a bit we didn’t' yield anything from there so we left and headed back to where Volcano and Jackal were, as we were walking past the town hall, Diamonds spotted a girl and she was giving the eyes so he said to me, I have to go a talk to that girl just wait. I saw him approach her and once he assured me things were OK he told me that he'd meet up with me later, so I walked down to where Volcano and Jackal were, Jackal told me that Volcano had been trying the Sasha routine as I’ve mentioned before, we’ve all attempted this routine and now is a sort of initiation and from what I saw, Volcano was acing it, the moment he got the girls attention they were calm and how do I put it, digging him lol.

From there, after we met up with Diamonds who went on an instant date with the girl I mentioned previously we headed towards the Slug and Lettuce, once inside I didn’t find any sets that I could comfortably approach and I had AA creeping up on me, plus it only an excuse but the music was really loud as I couldn’t hear anything so me and Diamonds decided to try hopping to another bar while Jackal was getting drinks, we met up with Volcano outside told him that we’re just going to the other two bars in front of the Slug and Lettuce, again there was just too music of loud music, so we hopped back to the Slug and met up with Jackal who had come outside with Volcano, we told them that we’d try a few walking sets down on the canal, so we made out way towards the Mailbox, we didn’t approach any sets, but noticed a two set standing on a balcony, Diamonds was really up for it so he headed up through the bar which the balcony belonged to and initiated contact, we found out that they were watching in hope of seeing a person falling into the canal, we had a bit of banter with them but didn’t yield anything so we ejected politely. We walking up a bit and them back, we didn’t want to leave the crew too far.

On our way back Diamonds spotted a two Asian set, and so he creatively took a flower that was hanging on a Basket and Approached one of the two, the moment I knew he was targeting, I went in for the isolation and I felt like I did a good job, this girl Simron was really into me, she was grabbing my arm, laughing at everything I was saying , I pulled her away a bit from her friend to further isolate her, to met so was a 7.5 – 8, so I felt like I could have a good banter with her, we started talking mainly about family and shit like that and once I got the signal from Diamonds that we had to head back to the rest of the gang, we ejected nicely, and I couldn’t leave with out number closing her, so I did, I got her number, BANG.

Once we hooked up with the rest of the crew, we made our way to the mailbox, and towards Bar room Bar, inside I couldn’t really approach sets, but Jackal then told me that Diamonds was in a 3 and he needed me to isolate them so Diamonds can get a number close, I went in the set for a bit, but I pulled myself out, Jackal them prompted me to a two set sitting right in the back, but I didn’t get along with them too well so I didn’t follow up with them, again lol I didn’t yield anything from this location.

We started to make our way back out of the Mailbox and towards town, just as we stepped out Diamonds as the hawk he is spotted a two set and engaged them, I didn’t know which one he was aiming for but I went in to have a closer look, I introduced myself and then engaged the Indian I got to talking to her more, al of a sudden the other HB just pulls me around and comments on my job, al of a sudden I was engaged in talking with her, whilst I was talking with her, I saw that Diamonds was going for the number close but this girl wouldn’t comply, she wanted his FB account ( errr no we don’t do FB and have never here of such thing, heck, I don’t know what this in-ter-net is you speak off), I DHVed Diamonds and supported him in making her realize that FB is rubbish and phones are the way forward, I started talking with her friend the one would pulled me and pulled her aside for a bit, stating that we should give these two an instant date. Whilst I was talking with the other HB I found out that she was a teacher and only dates men in their 40s, Volcano gave me a good tip on how to counter that, but you’ll have to PM me for this marvellous information. Also this was a long set I could see that Diamonds had a bit of convincing to do but I also knew that he could handle it J. And guess what (if you’ve reading this report first before Diamonds then this is a spoiler alert, if you’ve already read Diamonds report then yeah he did get her number).

Well after this set we parted ways, Me and Volcano stayed behind to do club game, I didn’t have a high amount of energy to attempt Club game and so a large amount of AA pounded on me, but I still tried to give it a shot, we went into Snobs but I really wasn’t feeling much of apporachness in me, Volcano had to meet up with a girl so we then left Snobs and met up with the girl Volcano was talking about (if you’re reading this first then you need to read volcano’s report to know who she is and my we’re meeting up with her). We headed off towards Broad Street, which didn’t look too good so we headed back to Snobs, I didn’t feel that good and I had to leave since I had work in the morning so I pushed out early.

I had yet another good night and I’ll do better the next time so till then positive feedback.

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Field Report Friday 29th July 2011:

I’ll keep this as brief as possible. Apologies again for any syntactic and semantic errors.

Well, Friday really was a good day for me. I didn’t do much sarging at all really because I just didn’t have the time. I came into Birmingham because I had a date in the afternoon with Gemma at 3:15pm. Although I really didn’t want to take her out to a meal, she was really hungry after work so we went to a Nando´s is the Paradise Forum. I also didn’t have much time because she would be going back to work for 5pm.

Either way we went and got our meal (and by the way don’t ever go to Nandos, it’s a fucking rip-off, the portion size was way too small for the price and I had to pay for salt!). Anyway, although I had been looking forward to the date I was already kind of in a pissed off mood that I’d been robbed, still the conversation was good I guess.

To be honest this was the most difficult date I´d ever been on, there was a table separating us, I never want to take a girl out for a meal again, I literally could not get ANY kino in. Regardless I worked as best I could with what little resources I had at my disposal. Like I said the conversation was good, but in no way was it sexual, or contained any moments of flirting. I knew that it would be so hard for me to mentally get over the barrier of kissing her again from literally zero escalation.

After our meal we had like twenty minutes remaining, given that it was daytime, everywhere was pretty crowded so I decided to go to the REP building which literally has now turned into my seduction lair given that I have kiss-closed all my dates in this building. Although I was feeling really awkward, I masked this feeling as best I could and just decided to bulldoze forward.

“Hey, come with me, I have to start this, this has so far been so difficult to achieve in such a crowded daytime environment.” I explained as I took her hand and led her off to one shadowy, sparely patronised section of the REP building.

“Ok” This girl was is always so shy. She seems polite and sometimes scared to let her fun-self out.

I pulled her close and held onto her waist so she was close to me, I personally wasn’t really feeling any energy between us, in all honesty I don’t know if I should bother seeing her again…either way I came her for a date and to practice so I elected to just go for the kiss. I slowed things RIGHT down and lowered my voice; I wanted Mr Seducer to come out…

“I have to tell you, thanks for coming out, you are so gorgeous again, and it’s so hard to be like this with you in the day time…”

“Ok…” she replied. Always “Ok”! She looked a little nervous.

“Why are you nervous?” I probed.

“I still can’t really take compliments.” She replied coyly, so I leaned in to smell her again. She put her hands on my forearm and looked up at me. I should have been feeling nervous about trying to make this work or the real risk that she may refuse given that the date had been SO bad, but I wasn’t. I wasn’t because the shit date was down to her! She had wanted to go and get something to eat and insisted that she was starving. If she wanted an exciting date she should have planned ahead and eaten something so I could take her somewhere that would have enabled me to give her a good time.

Either way without much feeling I leaned forward to kiss her. Nothing major happened. No French-kissing like last time. I didn’t even feel anything either. I was really disappointed with this emotionless encounter I had had with her.

“You know, seriously…next time we need to go out in the evening, we should go to a night club…” I told her. I remember some of my most fun dates (I even look back to my old days taking Alice out to Gatecrashers with fondness. I want to do that again.).

After a total of probably two minutes kissing lightly I took her back to Brindly place where she works. We departed. I don’t know what she took from the interaction but on the whole I was quite disappointed.

IT IS NO UNDERSTATEMENT! NEVER EVER EVER EVER TAKE A GIRL FOR A MEAL! IT PLAIN SUCKS!

After the date I walked around town to do some shopping because I had just under an hour before Jackal could come and meet me. I ended up only window shopping. I guess I should have sarged but the date was playing on my mind. All the dates I’ve had in the daytime have been such hard work. I really need to start pushing girls to come out with me in the evening more often where we can really go and party.

Luckily for me I had another date with an Asian girl I’d met during day-game. I was going to give her a pseudonym for this report but as it turns out I don’t actually need to. My plan was to sarge for about an hour (until 7pm) then go to meet Priya.

I have decided now that I should avoid going on so many dates with girls at the weekends because all it seems to do is drain my energy which is reflected in my performance when going out to get numbers. The work involved during the day to make the dates work can be disconcerting and a bad influence on the fun mood which is required for gaining numbers later on in the evening with Jackal and the guys. I have decided that if I do go on a date at the weekend I will make sure it is in the evening at some time like 7 to 8 pm at the earliest so I can have at least 2 to 3 hours out on the street getting more numbers before I need to turn on the juice for an actual date.

Anyway, back to the night... Despite the boring date I’d had earlier I was actually looking forward to spending some time with Priya because she actually seemed really chilled out and a lot of fun when I had met her in the street. I just decided to take her to the Slug and Lettuce for an hour or so just to get things started again. I actually ended up spending much more time with her because she was just so friendly and so much fun; it felt like the conversation literally flowed effortlessly. Although she isn´t the hottest girl I´ve number-close, I actually felt something in my gut when I ended up meeting her again and in hindsight, I think I really like her. Bah back to the report...

One thing I remembered this time to do was to, as soon as I met her, tell her that she looked gorgeous. Like I said before this statement sort of seems to make it easier for me later on when I want to kiss close girls because it feels like I give myself permission to not be a “nice” guy, I also want to remind the girl why she is here with me. (If I think back, I forgot to do this earlier with Gemma!). Throughout the conversation I follow up with sincere compliments (not too many) as well as teasing the girl a bit. I found again however that I never ever seem to neg. When I think about it I don’t really like the idea of trying to knock a girl down. I only lightly neg nowadays and that is usually in the first approach and only if a girl is blatantly impolite to me. When it comes to trying to make her attracted to me, I try to build myself up in her eyes whilst also building her up and making her feel great about herself at the same time.
As we entered the Slug and Lettuce, I made sure that I was aware of the environment and began looking for good places to sit that conform to my liking. I managed to find a kind of sofa-like sitting area next to some stools with a small table next to it. This location would for me be perfect because I would tell her to sit on the sofa section (which was quite small, and I would sit next to her.)

As we stood waiting for our drinks we chatted and joked to each other. I made sure that I was working a lot of kino by touching her back and waist. I even probed her stomach. At this early stage she really didn’t mind my hand on this sensitive location. Eventually we got our drinks so I guided her to the location I wanted to sit by pushing her lightly from behind and pointing to where I wanted to sit. I told her to sit first but before I could tell her to nudge up a bit she asked:

“Come and sit on here with me.” I think she thought I was going to sit on one of the stools.

“You need to budge up first though greedy!” I remember replying. I loved the location. It was perfect; we were forced to be so close together. I thought it was good too that our legs were touching. As we carried on talking her face suddenly changed to being really serious. At the time I couldn’t understand what I had done wrong.

“Erm, gosh…this is so bad…but yea I kind of need to tell you something.”

“Huh? What’s wrong?” I asked. A sudden surge of worry flowed through me.

“I feel really awkward…” she answered.

“Ah ok…” Shit, where did I fuck up? I couldn’t work it out. Everything was going so well.

“Well, you know, my name Isn’t Priya…I gave you a fake name.” She looked down as though she was ashamed. “I feel really bad…” She continued before giving me her real name.

“Ah ok… I see, so what’s your real name? Why did you give me a fake name?” I enquired.

“Well we had all given you fake names…I didn’t think I’d give you my number…” I’d met her while she was out with about six of her friends.

“That is actually quite funny, that’s a good story for me to add to my chronicles.” I said in a way that reassured her it was ok. Then I teased her lightly for it saying that it was going to keep calling her Priya. Overall it was a funny thing to talk about.

A few minutes past and I must also say it was at this time that I discovered how girls must feel when we do the “Sasha” manoeuvre on them. (Grabbing their shoulders from behind and spinning ourselves round in front of them)

As I was chatting away to Priya I felt a heavy hand suddenly press itself on my shoulder from behind, I swear I nearly had a heart attack in front of this girl. I turned round to see a burly black guy standing just behind me smiling intensely. It was Cola. You scared me to death man! After the initial shock it was really great to see him and I remember leaping out of my seat to shake his hand and give him a hug it was a great surprise. He also gave me some DHVs which really helped. After Cola left people kept coming up and talking to me. Firstly a guy named Fraye (if I spelt that correctly!?) who I used to sarge with and then Rainking also. It was fun to see everyone out. Thanks for saying hello.

We spent about an hour and a half inside the Slug and Lettuce, it was ample time. I wanted to kiss close Priya. For this I would need a quiet location so I planned to take her to what had now become my seduction lair; the REP building. I told her I would just pop to the toilet then we should go somewhere. She waited for me while I went to the toilet, for some reason I was paranoid she would run away like Kim did but she stayed where she was! Before leaving I went over to have a quick talk with Cola, Fraye, Rainking and a few other guys that had come out with them. We then said our goodbyes and headed across a small bridge that led to the REP building. I began my usual thing of…

“Hey, wow, look at that! A statue of medusa…” I led her to one side of the thoroughfare and leaned on the glass wall of the art gallery that was located there. I stepped close to her and took her hand. She didn’t step back. I knew it was going to happen and so did she. I looked down at her as she looked up directly into my eyes.

“You really are so fucking gorgeous tonight, I’m so glad you came out to see me…” I whispered slowly. She laughed nervously and broke eye-contact by tilting her head down. I could feel the electricity in the air and I didn’t want to lose it so I placed my finger under her chin and pulled her face up lightly. I looked again into her eyes and maintained a piercing look so I leaned in and let my nose touch her nose.

“I’m not that kind of girl…” she whispered resistantly.

“I’m going to kiss you.” I whispered back.

“But I have only known you for two hours…” she was giving some resistance. So I gripped her hands tighter and slid my fingers between hers and pulled her in so our bodies were touching.

“You feel that?” I said softly into her ears. “You feel the connection don’t you.”

She didn’t reply.

“I’m going to kiss you now, ok.” I repeated.

“I don’t kiss on the first date…I’m not that kind of girl.” She said it softly before letting her head fall onto my chest. I then took my hands out of hers and placed them on her lower back. She placed hers on my shoulders. I told her to look up at me, she complied we had 100% eye contact so I leaned in to kiss her but she pulled back. I could tell this was only token resistance, I could see she wanted me so I removed one hand from her waist. I raised it to her face level and gently touched her forehead with my finger before letting it slide down her face and under her chin. I held her chin lightly and moved in to kiss her again. This time there was no resistance. Her mouth fell open and she gave me a short French Kiss.

“You’re only allowed one…” she gasped. “I can’t believe I kissed you…” I tried for another but she pulled back again. I knew now that if I were to maintain attraction I would need to roll off and make her chase me a little. (I couldn´t keep pushing; I needed to pull away)

“Ok, let’s find a bar.” I said in a cheerful upbeat manner which totally killed the romantic ambience. I would kill it to make her want it again. As I would discover later, it worked.

As we walked out of the REP building we met briefly with Jackal and Iceman who both DHVed me and added to the attraction.

“How many people do you know?” She asked. But I laughed this off. As we walked past the Yardbird I was further DHVed by a jealous looking Georgina who was with her friend who works there. Since my daytime date with her in which no kiss close was achieved we had not texted each other so with Priya on my arm I waved to her in a friendly fashion.

“Who´s that?” Priya asked.

“I am so embarrassed right now.” I feigned. “She is a girl I took out a few weeks ago but didn’t really like.”

“How many girls do you know?!”

Ten minutes later we arrived at a pub where we had only one drink each. We sat close together again. This time we leaned in close to each other and noses and cheeks would touch. I was sure she was trying to make me want to kiss her again. The subtleties were not enough I wanted her to REALLY invest in me so I pretended to not notice her blatant agenda.

“Why was I only allowed one kiss? Your lips felt great.” I teased. I wanted to stoke the feeling bubbling in her.

“I am not that kind of girl.” She repeated. I leaned in as though I was going to kiss her, she did the same after realising I was going to kiss her again but at the last moment I pulled back.

“You’re breaking your own rules…”

She began getting texts from her friends who were out in Birmingham too, it was now about 9pm so we decided to go and meet them all. I wanted to get woven into her life a little more. It felt great to meet all her friends. I was surrounded by girls and they all laughed and joked with me and I was in such a good mood that I kept them all fondly entertained with funny stories and anecdotes from my life. I absolutely dominated the set of 5 girls and two guys, it was a brilliant feeling and as we bounced from location to location I noticed that Priya was actively grabbing my fingers as we all walked the streets. Eventually I let her hold my hand.

At about 10:40 it came time for them to all leave. They all live in Rugby and travel to Birmingham to go on nights out etc. I was going to try and kiss her again before but being around her friends I didn’t get chance to isolate her from the group. Before we left Priya asked me if I wanted to come out with her next Saturday, I agreed. I had literally buckets of fun with her.

After the date I decided that I would try something new and do some club game with Dolphin, who usually tries this. I have never really tried to sarge in a club environment and if I am honest I felt pretty out of my depth; I really didn’t know what I was doing or how best to approach in such a noisy environment. Still we did the best we could and approached numerous sets although no number exchanges took place. We hopped around from club to club and initially for me I was trying to get over the AA of trying something completely new. I seem to have so many negative emotions attached to clubs given that these were the places I used to desperately hang out in during my AFC days hoping to find a girl. I´ll certainly have to get de-sensitised to the whole experience. Although I am pretty sure I wont find a relationship-type girl in this environment, I certainly feel that I should learn to perform in this environment for the pure reason of opening up options.

Despite having angst of going out to a night club I none the less had a fun time with Dolphin.

Although I didn’t get to see much of Iceman I hope he managed to have fun tonight also. It was great to see you again.

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My second night with Jackal: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sPdJzLw9 ... re=related

Meet-up and Wings:
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Field Report Saturday 30th July:

I proved to myself once again that I am improving, and given that I have had 1-2 dates per day, three days a week for the past two weeks I can feel things really peaking. I notice now that I can stop every set I approach and re-engage without hesitation. Number and kiss closes are also becoming more and more frequent. I am really growing. An important transition in my thought processes is taking place: instead of trying to prove myself to girls, I am starting to want them to prove themselves to me; indeed, a powerful shift in thinking that I am pleased to be experiencing. But…to the night…

Today I was free from dates so I could focus at long last solely on acquiring new numbers and hopefully new dates. I knew that it would also definitely be a day of continued learning because Jackal planned for us to do some further “Sasha” manoeuvres. I was to do it ten more times just so I knew I had a new tool in my toolbox.

Unlike the previous days where my mood had been serious and I’d focused on getting numbers and results, this day I just decided to relax, go with the flow, and enjoy the process. I had been watching some funny pickup videos on Youtube a few hours before which had also really entertained and relaxed me. In all honesty, with complete transparency and conviction, I can say that I really was happy.

With this strong, excited mood I walked down to meet Jackal. After meeting we conversed; he told me strange new ideas and tips that he had come up with that could aid me during dates. I also learned that I was to be the only student coming out today (Thank god I was in a great mood! I knew I would be pushed into literally every street-set by being alone with Jackal! When training alone with Jackal, don’t expect rest-bite. It’s always “Engage, engage, engage!”).

After a few minutes we decided to walk up to the paradise forum from the Jam House. As we walked and discussed things we both noticed a nice looking girl who was walking slightly behind us. She seemed to be in a bit of a rush as she overtook us but she was wearing a nice flowery dress and cute glasses which really made her look pretty. I was going to go in of my own volition but Jackal beat me in verbalising this by saying:

“Go fucking get that set and practice!”

With no ado I ran straight after her, she was now about ten feet away. I placed my hand relatively firmly on her shoulder, turned her slightly as I jumped in front of her. She jumped with slight shock and fear so I gave my biggest smile whilst saying…

“Whoa don’t panic! Don’t panic…”

She looked at me and smiled broadly. Before she could say anything herself I looked into her eyes and leapt in with,

“You are so fucking gorgeous!” Jackal had told me to keep my opener “short and sweet”, basically to just get to the point as soon as possible.


“Noo, no I´m not!” She instantly protested with conviction as she let out a laugh and smile. If I didn’t get her number, at least I’d made her day.

“Yes you are, this is so random! I felt so compelled to stop you!” I reassured. She seemed like one of those attractive girls that don’t really know they are attractive.

I knew I had locked her in; she had completely stopped and was turned towards me. Given that I was feeling so good and so high energy, I decided to try something new and instead of start some polite conversation, I elected to bamboozle her with something unconventional.

“Do you have a boyfriend?” I asked rapidly.

“No.”

“I am going to ask for your number soon ok?”

“What?!”

“Yea but before I do that, I have five minutes, which way are you going?”

“Up there…”

“Ok, I’ll walk with you up there and we will have an instant date.”

“What?” She gasped, but before she could protest I placed my hand on her lower back and urged her to walk onwards to where she was going.

“Come with me… you’re gorgeous” I urged.

“No!”

“Shush stop arguing, we’re on a date, I’m allowed to say these things…” I said firmly.

We walked and talked about random things like what we do, who we are etc. I made a point of pointing out how random this situation was. I also wanted her to associate the encounter romantically so I kept asking her…

“Did you expect anything like this to happen to you today?”

“No!” She would reply.

“It’s so romantic, just like in a film don’t you think?” I would reply as I kinoed her arm and looked into her eyes. She always concurred.

By the end of the conversation I didn’t even need to ask for her number, she began asking me how we could stay in contact. I took her details, told her when I would call, as well as making a point of saying.

“Now that we have exchanged numbers, we’re going to have a real date…” I wanted to make an impression and my agenda clear. Ideally I would have liked to spend a little more time with her to further solidify the number. I notice and inversely proportional relationship between the amounts of time I spend with a girl and the likelihood she will flake. So longer time in set seems to equal less chance of flaking. But…Jackal was waiting on his own and I did actually want to continue practicing the “Sasha” approach. Either way, I was thrilled that my very first set had gone so well.

Overall I managed to attain five number closes tonight. I can’t really write much detail about the approaches because they all ran pretty similarly. The only thing I can really point out was the wide disparity between success and failure. If I failed and did the technique wrong, I was totally blown out given that I sometimes completely scared the girl and made her run away. If the approach went well and I seemed to do everything pretty well the results were pretty rapid and the numbers came quickly.

On the whole however, I would definitely say that none of these numbers were very solid at all given that I literally spent at most five minutes in set, but hey, tonight was a training night more than a fun one. If I want solid closes I can easily go back to my old ways of spending at least 5-10 mins in set. On the whole I was glad to practice and improve a new skill.

Thanks to Jackal for again teaching me something new and really helping when it came to understanding the technique. The subtleties of it seemed actually quite complex but you broke it down really nicely for me.

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My second night with Jackal: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sPdJzLw9 ... re=related

Meet-up and Wings:
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FR: 29th July 2011

Hey everyone, how have you been.

Today was sort of laid back for me as I felt really good about myself and have brought out the feeling of freshness that I haven't felt in a long time, the best way to describe it is that I felt like Colgate lol. Anyways on to the report.

I was a bit late today as I finished work late (I know it happens to the best of us), but I was ready to not let anything stop me, so as I got out of my car and started to walk for a bit to loosen up the brain muscles I saw a girl headed towards the bullring, I knew that I had to start tonight from somewhere so I casually walked towards her until the point where we were walking side by side, i stopped her casually and asked her if she smoked she goes yeah I do, I with a cheeky grin on my face said hmmmm you know that your good looks would ruin if you don't stop, lol it was a sort of neg on my end with a complement on my end, she ask if I thought she was good looking to which I replied yeah I do, don't you? The conversation went from there, I walked past Jackal on new street whilst I was with this set, we walked down towards the bullring, I found out that she was an event coordinator, and that she was hosting a gig tonight she told me to check it out, as we reached the bull ring I didn't want to walk any further so I said to her, I've got to head of in a another direction, so you know what give me your number and I call you later t hook up, she gave the excuse that she doesn't give out her number so I politely disengaged and went back to Jackal.

This was the one of the sets I did but it was one before my meet up with Jackal, as I metup with Jackal I saw Iceman with him as well, he only had an hour to hang with us but it was awesome that he did, later on we made our way towards the mailbox, from new street to the mailbox I approached a few sets but they didn't yield anything but on to the story.

In the mailbox, we made our stop in Bar Room Bar and I saw a two set sitting in one of the cabins, Jackal told me to engage with them and I was in a good mood so I dove in with get guys I saw both of you from the bar I have to some and say hello because you're fucking gorgeous, If I remember correctly their initial response was of confusion, I blame the loud music lol, but I introduced myself and took it from there, I asked if I could sit down in the cabin with them, to which they happily complied, I talked a bit about myself and for everything I would say I would make them have a response and make them say a few things about themselves so it was a more give give conversation, a few minutes a friend of their come back from the toilet, now when I see a three or four set sitting together immediately remark sex and the city, (guys come on if we are PUAing then I guarantee that you've watched sex and the city on a semi-regular basis, if you don't then your gay cause your not comfortable with yourself) I do it to play around to find Samantha the slutty one, granted This method can yield out who's the confident single, the working mom and the slightly dumb non blonde, but I sort of do it to also see them fight over who is who, lol. From here on in Jackal DHVed me occasionally, but I started to bring the conversation towards work related topics which from what I realized later on killed the mood a bit, I can say I have a cool contact if I wish to sell or rent out a property lol, I ejected from the set a few moments later feeling that it was going nowhere and I lost them, as I went back to Jackal a wounded solider, he patched up my wound ands gave one great piece of advice well a move which is so simple and effective I wondered my my body didn't know it could do this sort of thing, this move int a sort of evolution of the Sasha maneuver, well I just tell you what I did after speaking with Jackal, I went back to the set I knew that I could only target one of them and it had to be the one I was sitting next to in the cabin so as I reached the set I sat down and put my left arm around the girl and said to her,"if i were to ask you out on a date, what would we talk about, it has to be something to keep my interest, I said this with a cheeky smile ", she went on to ask about me interests to she if she had topics to talk about, after she found a few I said that nice, so I slipped my hand into my pocket, pulled out my phone and said, so why don't you give me your number so I can set a date up, she had the most red face I've seen in a while, so was so shocked and embarrassed that I did that, her friends were also supporting me and were saying to her friend to give her number to me, after a few cheeky remarks she complied and I got her number. This is proof that there such a thing as re-engagement success.

After this me and Jackal made our leave, Diamonds had been out on a date that nit and was pretty much finished, and Jackal needed to go so we met up with Diamonds at new street as he was dropping his date off in the train I DHVed him, after which we went back to Jackal, and said our goodbyes, as Jackal left me and Diamonds decided to do club game, I've stuck with the Chameleon as I feel the vibe is much better and I know it's less of a club and more of a bar, the mentality is the same, and gaming in this environment is the most difficult, as the girls have a no shit attitude (I mean they shit test you), but before Chameleon, we hit Mechu to wet our appetites for a bit, we engaged a few sets and got good responses from them, but we didn't yield anything, so off to Chameleon, there we had one promising set, were we did parts of street game with a mix of drunk game, and we sticking with this set for a long time, until we politely dis-engaged, later on in the night, we re-engaged with them and knew who my target was so as she was sitting I put my arm around her to answer any questions that she wanted right close to her ear, this was mot biggest fucking regret of the night. W left this set later on to go on to the dance floor and we couldn't find them alter on to try and get a number close. We decided to call it a night and go our ways, i had slot of fun doing club game with Diamonds, dude we have to do it again.

Ok my regret, I ran the set in my head again from the point of re-engagement, and I realized what my biggest mistake was , I wasn't building my any sexual tension in the re-engagement, when I close to her that I was whispering in her ear to answer her questions, I should have said and done this, whilst my arm was around her and she was sitting on a stool in front of me and me talking in her ear I should have said, "you look so fucking gorgeous that I want to rip your clothes off and fuck you right here", whist at the same time putting my hand on her thigh and moving it up her leg. It was the perfect moment and the aced in the hole situation, I wish god was there to fucking kick my ass back to that moment, I would have done exactly that, FUCK!!!!!!!!!!.

But hey positive feedback please any negative ones will taste my fist,

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Dont worry dolphin it will happen for you one day just keep trying to learn better things than you are doing now and you will soon get some sex.

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So there we have it!

Hey, I enjoyed going out with you too. Thanks for the support. It´s always great fun.

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My second night with Jackal: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sPdJzLw9 ... re=related

Meet-up and Wings:
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Field Report Friday 5th August 2011:

Again apologies for errors, I have so much going on that I seldom have time to check these reports…

It feels like I am now spending less and less time with Jackal, and to an extent some of the other members of the group and tonight was no exception. I am now much more independent when going out looking for sets as well as lately struggling to allocate time to dates and sarging. Considering I am seeing five regular girls and every so often fitting in the odd new girl here and there, it feels like there just aren’t enough hours in the week to fit everything in.

That being said, I did manage to get some time in with Jackal and the guys this Friday from 9 to 11 pm after I had finished with a date. Granted it is not much time but I still managed to get three number closes.

Before meeting Jackal I had arranged to meet Niya, a Bulgarian student for a second date. My first date had run so well with her that I was really looking forward to meeting her again. We had arranged to meet for a second time on that first night because I just hate phone-game and texting. It really makes things a lot easier to arrange the next meet whilest on the current date. To confirm and check that the night was going ahead I messaged her on Wednesday. One thing I have now learnt when messaging is that it is important to add interesting or mysterious facts or comments about the up-coming date to make sure the girl stays hooked and wants to come so I wrote:

“Ahh the house-hunting…yea I remember how that was! You still good to meet on Friday? I will be free from 7pm. I discovered a really cool place to take you…”

She replied with:

“Hey, what’s this cool place that you have in mind???? Or if it’s a surprise, where should we meet at 7pm?”

“Hey, yea I’ll tell you when I meet you because we have two choices. Let’s meet at the Paradise Forum.”

If I am honest, I felt a little nervous as I stood waiting in the Paradise Forum, of the five regular girls I am seeing at the moment she is my favourite because she is the hottest and the one who I have most fun with. I am so glad that I met her and it was for this reason that I was actually feeling butterflies. This problem was actually compounded when she did actually arrive because she looked, absolutely stunning. I’d only ever seen her in jeans and trainers but this time she wore a short-skirt and high-heels. I was actually gob-smacked; although I already knew she had an incredible body through swimming and yoga, I was still ill prepared for the sight of her legs and bum. Despite the nervous energy I uncharacteristically felt I barrelled through and gave her a big smile.

“Hey! I am going to tell you…” I said with a long pause as I leaned in to hug her. “You look, absolutely fantastic!”

“Thank you, so do you.” She replied.

I immediately pushed forward with the choices I had made on where to go.

“Ok, like I said, we have two, choices…We can go to a really cool place called the Jam House, they will be playing live music and it is brilliant fun, but…the place wont kick off ´til about 9pm so it depends how much time you have…or we can go back up to Brindley Place because I want to check out The Pitcher and Piano, but also, my friends all hang around there so I know we would also have a fabulous time there too.”

“Erm, well I can only stay until 9pm because I am meeting my friends to go out to a night club later.” She replied. I was a little disappointed because I wanted her to myself for a little longer.

“OK then…” I said in my most upbeat and excited manner. “Let’s go to Brindley Place.”

I had chosen this location because I know most of the doormen and bar staff now and also have friends who congregate at this location, and besides, it is a lovely place architecturally. As we walked I told more funny and interesting stories about my past as well as teasing and complimenting her about things she said or did. I wanted to utilise the time as much as possible since we only had about two hours. The whole way I was placing my hand on her arms, shoulders, back and sometimes bum as I urged and guided her along our route. I was also blessed again by the gods who gave me a great DHV. Whilst we walked past the war memorial outside the Paradise Forum I noticed someone I did not expect to see walking towards us…it was Georgina.

“Hey! Georgina!” I shouted. She seemed surprised to see me.

“Hi, Peter. How are you?” She smiled.

“I am good thanks what on earth are you doing here?” I asked, I was actually excited to see her, she was fun, although I failed with her by not kiss-closing, she is cool and I hope we can be friends.

“I am coming to work. I work at the Yardbird now!” She said excitedly.

“Congratulations!” I gave her an excited hug. “But hey, this is Niya…” I said as I pulled Niya over to introduce her.

They politely introduced themselves. I could see that Georgina was actually surprised to see me with another girl. After two minutes of polite small talk I politely ended the conversation and moved on.

“That was so awkward…” I feigned.

“Why? She is your friend.”

“No, not really, I took her out on a couple of dates a few weeks ago but it didn’t really work out. Anyway I have my hands full with you now!”

“Hey! I am not a handful!”

We both laughed and continued walking. When we arrived at Brindley Place I was shocked to see how busy it was at 7pm.

“It’s because it’s Friday, darling…” Niya reminded me whilst scrunching up her nose as though to tease me for being silly.

I ignored her and took her by the hand and led her into The Pitcher and Piano. Instantly I wondered if I had chosen the right place, it was packed full of people, baking hot with loud music blaring. I’d need to take her outside; hopefully there would be a place on the balcony.

As we stood waiting for drinks I managed to get served first. I asked Niya what she wanted. She had taken her bank card out; she was going to out of politeness offer to pay for her own drink.

“No, don’t worry, I’ll get these ones. It will save you having to wait to order too.”

“Ok, are you sure? Thank you.” She said with a smile.

“Don’t worry you can get the next ones.” I said seriously. LOL I wish you could have seen her face. She had never been told this before. I nearly burst out laughing at her expression of shock.

“Erm, uh, ok…” She smiled. I loved the surprise on her face.

“Come on let´s sit outside.” I was kind of regretting coming here, it was so busy but I guess every place would be on Friday, so I went looking for a place outside on a balcony. I found a quiet table in a far corner of the balcony next to a three-set of older women. The location was ok but not at all perfect. She sat opposite me. Kino would be difficult but I would continue to push forward with it regardless.

We sat and chatted for a long time. It was good that she was very talkative herself but I made sure that I was providing most of the conversation. I watched a dating advice video by a women who mentioned that, even if you are with a girl who is very talkative do not let her dominate the conversation because she will definitely subconsciously notice your subordinate roll if you allow her to talk more than yourself which will be unattractive. With this in mind I talked as much as I could and made sure to interrupt and change topics when I wanted.

As time passed we had so much fun and the whole interaction was going so well but I would soon need to get her to a quiet location. After about an hour she told me she needed to go to the toilet. After she left to go to the loo I called Jackal to ask if he, Iceman and Dolphin could pop over quickly to DHV me. They agreed.

One thing that I also did was entertain the three older women who were sat next to us. I remember reading that a girl will judge you much more on how you act around others than how you act around her. The reason for this is that guys will always be nice to the girl they are dating but not necessarily to people around them. I would demonstrate to Niya that I am a cool guy by talking and entertaining these women. It worked because when Niya came back she found my sitting with these women making them laugh and really giving them a bit of fun and banter.

A few minutes after sitting back down at our small table, Jackal and the guys came over to DHV me. It really helped and was so much fun, so thank you! When they had left we spent about ten more minutes at The Pitcher and Piano before I decided to get out of there and go for a walk. I wanted to kiss close her again before she had to leave. Again I aimed to take her for the second time into the REP building which I now believe is the actually named the ICC building…(Either way I guess I should just call it the Symphony Hall.)

The problem was however, that there was building work going on inside so there was limited opportunity find a quiet corner. In the end we passed straight through the building. It was just outside the large front doors that I would decide to kiss close her again.

“Stop!” I took her hands and pulled her close before letting go of her hands and wrapping my arms tightly behind her waist, just above her bum. She looked up at me excitedly and placed her both her hands on my chest.

“It’s time for us to kiss. Look up…” I urged. She complied. I didn’t bother with any of the extra business, I only really use the touching of the hair and face for the initial kiss close. This kiss was just a continuation of last weeks. We stood for about two minutes kissing before I started whispering compliments to her. She kept arguing with me and saying among other things…

“You’re lying to me; you’re only saying this because you know I like it…” I wasn’t, she was really incredible.

“Ok.” I said. “We need to get you to the station to meet your friends.”

I lightly pushed her lower back to urge her into motion. I wanted to further build on the fact that we were out together, and reinforce the association in her mind of us being engaged in an interaction for romantic purposes.

“You are so gorgeous, make me feel proud to walk down the street with you, hold my hand.”

“Um, well…” she was teasing. “Ummm you did give me sweet compliments…so hmmm for you…ok…” She said as she offered me her hand.

“I feel so proud to be walking with such a hot girl.” I said jokingly.

“You only want to hold my hand to make yourself look good?” She joked back. I teased her again by removing my hand from hers and saying.

“Fine, I wont hold your hand.”

“I was joking!” she laughed as she grabbed my hand back. This was the reaction I wanted.

As we walked she asked me which way I needed to go to catch up with my friends. I told her that I needed to go all the way back to Brindley Place but I would make sure she got to the station ok. I wanted to play on the gentleman side of me which always seems to go down well when I take girls out.

“Aww it’s so nice that you would come this way for me.” She stopped me and gave me a kiss.

A few minutes later we neared the station so I decided it was time to start arranging the next meet. I explained that we should do something fun next week and go to a night club together. She told me that she likes to go to a place called Meechu so we arranged for me to take her there. I’m really looking forward to it because I always find it great fun to take a girl out to a night club. Before Niya left to go into the station we both hugged and kissed each other, and that was the end of that.

I would say that it was about 9:20 that I finally got back to Brindley Place. When I returned I noticed that Cola and all his friends were out too so I said a brief hello to them all before returning to Iceman and Dolphin who were currently talking to two girls.

I decided to sit down and chat too, I just wanted to relax for the moment, I came out for fun. We all ended up chatting for about ten minutes before I decided that it was once again time to go into the bar and get some practice in. I ended up only approaching one set in the bar, I stayed in for a long time because I wanted to practice maintaining my conversation skills for a longer period of time. I feel that I did very well because the girls were all laughing at my jokes and humour. Each one seemed to have a smile on their faces and I felt like I really helped them to have a more interesting and fun time. As the fifteen minute mark passed by I decided to go for a number-close, I wasn’t really feeling that I was going to get anything but I elected to just go for it. Unfortunately my instinct was correct, she declined to give out her number so I politely ejected and went back outside.

Despite the lack of success inside the bar I was still feeling pretty good. I was still happy in the knowledge that I had just been on a really fun date with a girl whose company was brilliant. I could fail all I want tonight without damaging the amazing mood that I had bubbling inside me.

My final real approaches would be street approaches. It was beginning to get dark so I decided to leave everyone behind at The Slug and Lettuce, and focus on approaching girls in the street. I made a total of three approaches, all gave me pretty positive results including lots of laughter, from my third and final set I in fact yielded a number close after going completely direct and taking the girl out on an instant date. All in all I didn’t approach too many sets tonight, but I am glad of the fun that I had. I will have to make some time available to come into town during the week.

Finally I want to mark a fantastic event I witnessed that really impressed me. It seems Iceman has made so much progress since he first began training with us. It was 11:00pm and our session with Jackal had ended, Dolphin, Iceman and I had planned to go and do some club game given that night clubs are venues that we rarely frequent. Dolphin (I think it was Dolphin) had managed to persuade the two girls he and Iceman had been talking to all night to come with us to another venue. It was at this point that Iceman really came out of his shell and really impressed both Dolphin and I. As the five of us walked the street he was completely locked in with the blonde girl he had been talking to for the past hour or so. I could see that she was totally into him because she kept grabbing him and claiming that she needed the support given that she was wearing high heels. After a while we came to a cobbled area, so this girl began complaining that she would find it difficult to walk.

“I’ll carry you!” Iceman blurted out confidently.

“Ok are you sure you can carry me?!” I remember the girl asking.

“Yea it´s fine.” Moments later his girl was laughing and squealing as she was taken away by Iceman. It was so much fun to watch and I felt so proud that he was doing so well. Dolphin felt the same because he dropped back to walk behind everyone which is where I was to come and say:

“Iceman’s actually doing really well tonight!” He really was. His success really helped me feel great, needless to say, when we arrived at our location he number-closed this girl. This event really made my night.

Thanks everyone for coming out. I had a fantastic time with you all. With everything that is going on I feel so happy, and for the first time, really content with myself. Thanks Jackal for really helping to push me through all those difficult barriers and give me tools to improve myself, I really feel like I am now enjoying this journey rather than enduring it.

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