Many people have problems when approaching.
Most of them are because of limiting beliefs like mine fore example:

1. She is not attractive enough (when she clearly could be a good fun for the night)
2. She don't want me to approach (how can I know that?)
3. I'm not in the right mood
4. ect.

So how do we change that? I googled it, and found this link, that might help others as well.

http://vladdolezal.com/blog/2010/limiting-beliefs/

Best of luck changing your limiting beliefs.

Excellent!

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This is exactly what I need. I always hide behind beliefs such as the ones you stated.

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Yeah I noticed that some of the mPUAs handle this in their ebooks as well, but if you need a free source with an easy walkthrough, this link is really good.

3 second rule boys. Approach the set within 3 seconds of noticing them, there's no time for beliefs and anxiousness then.

put perfectly GameIsOn, if you go within the first three seconds of seeing her it doesnt give you as mutch time to be in your head and rationalize yourself away from talking to her, as a plus it also keeps you from looking like your searching for girls, if your heads spinning in all different directions looking for all the hottest girls in the room then its pretty easy for a woman to see your intentions, but if you walk over as soon as you two make eye contact you come across as more genuine then you would looking around at all the other woman in the room

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Id rather be the one in a relationship instead of some guy id pretend to be...

The 3 second rule is a good one. However I often find myself unable to approach within 3 seconds for a number of reasons. One could be that I can't get within talking range within 3 seconds - i.e. when at a party and I just see her for a second before she disappears in the crowd. I might meet her again later on, and then I want to approach, but the limiting beliefs has done their damage in the meantime.
Another example could be at a dinner-party where you can see each other, but are out of talking-range.

I could go on with examples. Besides working on your limiting beliefs might very well help you in other aspects of life that cannot just be dealt with by using the 3-second rule. Like if you suck at math, presentation, getting up in the morning ect.

the 3 second rule... why not the 5 second rule? it give u more breathing spaces and less pressure!..