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| AgentBlondie | PostPosted: Sat Aug 06, 2011 1:08 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Dec 01, 2010 4:23 pm Posts: 15 | | What's up!
I've decited to try and go to a bar alone tonight for some sarging.
I'm generally picking up girls at bars since i think people are more willing to socialize there, wich makes it easier for me to do my sarging.
The only problem is i only have a few friends who's got the money or time to go to bars etc so im only out 2 or 3 times a month (been doing my sarging anywhere else when not at bar).
So as i said before, i've decited to try and go to a bar alone tonight for some sarging.
Anyone have some good tips for me before i hit the bars/clubs alone? I really dont have any problems socializing and getting into groups but i guess im asking for some motivation and tips to let this experience be a succes.
So!! is there any PUA's sarging alone in the nightlife? if so, share your experience!
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| blablae | PostPosted: Sat Aug 06, 2011 5:14 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Sat Sep 19, 2009 12:51 am Posts: 40 | | i dont have much experience but lately ive been going out alone to bars
when arrive i go get my drink at the bar and try to talk to the bartender if hes not busy. people come and go to the bar to get their drinks il try to strike up conversations guy or girl.
i basically try to talk to people so i dont feel or look all alone. after that its same as usual if u see the girl u want go talk to her or open her set.
when people ask me who i am with or if im alone i respond with : y im alone my friends dont go out much blabla or u can joke and say u have no friends. i really think it does not matter as long as you show confidence and they can see ur a genuine nice person.
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| Crimsonian | PostPosted: Sat Aug 06, 2011 5:27 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Tue Dec 21, 2010 7:21 am Posts: 60 Website: http://colonelcrimson.wordpress.com Location: Colorado | | I'd say the three-second rule becomes your best friend when sarging solo. Without a group of friends to establish social proof, you will need to do your approaches early and often. I like the suggestion to chat up the bartender a little bit. I'd also suggest to talk to the first moderately cute girl you see. Go in there, throw out your best opener, and game on. If you ever watched The Pickup Artist on VH1, you'd see that Mystery was always impressed with any guy who went straight up to a set as he entered the bar. Social proof increases right away and it gets you into a socializing mindset.
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| NonStopReaper | PostPosted: Sat Aug 06, 2011 5:27 pm | |
| Offline | | Dedicated Member |  | Joined: Mon Dec 04, 2006 2:49 am Posts: 625 Location: Tokyo, Japan (grew up in Socal) | | well , when i go out by myself to a bar, i get to know the staff first. infact i would even go as far as working the staff that whole night rather than trying to pick up anyone else. for these reason.
1) you get to know the staff and make new friends and you get hook ups
2) it will feel comfortable going out by yourself cause now you got friends who work there
3) they might even introduce you to some friends that come into the bar themselves.
4) in other people eyes you are someone of importance because you have ties with the staff. So just go out, get a feel for the bar and if you like it, start making friends with the staff. On another note. This also could be a place you take a chick to chill with and having you have friends in the staff gives you brownie points when you have a chick with you.
when i go out by myself i have friend that work at the club or bar i go to so i get free drinks and it make sit possible for me to pick up other girls because of the raport i have with them. _________________ "Live life to the fullest, never look back, remember No regrets" J.f
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