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good advice in this thread. let me add a personal rant. i am an AFC who just learned to dance..
HOW TO LEARN TO DANCE
rock back and forth to any music you like. after several weeks you will feel the rythm! you learn to feel the music and sway to it. you can sway side to side or bounce up and down. just concentrate on your feelings and keep listening to the music and dont think about how you are moving, just move without thinking and eventually your brain will click and you will feel rythm. then, instead of learning other peoples' moves, it's much easier to play with different muscles of your body and try to express your feelings while you are listening to music through moving your head, shoulders, hips, knees, any muscle you try to move to music will do! eventually you will develop your own moves! thats how i did it. less than a year ago i had no rythm and could not dance and was deathly afraid of the dance floor. then i did what i said above and i discovered i am a talented solo dancer. drunk guys sometimes compliment me on my dancing and people say i move sleak and sexy. it's a major advantage on the dance floor. unfortanately i cannot capitalize on it yet, cause i dont know what to do once i approach a girl, but thats another story. OKAY GOOD START, THE BETTER YOU DANCE THE MORE DHV, WHEN YOU DANCE WITH A GIRL A LOT OF KINO, A LOT OF THE HAND TO THE WASTE, TURN HER AROUND, A KEY MOVE IS YOUR LEG IN BETWEEN HER 2 LEGS RUBBING AGAINST HER PELVIS, A LOT OF CARESSING AND TEASING, SHE HAS TO HAVE FUN, YOU NEED TO MAKE HER FRIENDS HAVE FUN, RESCUE THEM FROM AFCS, AND TURN HER ON(SUPER IMPORTANT)
BREAKDANCERS
breakdancers and pop and lockers who dance in the center of the circle - i never see them get with women at a nightclub. BINGO!people hate them because people want to dance themselves, not watch someone else be an attention whore. NO NECESSARILY TRUE, A LOT OF GIRLS LIKE IT,SPECIALLY THE YOUNGER ONES 18-24 SOMETIMES I GO ON A CIRCLE FOR ABOUT 30 SECONDS TO CALL ATTENTION, AND TO HAVE GIRLS LOOK AT ME, I ONLY DO IT IF I SEE HOT GIRLS CURIOUS ABOUT THE CIRCLE, BUT YES I NEVER SEE THEM HOCKING UP now women do show curiousity about the breakdancers and probably attracted to them,YES but i think they are too intimidated by them. i am no PUA guru, but just never see breakdancers get with girls. HAHAHA, YES SOMETIMES DANCING MONKEYS, I COVER THIS IN ANOTHER THREAT
TAKING CONTROL
Interesting point. Will try that out. Women do seem to give in to drunk idiots who just force them to grind. So maybe after the approach and I am dancing with the girl, I will be more forceful. NOOOOOOOOO, CALIBRATION! KINO, ESCALATE, TURN THEM ON WHILE DANCING WHILE MAKING HER AND HER FRIENDS HAVE FUN, KIND OF LIKE A MALE STRIPPER
APPROACH AFTER IOIs
Ok. I dance solo in the middle of the floor and girls surround me. THEY WANT TO BE OPEN, YOU TAKE TOO LONG THEY WILL THINK YOU LACK CONFIDENCE YOU NEED TO OPEN IN A WAY THAT SHOWS YOU ARE NOT A CREEP YOU ARE JUST HAVING FUN AND YOU ARE FRIENDLY NO HIDDEN INTENT,This does not happen to most other guys.AFCS THAT IS WHY There is groups of girls all around me and more coming. Not all night, but usally around midnight. PICK UP TIME Also, tonight, there was a circle of girls, and one of them kept standing right behind me. I kept standing where I was and took that as an IOI but did not do much with it. I looked at her several times and caught her eye and did something slightly playful and she sort of did something slightly playful back. Thing is, I did not what to do with her, so I just turned away. AS I TOLD YOU, YOU NEED TO WORK ON YOUR INNER GAME AND APPROACH ANXIETY Plus, she was not smiling or opening up to me all the way. MAYBE YOU TOOK TOO LONG SHE LOST INTEREST, WORK ON WHAT I TOLD YOU..
Then closer to 1am, this bar with a dance area and band turned into more of a cockfest and this shy looking solo young girl just started standing next to me. So I said "you look like you are trying to dance with the girl right ahead of you"NOOOOOO TALKING I TOLD YOU THIS BEFORE, YOU TELEGRAPH TOO MUCH INTEREST (it looked like she was trying to grind up to that girl. And she said "oh i am just looking for my friends, they are at the bar" IOD and i said "if you lost your friends, i will be your friend" WEAK and tried to wink at her. she kept standing next to me, but I took a few steps away from her and started looking the other way. She did not come chase me. I'm regretting now that I did not keep talking to her or try to dance with her. NO TALKING JUST DANCE LEARN 60 METHOOD OR GUNWITCHSome other big guy started talking to her and kept replying but being shy about it, but also smiling and did not move away. WEAK
I can get girls to come near me and give me IOIs, but I cannot capitalize on it! When I first walk up to a girl, I get lost and am not sure what to do so that the girls are not sure what I am doing either! EXACTLY, YOU NEED TO IMPROVE YOUR GAME, WORK ON YOUR INNER GAME AND APPROACH ANXIETY FOR THE 50TH TIME, NOOOOOOOOO TALKING PLEASE, DO NOT TALK JUST DANCE WITH THEM... _________________ Learn the proper way to maximize your results in a dancefloor/club environment, check out my blog and youtube channel:
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