i have written about this girl quite alot lately so apologies if you are getting sick of hearing it but i need to voice it somewhere and better here than too her.

so anyway i broke it off with this girl a month or so ago, before that she was really into me. like mesages everynight, she would tell me she loved me all the time and we would hang out probably four times a week.

then i turned her into a fuck buddy.
after a few weeks of that she said it was too much for her to handle emotionally and we had to stop before she hurt me.
so now we are just friends. i askede her if she would like to be in a relationship with me but she said even though she loved me she could not do it.

so i didnt talk to her for about 3 days. i thought i should give it a little time.
then i started txting her back and forth a little but not much, and then the other day we hung out, while we were hanging out she seemed to be having alot of funny, tickling me flirting, smiling etc etc when i left she messaged me almost instantly.
the next day i went to a university party and so didnt msg her until later that night when she replied they were almost instant and she seemed to be building alot of rapport.
same with the next day, alot of txting alot of personal jokes and nicknames etc
then yesterday she didnt seem to into the txting (she was busy so i dont blame her).

she has also set up a day for us to hang out this week.
she is obviously intereted and her body language betrays her tongue when she tells me she wants to be friends.

what do i do? last time i told her how i felt it failed miserably, but i feel like if i just keep trying to be flirty via message she will get bored and move on.
any advice will be appreciated. thanks.

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You can keep being flirty over text, as long as you set up dates to meet. Obviously everyone gets bored if they just text and never see each other, so what you did was good by setting up a date. I recommend you try to stay away from telling her you like her. It seems like she is trying to stop herself mentally, but physically she wants you. So try and seduce her physically until you can get a kiss close or maybe more.

If you want to date her then I recommend going on dates, etc. without having sex with her but always kissing and stuff, this will create a bond for a relationship and eventually you will have sex but as a couple.

If you wanted to be fuck friends with her again then just escalate kino, and try to tell fun stories of when you two were sex buddies (this will make her think about old times and associate it with fun and positiveness) and eventually you'll end up having sex again after hanging out once or twice.

Of course! Your kiss idea is perfect!
I have been wondering how I can convey interest, not just sexual interest but legitimate interest without looking needy.
Great man thanks for the advice!

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just because my name is safety doesn't mean i like condoms