Why?

Have you, or anyone you know, ever been rejected by a girl who was attracted to them because they kino'd too quickly? Because in my experience, when a girl likes you, she'll just move your hand or say slow down or not yet, but with a giggle and a smile, and will allow you to keep escalating later anyway. Hence, there is NO downside to pushing kino as fast as possible. On the flip side, kino too slowly and she may get bored, think you're rejecting her or aren't attracted to her, and the interaction will become too much comfort, not enough sexual and become platonic, heading you towards friendzone territory.

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this is so irrelivant, it can be true, it can be false, it can be said out of nervousness, it can be said to test, who fucking cares if it is said, try anyways if you are interested, just escalate to the very end, it either works out, or it doesn't, either way, you will not find out if you don't try, and trust me finding out if it is a yes or a no, is the most rewarding experience, because then you can find out why, and how, as well as get your dick sucked

In this case it seemed he moved a little too fast. I am not advocating going way too slow, but, as a rule, men are the accelerators, women are the brakes and all four put the brakes on him which means there is a flaw in his game somewhere. Going in progression, building comfort is always a sure fire way around these obstacles if you do it quickly enough.

However, you are correct, you have to find a balance between the two.