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PostPosted: Fri Aug 05, 2011 9:19 pm 
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Hey guys,
I'm 18, and honestly, I hate alcohol.
No no, I'm not just saying 'cause "mommy told me it's bad when I was 5", I find it truly disgusting.
This puts me in the situations that in bars, I'm, well, normal and sober. Not that there are many good 18 bars around with normal people.
So this brings me to my question:
Where else can I meet women, even in daytime (but not specifically). In other words, where is a good pickup spot other than bars / nightclubs etc.

One more things:
Where I live, there is no college until I'm 21-22 or so (there is compulsory enrollment to the army, after which many people go abroad for a year), so the campus is not relevant for now...

I'd appreciate your feedback ;)


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 05, 2011 9:30 pm 
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Maybe the Gym or Laundromat?


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 05, 2011 9:42 pm 
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Well, I live in a small town, so the gym is mainly filled with girls I've gone to High School with, which I'm not really in to.
Laundermat is still a bit irrelevant 'cause most people at my age (atleast where I live) are still living at home so their laundry is done there.

This is exactly the problem, I can't seem to think of a good place :P
I thought of malls, but girls seem to hang out there in "flocks" which I have no idea how to do, and I have no friend who I could use as a wingman.


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Game women your not interested in. They have friends and their friends have friends. Great practice and you find new people this way.


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 05, 2011 10:28 pm 
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It doesn't always have to be about talking to a girl for a date/hookup. If you just talk to people you can build connections, which in turn develop into means for meeting even more people. Facebook and other social media seems to lead some people to believe that they actually have 2000 friends, but how many would answer a phone call, or meet up for lunch? Don't dismiss people for no particular reason. Especially if you're at home. Let's be honest, if you're in the same area as your high school district, most women near your age will have gone there or to one of the neighboring schools. I wouldn't suggest you go on a date with a woman you aren't attracted to, but just because they went to a school doesn't mean they behave a certain way.

As for specific locations, well, everywhere! Don't think there is only one or two places where you can go to meet women, sometimes that can keep you from seeing opportunities as you walk down the street. If the venue is appropriate to talk to someone you've never met, it's appropriate to run game. So...basically don't do it at funerals, thats all I can think of.


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Gym is a fantastic place. Just point out a girl's form when she's lifting, or offer to spot. VERY easy kino.


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PostPosted: Fri Aug 05, 2011 10:38 pm 
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It doesn't always have to be about talking to a girl for a date/hookup. If you just talk to people you can build connections, which in turn develop into means for meeting even more people. Facebook and other social media seems to lead some people to believe that they actually have 2000 friends, but how many would answer a phone call, or meet up for lunch? Don't dismiss people for no particular reason. Especially if you're at home. Let's be honest, if you're in the same area as your high school district, most women near your age will have gone there or to one of the neighboring schools. I wouldn't suggest you go on a date with a woman you aren't attracted to, but just because they went to a school doesn't mean they behave a certain way.

As for specific locations, well, everywhere! Don't think there is only one or two places where you can go to meet women, sometimes that can keep you from seeing opportunities as you walk down the street. If the venue is appropriate to talk to someone you've never met, it's appropriate to run game. So...basically don't do it at funerals, thats all I can think of.
No funerals? damn.... :P
Anyways, at a mall, what would I do if there is more than one girl? In that sense, the mall isn't the best place.


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I replied to this question a while ago with another user that posted on the Pua lounge that has the same problem with you with "alcohol".. so i'm gonna share what ive posted to him, with you..





1)Mall
2)Park
3)Beach
3)Grocery Stores
4)Coffee Shop
5)Streets
6)Gym
7)Library


-TheNaturalPlayboy

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The mall and the beach seem sensible, but taking my age into consideration those are more or less the only sensible ones. Sadly, unlike in the US, there aren't any big libraries / book stores like Borders or B&N here.
Anyways, how would I even start hitting on a girl at the mall / beach when she is with a few friends? I've got AA (even though I consider myself confident in almost any other situation).


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