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Perhaps, but look at it this way dude, while being a White male might be a gift there, it's only a "gift" i.e, an added incentive, it's not like if you aren't White over there, you are handicapped, you can even out the odds by adding some incentives of your own, don't you think.
Also, if some girl thinks that just being White you are better and being non White you are lesser, screw her, move on to a better and more refined one. If the non White male is from a first world country, you definitely have an advantage. Again, see it's like this, it's not really the skin color that the woman might be obsessed about, she could perhaps have attached a few qualities to the "White" skin colored male, if a non White male happens to possess those qualities that she deems attractive, I would find it rather hard for any woman who has some degree of common sense to outright deny the company of such a person, if she indeed does, then it's apparent that she doesn't have any common sense, you would go no where with such a specimen anyway.
If someone says she only dates White men because of the love towards the skin color or blue eyes, etc etc, you can't do anything, just move on and find a different girl. But I found out through personal experience that most women aren't particular to that degree, I was in Brazil for 3 weeks dude, I will narrate my personal experience if you want, I never had any issues meeting very nice women there, they in fact were very interested in me and I thought one of them was even flirting with me, although regretfully I didn't do anything about it back then. I had a great time there, nothing negative of the sort you mentioned.
please do narrate
Okay, here it goes, I was a good friends with one guy from Brazil during my undergrad in Spain, and he was getting married earlier this year, so I took a 3 week vacation to go attend his marriage, it was in the Southern beach place of Florianópolis, now I didn't really expect anything before I went there except of course meeting my old friend and wishing him good luck on his marriage. I learnt some Portuguese long before I left just to make sure that I wouldn't be totally lost there in case no one spoke English.
So I used to live there in my friends guest house along with a bunch of his relatives and other friends, including some men as well as women, now a lot of these women were single women and very approachable, a lot of them were curious about where I came from because I looked "different" from everyone else and hence I was the exotic one there you could say. We used to have a lot of late night parties, sit around the beach a lot and although most of them could speak English, they were very pleasantly surprised when I could speak to them in some Portuguese, most of them were very excited to know that I traveled all the way from US just to attend his marriage(they didn't know I also went there to see the Amazon rain forest), a lot of them complemented me telling me that I was very handsome and that they loved the shade of my skin(dark skinned), the ladies included the traditional Latinas to blue eyed blondes(Brazil has huge diversity in terms of the looks of the people).
So there it was, a whole lot of fun, partying, good times all around, did some camping too, I never felt for a second that I would have been treated better had I been White, I don't know, since I am not a White guy, I can't say that for sure, but atleast to me, there was nothing lacking there. One of his cousins took such a crush on me that she even wanted to visit me when she came down to US(as told by my friend), I wish I could have spoken to her more back then, but alas, there's still some hope. And no, it isn't true that they have a negative perception about Indian men or anything like that, I haven't felt that either in Brazil or in Spain or Europe for that matter, I observe this curious phenomena only in US to be very honest.
WOW, you know, come to think of it, it might just be the US. So did you much luck with the blondes in Brazil?
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