that may have to do with your mentality that other races are more desirable than others man

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thank you!

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this forum seems so much more helpful and optimistic than other forums

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Hmm it's not a mentality, it's a legitimate observation, doesn't mean that it's going to be true in all cases however, there will be exceptions, also, this stuff about light skinned Indians being better than the darker skinned Indians is for the most part an Indian obsession, that's perhaps why you think it is such a big deal, I have had a lot of women remark over how well tanned I look and all, so it's not like that's the reason, I have seen plenty of darker skinned Indians bang some hot ones and a lot of pale skinned ones without any success.

I still think this pale/dark skin color thing is mostly an Indian obsession, and most Indian women seem obsessed with it as well just like you here, I would give props to the American women for being way more open minded in this regard.

Well maybe White American females but I have had Latinos and Arabs tell me that usually women from their background tend to discriminate more against darker Indian men but hold nothing against the "Bollywood" ones. But hey, you have had success and are dark as you say.

I am a 19 year old virgin but a freaking Wheat Indian, so I guess you are right so far but skin color maybe more important to folks who fall in the Brown range in general.

Anyways I haven't had the chance to show what I got due to where I live. Being a player here can literally, get you killed, it is a religious area bro.

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Yeah i was talking about the White American women, regarding Latinas, I usually don't find a lot of young attractive ones here, and even if I do, I think they mostly stick to their own, so I have never held any interest in going after Latina women, same is the case with Arab women, I don't think we would fit in anyway, most Arab women are very religious, conservative and tend to stick to their own, so I have never tried or even thought I would have any success approaching one of them.

Also, you are right, it's mostly the brown skinned ones that discriminate against skin color, I think it's because of some of their insecurities, to a lot of them, being whiter = better, probably because most of these countries were colonized by White countries in the past, I find that being the case atleast in India, although these days a lot of dark skinned Indian actors are gaining more and more prominence even in the traditional "Bollywood"(which I think is a bunch of crap anyway)

Just try to get out of that area where you live, and go to a bigger and more racially diverse city, since you are only 19, you still got a lot of time, so don't sweat it too much.

Don't think the Middle East was ever colonized.

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It was, multiple times. Greeks and the Romans I believe both setup shop there along with the Crusaders, tho my ancient history isn't that great.

There are two types of minorities.

American Minorities and Real Minority.

American Minorities act look, think, eat, breathe like any white person you know. They usually get their "hot white chicks" within their social circle or extended social circle. Those who are tall, light skinned, and looks almost like a white percent except for certain distinct features often get treated as white anyways so they could easily venture out of social circle without more racial limitations. Those with racially pronounced features get whatever girl they want in social circles if they have good game, but venturing out into the field going for white women would have some trouble especially if the area is not used to seeing minorities.

Real Minorities are minorities who have accents and dont get all the cultural slang, all the mannerisms, and basically dont move, think and act white. Those who look white would have an easier time. Those who have pronounced racial features would have a lot of trouble since they look, think, act, and speak foreign.

Bottomline is you need to be able to act, think, and speak white in order to pick up white chicks otherwise they would just wont be comfortable enough. Their attraction is really based on how attractive you are not your race.

Another important factor is the girl's past experience with minorities. Ive had girls tell me stories about being creeped out by either an old white guy, a mexican guy, indian guys, and black guys not because of their race but because of how creepy they approached. Having those kinds of fears in their head, if you remind her of that terrible situation even a little bit, she will completely go into defense mode.

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Ya well as I said, even though there are some fine White women out there, I love Latinas, Persian, and mixed race women a lot more, and Asian women as well so I am not really the type of Brown guy who would hit on White girls exclusively.

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I would have to disagree about the acting "White" part of it, why should someone act like someone he would never be, no matter how much someone tries to act "White", if he isnt' White, it looks like he's extremely insecure of being in his own skin, I wonder what kind of a woman would find someone attractive who isn't comfortable with what he is in the first place.

One of my best friends in the University was an Indian guy, 5'3" at best perhaps and very very average looking, his GF is this HOT Estonian-American girl that's perhaps 5'8" or so, now that might seem that he's a PUA who has a great game, but trust me, he's just someone who has always been comfortable with who he was, and his GF admitted that she liked him for the exotic element and the element of mystery he brings with him, not just her, I have seen him being hit on my a lot of these "White" women that you said would only find someone who acts white attractive. And oh, he's got an accent too, and he's not the only Indian guy I have seen with an accent, who isn't tall, who isn't extremely good looking yet managed to pull off one of those really beautiful women, I have also seen quite a few Asian men do the same, heck, one of these "White" women even told me once that she as well as a lot of her friends found someone who has a little accent and is different from the typical "White" frat boy very interesting to date and that they should just be that way, instead of pretending to be white.

man, you guys..........

I REALLY need to move out of this town fast!

Anyways I notice that in some places on the internet there is such a heavy population saying Indian men do bad with the ladies and such, why is that?

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Yeah that's kinda true, because they are a very small minority, I mean Indian population in the US is around 1.5%, and even if the majority of them happen to be Indian men, that's like less than 1% of the total population of the men in US, no wonder it will be hard, you have to accept it, while dating an Indian girl might not be a problem at all, dating any other race would be a lot more difficult, also depending on where you live, etc, however, note what I said, it's only going to be difficult, not impossible.

I would like to read some of those forums, do you know any such ones, it would be interesting to see what they say, if your source is Yahoo answers, that's perhaps not the best source of information since I typically see a lot of lunatics out there.

wait, how is it gonna be difficult again?

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