The last 4 days have been a fucking whirlwind for me.

A girl I used to crush on was out and we got talking again...I had stopped speaking to her after being friend zoned a year ago.

At the end of the night I emailed her saying we shouldnt really speak anymore and go back to how it was as it was a bit of a head fuck as she knew how i felt about her and being friends wasnt good enough

She said that would be a massive shame as she missed talking to me.


The next night she was out again and asked to speak to me somewhere in the club

we talked for about an hour and then she asked if i wanted to come back to her friends house.

I accepted and eventually her friends went to bed leaving us alone

We had a good conversation and I basically told her how i still feel and that i needed to know one way or another if anything would work out as it was silly to keep things so ambiguous.

We ended up kissing and sleeping together on the sofa....i said we couldnt do anything more because i am friends with her older brother who i hang out with alot.


we woke up and more of the same in the morning, i gave her a kiss goodbye in the car before she went home (her friends drove us both home).


She then told her brother what happened and he was pissed off with her and is now ignoring her!

I bbm'd him and he said he wasnt happy with the situation...but we went on a date last night and again we kissed at the cab stand at the end of the night.




fast forward to today


He is still ignoring her and now my bbms

She told me she isnt sure if he will accept things have happened but we both want to meet up again.



The head fuck issues though, are that she was recently dumped by her ex boyfriend and has said to me on the prospect of meeting up soon:

'Yeah I do too, although i need some time to clear my head, so confused about everything'.



I have no idea where I stand from this bbm!!

Help wanted on next move! thanx