I know Ive seen this somewhere else on the forums but Ive been talking to this girl for a while now and the other night texting she told me....

HB. text me tomorrow .
me. it would be easier if you texted me tomorrow. night!
HB. Ok i will! G'night!

sounds good so far. the only problem is she didnt text back the next day or today. so its been two days. Im not really worried to much about it as far as her losing interest or anything because its just texting and people have lives. I just wanna know if i should initiate texting/calling her again even though she said she would do it

Or should i just wait it out because i told her to text me? i think i read somewhere i should just freeze out till she initiates again

And when she does should i mention it jokingly or just ignore it and talk normal?

It's been two days?

Well, hate to break it to you but there isn't just enough attraction on her end.

My advice would be to cut your losses and move on. Enough women in the world to have fun with. And not all of them wait for two days or more before replying.

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well she texted me at noon the third day saying "i thought of you today".

we texted for a while and she wants to see me soon. seems like things figured them self out with me just waiting it out. thanks for the advice anyway

Well, seems like I jumped the shark on this one.

Good luck with her.

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don't wait for girls to text you, them not texting means jack all, be worried when they flake on meet ups, over and over

Girls not texting isn't a big deal.. that's rather easy to comprehend.
The human mind is flakey and it forgets a lot of things + she could have been occupied - so it doesn't mean anything.

Like - however - Pumpington said, be worried that when she doesn't show.. that's gonna be a hardballer.

Just a small hint - when a girl texts you with "I've tought of you today" then be the first one to jump onto a sexual train of escalation! She's hinting to have that sexualness now.. you should provide it.
Also, this sexual escalation is a good way to reduce the chances of her not showing up at the meeting, because that way she's yarning to be with you and feel you.

~LD

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yea dude.. i try not to leave it up to chicks to call me. They tend to worry about a lot of different things. If you tell them you'll call them and then you forget, who's left worrying. you or them?...now your on their minds.

girls play silly games, dont be afraid to take charge and make that extra call or text. it'll payoff when your getting laid

Fuck the whole, she ain't call me, i wont call her game. thats as bad as the waiting three days after a date rule..

Always have the frame, she really just wants me to call her and show some investment.