Hey!

I wanted to check with you guys what you do if other guys, maybe your friends, are disturbing you, while you're talking to a set. I have two examples that just happened to me:

1.
Location: party.
So the people at the party were chilling, talking to eachother, before the "real party" with dancing and such begun. There was a really nice HB9 that all the guys wanted to pick up, so I went into the set, disarmed the guys, moved closer to the girl, and talked to her - it was all going well and it looked like I was about to get the girl. The other guys were of course not too happy about this, so they started to throw some popcorn at us, from a couple of meters away. Of course it looked just like a prank, but they were obviously trying to ruin my game. I threw some popcorn back, said something easy to them, but the moment was ruined (still, I n- and kiss-closed the girl 2 hours later..).

2.
Location: beach.
I was at the beach yesterday with my two best friends, and we were about to go for a swim from the bridge. But instead of going there, I started talking to one HB7 and one HB8. Talked for about 2 minutes, and my friends decided to splasch water at me, laughing. Of course, I couldn't show them that I was a bit upset, 'cause it looked like a funny prank, and I would definetly scare away the girls, if I'd been upset at my friends. So a laughed at it too, said like "take it eaaaasy guys, I'm coming..." laughing and went for a swin. I then got back to the girls about 30 min later and went for a swim with them.

What are your suggestions, to get rid of these obstacles?

I had say that they don't matter because they are a great way of showing a chick that you are comfortable in your skin. they wilol never affect your game. trust me the girls know whatr your friends/ guys in the bar are trying to do, It may even work in your favour because iit shows that even your friends can tell taht you are doing something right.

think of it as a good thing. the jealousy should fuel you on and let you know that you are doing great

well not "disarming" other guys might help.. it depends what did you say to "disarm" them, whats worked best for me is including the guys in the conversation then after a little bit say something to the girl something along the lines of hey i really gotta show you something then tell the guys your gunna steal her away for a bit and then you have her in isolation.. if they decide to bother you and do something as childish as throw popcorn at you, say something lighthearted and funny to the girl dont bother with what the guys are doing.. if you remain unaffected theyl rather leave you alone or beileve it or not the girl will attack them herself lol.. hope this helps:)

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