Alright guys. I just moved to a small city outside of Toronto called Ajax, and I the only contacts I have left here are girls who have children, and I've been to one or two parties, but things aren't progressing like I would like them to.

SO, I came up with an idea after watching a talk by AFC Adam. I want to go sarge with the sole purpose of building a large, good social circle. I don't care about sex, I seriously just want lots of good female friends who are cool.

Now, what would be the best way to go about doing this? I have no problem with AA (well I do, I just don't give a shit), and so I'm thinking of just going completely direct, and stating my intentions, and then running a short routine stack and attempt to get the girls past the hook point and talking to me about themselves.

There are 2 things I need help with though:

1. What is an efficient, non-boring (i.e. interview style) way to find out what the girls like to talk about.
2. when it comes to post #-close stuff, what would be a good strategy for hanging out with them afterwards? Should I just play it exactly like I would with D2's, but sometimes do it with groups, and have the friendship frame from the get-go?

Essentially I want an interesting and varied social life in my new town... and not jumping from sarge to sarge getting laid waiting for a social circle to naturally develop.

Start with small talk and pick up on certain keywords that they bring up and relate it to you. Essentially you don't want it to be back and forth with you saying different things to her.

To build rapport you have to merge her points and yours like a salad. That is the key to making a chick feel like you have something in common.

After you have got the number just arrange to do normal "friend" things like having a cup of coffee every once in a while.

once you have gotten enough female friends and only if you can afford it throw a party and grow your social circle. Just say everyone can bring two and three tag-alongs.

You should try looking into the women with kids because women know other women and they might introduce you.